Thursday, September 03, 2015

Resisting Gossip: Winning the War of the Wagging Tongue



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Thursday, October 30, 2014

2 Sermons on Resisting Gossip by Jim Stewart

I love this!

This week while running the logsplitter to get us ready for Winter, I listened to two really good messages on resisting gossip by Pastor Jim Stewart of North Avenue Alliance Church, in Burlington Vermont:

    Gossip: A Community Killer

    Gossip: Don't Pass It On

Both messages are part of his ongoing series on being "Lonely in a Crowd." People are more technologically connected to each other than ever before and yet report feeling more lonely than ever before. Pastor Jim explains how Jesus is the answer to this problem. In these two messages, he identifies gossip as a community killer, defines it in terms recognizable to readers of Resisting Gossip with a focus on motivation, and lays out strategies for resisting this temptation ranging from very direct to very indirect.

Pastor Jim has read and recommends Resisting Gossip, but he doesn't merely repeat it. He has studied the biblical teaching and presents it in his own words, with his own stories, and in his own very engaging style. I especially enjoyed his unpacking and application of these phrases from 1 Corinthians 13 for resisting gossip: "Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." I also thought his explanation of idolatry in our gossip motivations was really well put, "Gossip serves as a substitute for God at that moment."

What a privilege it is to hear how Resisting Gossip is being used! I'm so encouraged that pastors are reading my work and then teaching their flocks what the Bible says about gossip. I pray that churches would be strengthened and biblical community flourish as we grow in our understanding of God's Word.



Today is the last day for Westminster Bookstore's fantastic sale on resources for resisting gossip.


Wednesday, October 29, 2014

The Definition of Gossip and the Art of Pastoring

Recently, I had an email conversation with a wise pastor who had some good practical questions about how to use my definition of gossip in pastoring people. Our interaction demonstrated a few things to me. First, that this is an important thing to be thinking about because it involves real people in real situations. Second, sometimes there are no easy answers. It's an art not a science. Third, pastoring is a terrific privilege and worth the hard work of learning to love people well.

I asked my new friend if I could post our conversation for others to read, and he said yes so long as we kept it anonymous. We don't want to gossip about those who might be gossiping! Below is a lightly edited version. Chime in, too, if you like, in the comments below.

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Hi, Pastor Matt,

I have a read and watched many of your resources and am thankful for your ministry to the church. I have a couple questions on gossip and would love to hear your thoughts if you have some time:
  • Is it gossip for people to tell me (as a pastor) things in a counseling session? If not why would that be different than one friend coming to another friend to receive counsel? 
  • For that matter is sharing things in counseling, or in small group settings when people share their personal history or testimony in general about family history, conflict, etc. gossip? 
  • Is it gossip to share parts of our story that involve others negatively? A woman in our church often talks with other gals sharing her experience of abuse by her ex-husband. But is she gossiping about him in order to minister to others? 
  • Is it gossip to tell someone to watch out for another person because of danger? Paul seems to do this with various people. If it’s not gossip does that mean one single gal telling another single gal “I wouldn’t date that guy because he did…”? 
  • Can spouses share everything with one another since they are one or is that still gossip? 
  • Last one: if there is distance of relationship does it not counted as gossip? For instance, if someone shares with their friend about how they struggle with their Mom’s trying to be involved in their parenting is it okay to share that since the friend doesn’t know the mom at all and it doesn’t become divisive. 
If your able, thank you in advance, if not no worries.

Pastor Anonymous

***

Pastor Anon,

Great questions! Thanks for asking.

The short answer to all of them is, "It depends." It could be sinful gossip in any of those cases, but it might not be, especially depending upon motivations and how the information sharing was conducted (carefully and in love or carelessly, recklessly, and divisively?).

I've written a brief article about this on my blog, "So, Is This Gossip?" that might be helpful to you.

After reading that, let me know what you think.

Blessings,

-Matt

***

Hi Matt,

Thanks for the quick response. I appreciate it.

I had read that blog and I think I’m still left with questions. I’m sure I’m looking for a hard fast rule that simply doesn’t exist.

Most all of the instances I listed are done in a hidden way so that part of the definition is present. However, the “bad heart” seems hard to define. I think many times the way people defend their (potential) gossip is by saying “I wasn’t doing it to harm anyone I just needed counsel.” While that may be true it can still cause harm. In addition “bad heart” might not be trying to harm another person but rather trying to make ourselves look, appear, feel good, etc. So…I guess maybe a follow up question would be how would you define bad heart in these contexts? And isn’t it possible to do something that’s not from a bad heart but still has bad effects and thus we should refrain to begin with? I don’t know the answers to these…want to help folks not gossip, and not participate in it in my role as a pastor but also don’t want to draw unnecessary and even harmful lines in the sand.

Thanks for listening,

Pastor Anonymous

***

Dear Anony,

I understand. I went looking for those hard and fast rules when I did my biblical research and was disappointed to not find them.

The hard and fast rule we do have is that if we are loving those whom we are talking about and loving those to whom we are talking then we aren't going to be gossiping. What's difficult about that is that we can fool and justify ourselves and others can fool and justify themselves to us.

For ourselves, the more we are aware of our sinful tendencies and the biblical truth that undoes them, the more able we can be to see our own sin and turn away from it. That's the focus of my book. It's written to those who want to resist gossip in their own lives.

In ministry to others, we have to both (1) try not to judge others motives when they are doing something that looks, at first glance, unloving and sinful, and at the same time, (2) be discerning of possible motives that would be sliding a conversation into a dangerous place. We can really tell a lot about why someone is talking about someone else negatively by how they do it. Does it appear to be just someone running someone else down? Do we get facts and story that doesn't help anyone? Is there an attempt to provide alternate explanations for someone else's behavior or do they seem to be jumping to conclusions? Are the warnings being offered to others careful and nuanced based on facts or cutting and rash and based on feelings or hearsay? Is there evidence of the Golden Rule at work in this conversation or is it one-sided? In a conflict, has person A gone to person B, or are they talking about it with people C through Z who don't reasonably need to know any of these facts? Is there an obvious true, constructive, loving purpose to this conversation or is it aimless, careless, entertaining? You're right that our bad hearts may not be malicious to the one we are talking about but they might be careless and not thinking about the one we are talking about. That's a lack of love, as well.

Our pastoral response needs to be in proportion to what we discern is going on. If someone is spreading bad information, it's more cut and dried. If someone is calling families one-by-one in the church about a conflict to make sure that everyone knows all the details and won't go directly to the subjects of the talk, that's more obvious. But a few of your case studies call for more discernment.

Is that helpful? I could write more, but I'm trying to give the principle and let you work it out in your own practice.

-Matt

***

This is good Matt, thanks for helping me to continue to think through this. Appreciate the time very much so.

- Anonymous

***

You're welcome. It's a privilege to have gotten to study this on this level and share with others what I've been learning.

Blessings on you and your church family.

-Matt





Westminster Bookstore's fantastic sale on all resources for Resisting Gossip ends tomorrow.


Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Gospel-Centered Counseling by Bob Kellemen

I'm currently reading the new book from Bob Kellemen, Gospel-Centered Counseling: How Christ Changes Lives.

So far, it's really good. Bob, the executive director of the Biblical Counseling Coalition, and a prolific author is well-suited to write this entry-level textbook for equipping biblical counselors.

In the book, he addresses the biblical counselor’s foundational question:

“What would a model of biblical counseling look like that was built solely upon Christ’s gospel of grace?”

And then he breaks that question into 8 ultimate life questions and briefly unpacks how the Bible answers them:

1. The Word: “Where do we find wisdom for life in a broken world?”

2. The Trinity/Community: “What comes into our mind when we think about God?” “Whose view of God will we believe—Christ’s or Satan’s?”

3. Creation: “Whose are we?” “In what story do we find ourselves?”

4. Fall: “What’s the root source of our problem?” “What went wrong?”

5. Redemption: “How does Christ bring us peace with God?” “How does Christ change people?”

6. Church: “Where can we find a place to belong and become?”

7. Consummation: “How does our future destiny with Christ make a difference in our lives today as saints who struggle against suffering and sin?”

8. Sanctification: “Why are we here?” “How do we become like Jesus?” How can our inner life increasingly reflect the inner life of Christ?”

I think this book would serve well those who don't know where to start in both understanding what biblical counseling is and how to practice it. I think that counseling students in Bible colleges and seminaries would especially benefit from reading it. Recommended.

Monday, October 27, 2014

More Sweet Tweets

As the fantastic Westminster Bookstore sale continues, I've seen some more neat tweets about our Resisting Gossip resources--so encouraging!











Sunday, October 26, 2014

[Matt's Messages] "The Worst News"

“The Worst News”
All Roads Lead to Romans
October 26, 2014 :: Romans 3:1-20 

This is the sixth message in our series, and we’re almost to the good stuff.

We’re in the “bad news section” of the book of Romans.

In chapter one, we learned that Paul was unashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

He loves the gospel and loves to share it. He wants to share it deeply with the believers in Rome. The gospel is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes.

And that power saves because in the gospel the righteousness of God is revealed.

A righteousness that is by faith from first to last.

A righteousness that we need. And that comes to us by faith.

But to understand this gospel, this good news, Paul has to take us first to the bad news. Remember this?

What’s the bad news?

The bad news is that we have a righteousness problem. People are un-righteous.

And because of our unrighteousness the wrath of God is coming.

Romans 1:18 – “The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness...”

We’ve ruined everything.

We’ve exchanged God for stuff. We’ve worshiped the creation instead of the Creator.

Even though God is plainly there in every beautiful leaf outside, human beings suppress the truth about God and reject Him.

And sin.

And sin, and sin, and sin.

It doesn’t matter if they have the Bible, they have creation, and that’s enough to condemn them when they reject the message of creation.

And then last time we studied chapter two.

And in chapter two, Paul turns around and points the finger at Jews.

The Jews, who had the Bible, were tempted to think that they were exceptions to what Paul was saying in chapter one.

“Yes, those dirty Gentiles are sinners. But we’re the Jews.”

“We have the Law of Moses. We have circumcision. We are pretty good people. We’re not like them.”

“We have a birthright and blessings.”

And Paul says, “No. You, too, are under sin.”

Being pretty good is not enough.
Having the Law is not enough.
Being a Jew is not enough to escape the wrath of God.

God is not impressed with your judging the Gentiles because you who pass judgment do the very same things!

And God does not play favorites. It’s not whether or not you possess the Law. It’s whether or not you obey the Law, live the Law, and you have not! Nobody does.

It’s not enough to be circumcised on the outside. You have to have it on the inside.

The Jews do not get a pass.

They, too, are under sin.

We called that last message, “The Even Worse News.”

I’ll bet you can guess the title of this week’s sermon.

It’s called, “The Worst News.”

Before we can get the Best News Ever, we need to see how low we can go.

***

If you were going to try to get some Christians to get along with each other, what would you say to them? Where would you start?

I said this week on Facebook that I’m tired of death. I had a friend from college whose wife died this week of Cystic Fibrosis and Enterovirus. We’ve all lost someone recently, I feel that.

But I’m not just tired of death. I’m tired of conflict. The world is at war. There is so much conflict all around us. And it’s not just out there in the world. Christians are at conflict so much with other Christians.

I can think of 3 good friends right now that are pastors who are experiencing a high level of church conflict. And I’m trying to be a good friend to them, but it’s wearying for me, and I’m not even in the conflict!

And that’s out there. Even in as sweet a church as we have with 122 years of gospelicious history, we can have conflicts with each other. We can grate on one another. We can stop being patient and kind with one another. We can fail to love each other.

So, here’s the question again. If you were tasked with convincing Christians to get along with each other, where would you start? What would say?

The apostle Paul starts with SIN.

Remember, he’s writing to the Jews and the Gentiles who are both now Christ-followers in Rome. There is tension between these two groups of Christians, the Jewish Christians and the Gentile Christians.

And Paul wants to help them to relate to one another in peace and unity.

So, he starts by establish that they are both sinners. Both Jews and Gentiles are equally under the power of sin.

That’s what we’ve seen so far. The Gentiles are sinners inviting the wrath of God even though they know better deep down inside. The Jews are sinners inviting the wrath of God even though they know better because they have the Law.

I almost titled this message, “In the Same Boat.”

Jew and Gentile are in the same boat. The same unrighteous boat.

That’s where Paul has gotten us so far and where he’s going to pound on us in verses 9 through 18.

But first, he’s got to bring up a question or really a series of questions.

Here’s the first question. V.1

“What advantage, then, is there in being a Jew, or what value is there in circumcision?”

Quick. What do you think, knowing what I just said and what chapter 2 was all about, do you think Paul will say?

I would guess, “No advantage in a being Jew.” But he says (v.2), “Much in every way! First of all, they have been entrusted with the very words of God.”

Now, Paul is not saying that the Jews have a salvation leg up on the Gentiles.

But he is saying that it is a wonderful thing, definitely an advantage, to have the words of God.

It was a blessing to be a Jew. They had so much. We’ll see more about that in Romans chapter 9.

It wasn’t something to trust in. Don’t trust in your blessings! But they are blessings.

Especially this one–to be entrusted with the very words of God.

The oracles of God.

The commands, the story, the songs, the promises!

“The very words of God.”

You know, for those of us who are Christians today, that’s a big advantage we have.

Are we taking advantage of it?

Yesterday, I lost my Bible. Pretty embarrassing thing for a pastor to do.

I looked all over and eventually Cindy Green told me where it was via Facebook. It was in this pew over here.

Now, that was my Sunday School Bible. The one I use for studying my lesson and going to class.

But what if I had gone a whole week without any Bible and not realized it until a week later?

Isn’t it an amazing thing that I could own a Bible that I just use for Sunday School, and that I have a whole shelf of them in my office. And multiple Bibles on a database on my computer? And access to even more Bibles online?

How many Bibles do you have? How many have you read this week?

“The very words of God.” What a blessing to have! But are we taking advantage of it?

The Jews, in the main, did not. Paul asks his next question. V.3

“What if some did not have faith [in the very words of God]? Will their lack of faith nullify God's faithfulness?”

Now, you’ve got to understand what Paul is doing here. Paul is arguing here with some invisible people. They are in Paul’s mind. They are people he’s encountered again and again as he’s preached his gospel. They have objections. They have questions. They have arguments.

I’m going to call them the “but, but, but” people.

“But, but, but.” “What about? What about? What about?”

These folks have questions, objections to what Paul is teaching. And Paul brings their questions into his letter to interact with their arguments.

It’s a very effective way of teaching if you can follow it.

I confess that I can’t always follow Paul, and sometimes my brain hurts when I try.

But let’s try to follow him and see where he leads.

Here’s what I think he’s saying. Some people point to the major failure of the Jews to believe the promises of God and keep their end of the covenant as proof that God isn’t keeping His promises.

“What if some did not have faith? Will their lack of faith nullify God's faithfulness?”

What is the answer to that one?

Uh uh.

Paul has a favorite little phrase which in Greek is “may genoito.” The King James version translates it, “God forbid!”

Back in the 90's we would say, “As if?!”

Today, they say, “Seriously?”

I don’t think so.

The NIV often translates it, “May it never be.”

Not in a 1,000 years. Here in verse 4, the NIV translates it, “Not at all!”

“Not at all! Let God be true, and every man a liar. As it is written: ‘So that you may be proved right when you speak and prevail when you judge.’”

Even if every single Jew turned out to not believe the promises, even Abraham himself, God will still be true. God will still keep His promises.

Just like Psalm 51 says, God will be proved to be right when He speaks and prevail when He judges.

God hasn’t failed. And He won’t fail. We’re going to find out that even though it looks in the short run like God’s promises haven’t been keeping up, they certainly will. Paul is going to explain this further in chapter 9 when we get there.

But God is righteous. And it comes out even as He judges the unrighteousness of His chosen people, the Jews.

But that leads to another question.  (Do you see how this works?) V.5

“But if our unrighteousness brings out God's righteousness more clearly, what shall we say? That God is unjust in bringing his wrath on us?”

I think Paul means, that if the Jew’s unrighteousness has a certain usefulness to God in highlighting how righteous He is because they failed so miserably, then maybe God is unjust to be mad at them. They were set up for failure to show off God’s righteousness.

What would you say to that?

Paul doubles up his negative response to this question. First he says, (v.5), “(I am using a human argument.)”

In other words, I’m talking like a fool. I am being stupid on purpose. V.6

“Certainly not! If that were so, how could God judge the world?”

That’s the same Greek expression, “may genoito.” Seriously? That’s your question?

“If that were so, how could God just the world?”

It’s just an absurd thought. God is just. He doesn’t do anything wrong. V.7

“Someone might argue, ‘If my falsehood enhances God's truthfulness and so increases his glory, why am I still condemned as a sinner?’ Why not say–as we are being slanderously reported as saying and as some claim that we say–‘Let us do evil that good may result’? Their condemnation is deserved.”

Some people are saying that this is where Paul’s gospel leads you. If you believe the gospel of grace, then you might as well do evil that good will come of it.

And that God is unjust to condemn you for sinning because you’re a sinner! It’s just what you are!

Paul doesn’t even bother to argue with them. He just says, “Their condemnation is deserved.”

It’s not worth an answer.

Now in chapter 6, we’re going to see that Paul actually does do some answering of that question. But not because it has merit.

Here’s point #1 of just 2 this morning.

#1. WE CAN’T WIGGLE OUR WAY OUT OF OUR RIGHTEOUSNESS PROBLEM.

When Paul said in chapter one that people are without excuse, he meant it.

We cannot argue our way out of our righteousness problem.

Our problem is that we are unrighteous.

And there is no wiggle room that comes from trying to nullify God’s faithfulness or say that God is unjust to judge us in our unrighteousness because of course we’re sinners.

There is not “but, but, but!” “What about?” “What about?”

I think that a lot of people expect to get into heaven on a technicality.

There’s gotta be some wiggle room.

“Well, sure, hell exists for Satan and Hitler and Osama bin Laden, but I’m not going there.

I’m sure that God isn’t going to sentence me. We’ll work something out.

He grades on the curve, right?

Isn’t there some small print that says that Americans all get in?

Or church-goers?

Well, what if billions of people rejected Jesus. Would they all go to Hell?

I have a hard time believing that.

I don’t think that we’re all as bad as what you’re saying here. I think we must be missing something.”

There is no wiggle room. No arguing ourselves into Heaven.

No lawyering.

No loopholes.

No excuses.

So in verse 9, Paul comes back to what he was talking about in verse 1.  Is there advantages to being a Jew? Yes and No. Yes, it’s a blessing to have the Word. But verse 9...

“What shall we conclude then? Are we [Jews] any better? Not at all!”

Not in any way that saves.  I’ve already shown you this. V.9

“We have already made the charge that Jews and Gentiles alike are all under sin.”

There’s no escaping this truth.

Sin is universal. We’re all in the same boat. I don’t care if you are a Jew or a Gentile, you are “under sin.” Under it’s power. Sin is powerful. It’s not just something you do but something that has a grip on you.

And feel the universalness of it. Feel the “all” as Paul begins to quote verse after verse from the Old Testament. Probably from memory. He just reaches back in to his brain and brings out quote after quote about how people are. V.10

“As it is written: ‘There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands, no one who seeks God. All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one.’”

Do you feel it?

It comes out in their words. V.13

“‘Their throats are open graves [you can see the corpse in there!]; their tongues practice deceit.’ ‘The poison of vipers is on their lips.’ ‘Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness.’”

And more than words. Actions. V.15

“‘Their feet are swift to shed blood; ruin and misery mark their ways, and the way of peace they do not know.’ ‘There is no fear of God before their eyes.’”

That’s what people are like.

There’s no getting around it.

As wonderful as people can be, and there are some pretty nice folks out there. Some are better than others.

As wonderful as people can be, this is what is true.

‘There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands, no one who seeks God. All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one.’”

Jew or Gentile. V.19

“Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, so that every mouth may be silenced and the whole world held accountable to God.”

No wiggle room.

The Old Testament has made it clear.

And if you’re a Jew who thinks that all of those passages were just about wicked Gentiles, you haven’t been paying attention.

“...whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, so that every mouth may be silenced [no more arguments, no more defense, no more ‘but, but, but’] and the whole world held accountable to God.”

No wiggle room.

And here’s the worst news of all.

#2. WE CAN’T WORK OUR WAY OUT OF OUR RIGHTEOUSNESS PROBLEM.

I mean you might say, “Okay, I’ll stop arguing and get to work. I’ll fix this problem. I’ll be good. I’ll do the Law. I’ll do whatever it says. I’ll do the sacrifices. I’ll do the circumcision. I’ll do the feast days. I’ll do the Ten Commandments. I’ll do all 613 commandments in the Exodus, Leviticus, and Deuteronomy. I’ll get right to work. You’ll see!”

Verse 20.

“Therefore no one will be declared righteous in his sight by observing the law; rather, through the law we become conscious of sin.”

We can’t work our way out of our sin problem.

The wrath of God is coming, and we can’t dig ourselves out of the holes we have dug for ourselves!

The Jews had the Law and they didn’t keep it.

Nobody keeps it.

No one will be justified in God’s sight by works of the Law.

The best the Law will do is show you what kind of a sinner you are.  Paul will say more about that in chapter 7.  “Through the law we become conscious of sin.”

But law-keeping will not solve your righteousness problem.

If it would, then we wouldn’t have needed Romans 2.

Here’s bad news:

We are bad and God is mad.

Here’s the even worse news:

We have no excuse and no wiggle room and can’t trust in our birthrights or our blessings.  Our condemnation is deserved.

Here’s the worst news of all:

We can’t work ourselves out of this problem.

We can’t solve it on our own.

On our own, we are doomed.

Praise God, we’re not on our own!

I’m not going to explain this next paragraph, but I’m going to read it to you. Look at verse 21.

“But now a righteousness from God, apart from law, has been made known, to which the Law and the Prophets testify. This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood. He did this to demonstrate his justice, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished–he did it to demonstrate his justice at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus.”

We’ve finally made it back to the Good News!

It’s so good because it answers everything that the Worst News threatened.

We don’t need wiggle room! We have Jesus.

We don’t need to work ourselves out of our righteousness problem, because Jesus’ work solved our righteousness problem!

And now we’re all in the same boat–all of us who believe are in the same boat.

The salvation boat.

With Captain Jesus.

He turns around the worst of news to make it the good news–the gospel.

Have you come to believe the gospel?

Do you understand the bad news?  Do you understand your desperate need?

Do you understand how Jesus is the Savior you desperately need?

If you do, then receive Him as your Savior. Your rescuer. Your redeemer.

And if you already have, then praise Him each and every day all day long that He’s solved the problem you never could.

“Pardon for Sin and a Peace that Endureth.”

Pardon for sin?!  Not wiggling out from under it on a technicality.

Not digging out from under it through many good works.

But that burden of sin taken away because of what Jesus did for you and that gift of righteousness placed on your account all because of the faithfulness of Jesus Christ.

Great Is His Faithfulness.

***

Messages in this Series

01. All Roads Lead to Romans
02. I Am Not Ashamed of the Gospel
03. The Bad News
04. Hope for Holy Sexuality
05. The Even Worse News

Saturday, October 25, 2014

Thursday, October 23, 2014

Fantastic Prices on "Resisting Gossip Together" Packs at WTSBooks.com

I am humbled by the strong affirmation of our new Resisting Gossip resources by the folks at Westminster Bookstore.

Today, they announced their special sale prices in their e-newsletter, including a 5/5 pack of Resisting Gossip and Resisting Gossip Together at 47% off the retail price and $36 less than what it would cost on Amazon to buy them!


I was so encouraged by the letter by a WTS staff member included in the special offer. He said:



Amen. May it be so, to God's glory.

"Songs in the Night" Live & Acoustic by the Gray Havens

Our favorite band has done it again. Dave and Licia Radford have given us another music video in advance of their new album's release on January 6th.

It's live and acoustic, and you can just about feel the heat coming off that fire!