Sunday, November 30, 2025

“Queen Esther’s Banquet” [Matt's Messages]

“Queen Esther’s Banquet”
Where Is God? - The Tale of Queen Esther
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
November 30, 2025 :: Esther 7:1-10  

We have finally reached “Queen Esther’s Banquet.”

It’s actually Queen Esther’s Second Banquet, isn’t it? Because she put one on in chapter 5, as well. But this is the one that everything in this story has been driving towards. This is the banquet where Queen Esther is planning to reveal her big secret and to plead for her life and for the survival of her people.

Queen Esther has a secret and that is that she is a Jew. Very few people know this. You and I know this, but Xerxes I the King of Persia also known as Ahasuerus (to whom Esther is married!) does not know this about her. 

You and I know this, and the Jews in the city of Susa in the fifth century BC (who have been fasting for her three whole days and nights) know this, but their archenemy, Haman (boo/hiss) does not know this.

We know that Esther has another name, Hadassah, but most people in the kingdom only know her Persian name, Esther, the Star Queen. Because her cousin Mordecai who raised her ever since her parents died had told her to keep her Jewish identity a secret...until now. But now things are desperate. Now it seems that it’s time to speak up and speak out and speak for her people, the Jews.


Because the Jews are in danger. Mordecai has angered the Grand Vizier Haman by refusing to fall before him in honor. And Haman was so angry that he conspired to kill, not just Mordecai but all of Mordecai’s people throughout the Persian kingdom–from India to Ethiopia which included all of Israel.

Haman slyly manipulated Xerxes into authorizing the extermination of the Jews on a single day nearly a year from now, the 13th day of Adar, which was chosen “at random” by casting the pur, which was like rolling the dice. Haman offered Xerxes ten thousand talents of silver for the royal treasury to get this done. Probably from taking the Jew’s stuff after killing them. Something like two thirds of the kingdom’s incoming budget for the genocide of the Jews.

Xerxes had hardly paid attention to the details and thoughtlessly gave over his royal ring for Haman to authorize the decree “to destroy, kill and annihilate all the Jews–young and old, women and little children–on a single day” (Esther 3:13).

Things had become desperate now for the Jewish people. They were all in danger. And so Mordecai, grieving in sackcloth and ashes, had urged Esther to use whatever influence she had with her husband the king to try to stop this murder of all of her kinsmen throughout the world.

Who knows? Maybe, just maybe, Esther had been elevated to this royal position for such a time as this. For such a time as Queen Esther’s Banquet.

This banquet was Esther’s idea of how to persuade King Xerxes to spare her people. Esther knows how much her man loves a banquet. He gave two of them in chapter 1. It’s how she ended up being the queen! One of the king’s banquets lasted half of a year! Ahasuerus loves to party hardy!

But how to get him there? That was the first problem. Because Esther wasn’t allowed to just walk up to him and talk to him. She had to be invited, and she hadn’t been invited for thirty days. Esther had not been the flavor of the month. But she decided to go anyway, and if she died, well, then she died. But she was going to do what was needed, what was right, no matter what.

And the king had...welcomed her into his presence  (whew!), and asked her what she wanted. What was her request?

Esther requested...his presence at a banquet. Every banquet (every mishteh) in this book (and there are like ten of them!) is consequential.

Esther invited the king and the enemy Haman to a banquet in chapter 5 where they ate and drank, and where the king asked her a second time what Esther really wanted. And she said, “I’ll tell you (and Haman) tomorrow at banquet number two.”

And that’s where we are in chapter 7, “Queen Esther’s (Second) Banquet.”

But before we got there, there was this whole chapter 6 thing!

What a week these people are having!!!

Because just yesterday on the way home from the first banquet Haman had seen Mordecai who was still refusing to fall down in honor before him and didn’t even seem scared by him. Mordecai just stared at Haman as he went by. And that had so steamed up Haman that he decided that night to have a gallows built (probably a giant wooden pole for impaling someone) that was 50 cubits high which translates to 75 feet tall! The tallest thing in the city of Susa, taller than the palace itself. Ridiculously high, a skyscraper of death to make an example of Mordecai.

And Haman was going to ask the king for permission to kill Mordecai on these gallows that day. Not waiting for next year’s Jewish genocide. But today, right before Queen Esther’s Banquet.

Do you remember this? For some of you this might be the first time you’ve heard this story.


I wonder why?! So many things happening at once, all moving towards this crucial day.

The king could not sleep, so he made his servants read to him from the chronicles of his reign, and they just so happened (wink, wink) to read about a time a few years back when Mordecai had thwarted a plot to assassinate this king. Almost everybody had forgotten about it until that sleepless night.

And they realized that Mordecai had never been honored for saving the king’s life, and so he decided to do something about it right then and there. Remember this?

He decided to ask Haman, “What should be done for the man the king delights to honor?” Thinking Mordecai. But Haman, thinking Haman, suggested a royal robe, a royal horse, and a royal parade. And the king said, “Yeah, do that for Mordecai the Jew.”

One of, if not the, funniest chapter(s) in the whole Bible! Keagan just read it to us. Haman has to lead Mordecai around town on a royal horse in a royal robe and say to everyone, “This is what is done for the man the king delights to honor!”

And, all of a sudden, Haman’s plans seem to go sideways. Haman goes home in grief from that moment, and his family and friends all tell him that he’s doomed. “You will fall.” And the king’s servants come and grab him to get to Queen Esther’s Banquet on time.

Do you feel how desperate this banquet is? How precarious this situation has become? Everybody is on edge!

The king has not slept in over 24 hours. How does that make you feel? Rough, right? Hard to make good decisions when you haven’t slept. Emotions are raw. It’s easy to get angry when you’re tired. And Xerxes isn’t known for controlling his emotions in the first place.

And Haman has just had to honor his enemy all over town and been told by his closest friends that he himself is going down. He was filled with grief, and he’s probably nervous and anxious, like a trapped animal.

And Esther? How does she feel at this banquet? It doesn’t say, but I would assume that she is scared to death. Maybe she’s heard the wild story about what happened to cousin Mordecai this morning on the horse. That would be encouraging. Maybe she hasn’t heard. We don’t know. Regardless, she didn’t know what was going to happen next.

This is a very precarious situation. Esther is laying a table for two very dangerous men. One is her sworn enemy (even if he doesn’t know it!), and he may have some terrible trick up his sleeve. He may be cornered, but he’s still dangerous.

And the other man is unpredictable and unreliable. We have seen over and over again that Xerxes is not a good man. And she has been basically lying to him for their whole marriage. Keeping her deepest identity secret.

But Esther has gotten these two dangerous men to her banquet, and she’s going to try her dead-level best to make a difference for her people.

Esther chapter 7, verse 1.

By the way, let’s do this with the name of Haman this time. As the Jews have done for millennia, we have been drowning out the name of Haman with noises like boos and hisses at times as we read this tale.

Let’s do it in verse 1 and verse 6 and verse 10 today. The beginning, the middle, and the end of chapter 7. I’ll remind you. 

And here’s your first reminder. Let’s read verse 1.

“So the king and Haman went to dine with Queen Esther, and as they were drinking wine on that second day, the king again asked, ‘Queen Esther, what is your petition? It will be given you. What is your request? Even up to half the kingdom, it will be granted’” (vv.1-2).

That’s the third time that he’s asked. He might not ask again.

He knows that something is up. He knows the Esther has more on her mind than food and wine. He doesn’t know what it is, but he knows there is something. She’s gotten all dressed up in all of her royal robes. She has laid out quite a spread yesterday and today. Turkey, mashed potatoes, gravy, cranberry relish. (Oh, no, wait that was us on Thursday.) We don’t know what food was on her table, but it was the best of the best. She had pulled out all of stops for two days.

And the best wine. And they’re all laughing (maybe nervously?) and enjoying themselves. Maybe Haman is beginning to relax a little. Maybe his day is going to turn around again. Maybe he can still get Mordecai dead by bedtime if he plays his cards right. He’s obviously still in the king’s good graces and Esther’s, because here he is the only other guest at Queen Esther’s Banquet!

And the king wants to know, “What is your request? I will grant it. I want to be seen as incredibly generous. Just say the word.”

Everything in her story has been leading up to this moment. This is the “such a time.” And Esther does not chicken out. She does not suggest a third banquet. She clears her throat and courageously pleads. Verse 3.

“Then Queen Esther answered, ‘If I have found favor with you, O king, and if it pleases your majesty, grant me my life–this is my petition. And spare my people–this is my request. For I and my people have been sold for destruction and slaughter and annihilation. If we had merely been sold as male and female slaves, I would have kept quiet, because no such distress would justify disturbing the king’” (vv.3-4).

I have three things I want to point out in Esther chapter 7–three things we can clearly see and learn from at Queen Esther’s Banquet–and here’s the first one:

#1. TRUE COURAGE.

I don’t know if I could have done what she did. I would hope I could, but I could also see myself chicken out.

“Let me get back to you on that, King. I’ll send you an email. I didn’t think about what it would be like to say it to your face. Or to say it in front of him.”

No. She just goes right to it. “Grant me my life...And spare my people. I’m a Jew, and the Jews are in trouble, and you’re the only one that can save us.”

Now, it’s amazing how careful and wise she is in how she does it. Esther is teaching a master-class here in diplomacy and persuasion. She starts with two “ifs.” “IF I have found favor with you, O king, and IF it pleases your majesty...” She isn’t demanding here. She’s building off of their relationship. She has always found favor with him up to till now. And she is careful to couch things in a way that appeals to his best interest. She says that she wouldn’t bring it up if it wasn’t so desperate for them and so consequential for him. 

There’s a little bit of ambiguity in verse 4. It could be understood to mean that she is pointing out that if they weren’t killed, they could be put to better economic use than just eliminating them. As it is, he’s going to lose a giant ongoing workforce if this plan goes through. And, of course, they will all die–including his wife Queen Esther.

Notice that she doesn’t accuse him. She could, right? She could say, “You’ve been duped and really messed up my life, Ahasuerus!”

No. She doesn’t say, “You have sold my people. She says, “I and my people have been sold for destruction and slaughter and annihilation...” Those are the very words of the order that was sent out in chapter 3, verse 13. But she doesn’t name him here directly.

She does directly ask for him to spare her and her people. Esther comes out and clearly identifies with her people. 

True courage. 

She doesn’t know how this will go. I can imagine a situation where the king says, “You are a Jew?! Get lost. Take your things and move to the back of the harem. This is the last time I will ever see your face. You and Vashti can hang out from now on. You lied to me.”

I can imagine a situation where Haman says, “Oh, you’re a Jew? King Xerxes, she’s part of the problem around here. She’s part of that group I was telling you about last week. She’s right that they are on the schedule to die. That’s a solution, not a problem.” And the men agree together, and that’s it. 

She doesn’t know what’s going to happen when she speaks up. She may die. But if she dies, she dies. She speaks up anyway. That’s true courage.

She could have tried to hide. Maybe just ask for an exception! “You know, O kingy-poo, you had that order about destruction, slaughter, and annihilation? That doesn’t apply to little old me, does it? There’s an exception for queens, right?” No, she stands with her people and intercedes for them. It’s one for all and all for one.

Notice that true courage is not something that we are only called to do once, and then we’re done. Esther had to take her life in her hands in her hands yesterday. And she has to take her life in her hands today. She had be courageous yesterday, and she had to be courageous today.

And our Lord is calling you and me to be courageous, too.

He is calling us to bear witness to Him. To tell others that we are Christians that we belong to His people, too.

He is calling us to share the gospel, the good news of Jesus’ sacrificial death and victorious resurrection and how that saves us from our sins.

He is calling us to use what influence we have, however small or however large, to intercede for others and their good.

To speak up, even in a dangerous world.

In Matthew chapter 10, our Lord Jesus told His followers, “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves” (Matthew 10:16).

That sounds like Esther to me. She is so shrewd with how she used beauty, hospitality, and persuasion to make her case as good as she possibly could. But she doesn’t manipulate or lie to get there. Innocent as a dove. But she does go out among the wolves! She knows that she’s vulnerable. She’s a sheep among the wolves, but there she goes. And so should we!

Where are you being called to be courageous?
Where are you being called to stick out your neck?
Where are you being called to speak up and speak out and speak for others that need you?

Esther shows us how.

She had one shot, and she took her shot...and it hit the target! Verse 5.

“King Xerxes asked Queen Esther, ‘Who is he? Where is the man who has dared to do such a thing?’”

Woah! That sleepless man is angry! And he’s not angry at her. He’s acutely felt the injustice correctly. This thing is bad, really bad. He roars, “Who is he? Give us a name. Who has dared to do such a thing to my wife and her people?”

And we’re thinking, “Can you be this clueless? You don’t see your part in all this?”

But that’s not where Esther goes. She points the finger, perhaps with her whole arm shaking, at someone else in the room. Look at verse 6 and get ready to drown out his name. Verse 6.

“Esther said, ‘The adversary and enemy is this vile Haman.’ Then Haman was terrified before the king and queen.”

That took so much courage! To face her enemy? To say that he is her adversary and the enemy of the Jews? To name him. “This vile Haman.” That took so much courage. 

And Haman has no courage. He’s filled with an intense fear and has no courage to deal with it.

Can you feel how much emotion is in this room?

Haman is terrified. Xerxes is infuriated! Verse 7.

“The king got up in a rage, left his wine and went out into the palace garden.”

He can’t stand this. He has to think. He has to think about what he’s going to do. 

Maybe it’s dawning on Xerxes that maybe he shares some of the fault here. He’s allowed Haman to put him in this situation. And he’s going to lose face either way. Xerxes never thinks that he’s the problem. He’s so mad at Haman for getting him into this. What’s he going to do? He’s pacing out in the garden, grunting, groaning, maybe throwing things.

And where’s Haman? Haman should not have stayed in that room. He’s not supposed to be alone with a member of the king’s harem. He should have left at that point, but if he leaves, he can’t do anything directly about his situation. The king didn’t want him to follow him, and you can’t enter the king’s presence without being summoned. Look at verse 7.

“But Haman, realizing that the king had already decided his fate, stayed behind to beg Queen Esther for his life.”

How is that for irony?! Maybe this is the funniest chapter in the Bible?! The darkest humor. The enemy of the Jews who wants to kill all of the Jews is going to get on knees before a Jewish woman who is his queen and beg for his life. V.8

“Just as the king returned from the palace garden to the banquet hall, Haman was falling on the couch where Esther was reclining. [Please, please, please. Help me, please. Mercy!] The king exclaimed, ‘Will he even molest the queen while she is with me in the house?’ As soon as the word left the king's mouth, they covered Haman's face.”

I don’t know if Ahasuerus actually believed that Haman was trying to assault Esther at that moment, maybe he did. Maybe he saw this is a convenient way out, of solving his problem of saving face. Accuse Haman of sexual assault, and we don’t have to into all of that stuff about the royal ring and all that. Or maybe he was just filled with rage and seeing red.

He sees Haman falling. The very thing that Mordecai would not do, “fall” before Haman? The very thing that Zeresh said that Haman would do “fall?” That’s exactly what Haman is doing. Falling before Esther and falling in the eyes of the king. And then his face is covered by the servants. Like he’s not even there anymore. He’s condemned. It’s over for Haman.

And that’s when we hear from Harbona. Harbona was one of the servants who was sent to bring Vashti to the king’s banquet in chapter 1. He’s been hanging around in the background wondering which way the wind was going to blow. It’s obvious now, and so Harbona pipes up with a helpful piece of information. Verse 9.

“Then Harbona, one of the eunuchs attending the king, said, ‘A gallows seventy-five feet high stands by Haman's house. He had it made for Mordecai, who spoke up to help the king.’ The king said, ‘Hang him on it!’” 

Verse 10. Last time to drown out his name today.

“So they hanged Haman on the gallows he had prepared for Mordecai. Then the king's fury subsided” (vv.9-10).

The second thing we clearly see at Queen Esther’s (second) Banquet is:

#2. POETIC JUSTICE.

Which is true justice. The punishment here perfectly fits the crime.

Yes, Haman is executed for a crime he did not commit. He wasn’t attempting rape. But he was attempting genocide. And he dies for it. And he dies upon the very instrument of torture that he had wanted to kill an innocent man upon.

Harbona said, “He had it made for Mordecai who spoke up to help the king.” And the king said, “Hang him on it!” 

He was impaled in his own front yard. At the top of the highest point in the city.

Solomon says in Proverbs 26:27, “Whoever digs a pit will fall into it; if someone rolls a stone, it will roll back on them” (Proverbs 26:27, NIV).

We’ve all seen this happen from time to time. But we’ve all also wondered if it would happen from time to time. Because we all see a lot of injustice in the world. People digging a pit and pushing other people into it. That’s how Haman had gotten where he was. That’s how Xerxes had gotten where he was!

But now Haman has received poetic justice, and we are told that there is even more poetic justice on the way.

“Be sure your sins will find you out.”

Remember what we learned this summer about justice from 2 Thessalonians?

Paul wrote that persecuted church, “God is just: He will pay back trouble to those who trouble you and give relief to you who are troubled, and to us as well. This will happen when the Lord Jesus is revealed from heaven in blazing fire with his powerful angels.

He will punish those who do not know God and do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus. They will be punished with everlasting destruction and shut out from the presence of the Lord and from the majesty of his power on the day he comes to be glorified in his holy people and to be marveled at among all those who have believed. This includes you, because you believed our testimony to you” (2 Thessalonians 1:6-10).

Perfect justice is on the way. It will perfectly fit the crime.

And we can rejoice in that. Because that means that everything that is wrong will be made right. Like said last week, we are living in a comedy. We are living in a story with a happy ending for all of God’s true people. 

All bad things must come to an end.

King Jesus is going to bring perfect poetic justice in His forever kingdom. We just have to wait.

But that should also scare you if you are not yet one of God’s true people. If you are living like Haman, living for yourself, your pleasures, your agenda, your happiness, your kingdom, then you can expect poetic justice to roll back on you. Repent now while you still can. 

Haman’s story is a cautionary tale. It’s just a matter of time.

And one last thing that we can see and learn from at Queen Esther’s Banquet?

#3. HIDDEN PROVIDENCE.

Where is God? That’s been the title of this series all along. Where is God at Queen Esther’s Banquet?

Well, He’s never mentioned. He’s never named. But I don’t think, at this point in the story, we can miss seeing signs of His  presence. I don’t think we can miss seeing his handiwork in how the story is playing out.

How in the world did Hadassah get to be Queen Esther? How in the world did Queen Esther get the King and Haman to this precarious banquet? For such a time as this. How in the world did this unlikely story come about? How in the world was Esther still standing and not Haman at the end of chapter 7? 

What are the chances? What is there is no such thing a chance?

How in the world did Haman and Mordecai end up switching places? He may be hidden, but the Lord is clearly sovereignly ruling all things–what we call “providence.”

Now, we’re going to stop here and pick it up again in chapter 8, Lord-willing. 

Haman is dead. The king’s anger has subsided. But not everything is resolved. The fate of the Jews is not yet fully decided.

Because when the Persian king makes a law, it cannot be revoked or repealed. And that’s a problem. Because there is a law on the books that says that the Jews must be eradicated in eleven months. Even though Haman won’t be there to see it! The clock is still ticking down, down, down.

It feels like the tide has turned, but maybe not? Or maybe, just maybe, the hidden hand of providence will show up again in ways we cannot predict and maybe cannot even see until it’s all over.

But think about this.

Mordecai was saved because his enemy Haman took his place on the wooden pole. You and I are saved because our enemy Jesus took our place on the wooden pole.

The Bible says, “...God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners [still enemies!], Christ died for us” (Rom. 5:8).

He took our place, willingly.

“God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God” (2 Corinthians 5:21).

Jesus “Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: ‘Cursed is everyone who is hung on a pole’” (Galatians 3:13, NIV).

Haman was cursed, but he deserved it. 
We were cursed, and we deserved it.
But King Jesus took our curse, and He didn’t deserve it.

And all who put their trust in Him will be redeemed.

I hope that includes you.


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Messages in this Series:

01. The King Gave a Banquet - Esther 1:1-22
02. “Hadassah” - Esther 2:1-23
03. "Bewildered" - Esther 3:1-15
04. "Who Knows?" - Esther 4:1-17
05. "What Is Your Request?" - Esther 5:1-14
06. "That Night the King Could Not Sleep" - Esther 6:1-14

Advent Candle #1: “From Our Fears and Sins Release Us”

LEFC Family Advent Readings: “Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus”
Isaiah 61:1-3 :: November 30, 2025
Week #1: “From Our Fears and Sins Release Us”

“Advent” means “coming.” Christmas is coming. Jesus has come and is coming again.
During this year’s Advent Season, we will anticipate the arrival of our Lord by reflecting on the scriptural truth captured in the classic carol, “Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus.” It begins with this plaintive cry:

“Come, Thou long-expected Jesus
Born to set Thy people free
From our fears and sins release us
Let us find our rest in Thee”

[LIGHT FIRST CANDLE.]

Our first candle is candle of freedom.

This song by Charles Wesley, first published in 1774, expresses intense longing for the Messiah to come and bring true freedom–freedom not simply from earthly captivity but from all fear and sin.

Imagine a life unshackled by worry, concern, anxiety, dread, and fright!

Imagine a world unfettered by wickedness, iniquity, and evil in all its forms!

The Prophet Isaiah spoke of One who would one day bring such freedom. He wrote:

[READ ISAIAH 61:1-3.] 

Many centuries later, after the Lord Jesus had been born and grew into manhood, one Sabbath day, he read that prophecy of Isaiah in a synagogue and then dramatically proclaimed, “Today this scripture is fulfilled in your hearing” (Luke 4:16-21).

The long-anticipated Messiah had come to release His people from our fears and sins, and one day soon, our sins and fears will be gone forever, and we will find our rest in Him.

Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus!


Photo by Jonas Von Werne

Sunday, November 23, 2025

“That Night the King Could Not Sleep” [Matt's Messages]

“That Night the King Could Not Sleep”
Where Is God? - The Tale of Queen Esther
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
November 23, 2025 :: Esther 6:1-14  

Timing is everything.

In so many areas of life, so much comes down to timing. What happened when. How fast something unfolded. What came first. What came last. What happened at just the right time...or at just the wrong time!

Timing is so important. Especially in storytelling. Right? Especially in comedy. Have you ever told a joke that just fell flat because you got the timing wrong? I’ve done that up here! 

The storytelling in Esther chapter 6 is all about timing. And when you really get it, you see that it’s comedic timing.

Esther chapter 6 is, perhaps, the funniest chapter in the whole Bible, depending on your sense of humor. I know that most audiences just laugh and laugh when they get it for the first time...and for all the times after that! And it all comes down to timing.


Now, nothing was funny at the end of chapter 5. Because, speaking of timing, there were two clocks ticking down towards  death for God’s people. One was ticking more slowly, but it was the bigger clock. All of the Jews in the world were slated for genocide in just eleven months.

Haman, the enemy of the Jews, had manipulated the Persian King Xerxes (also known as Ashasuerus) to authorize the extermination of all of the Jews in the Persian Kingdom of the fifth century BC because one of the Jews, a man named Mordecai, had refused to honor Haman.

Mordecai was a low level civil servant in the king’s city of Susa. His enemy Haman had risen to the top spot in that kingdom, just below the king. As high a non-royal person could go. Like a prime minister.

But Haman was not content with that position, especially because Mordecai would not bow in honor to him. So Haman had cast the “pur,” he rolled the dice, and randomly chose the 13th day of Adar in about a year to [this was the wording of the irrevocable decree he got the king’s ring to authorize to] “...destroy, kill and annihilate all the Jews–young and old, women and little children–on a single day” (Est. 3:13).

And the big clock was ticking down.

There is one person who may be close enough to the king to do something about this wicked plan. Amazingly enough, it is Mordecai’s own cousin whom he had raised, a beautiful orphaned Jewish girl named Hadassah, and her Persian name was Esther.

Amazingly enough, Esther had been chosen to be the queen! She had pleased the king over all the other girls taken into his harem and been chosen for the top spot. 

Nobody knew, even apparently her husband, that Esther was a Jew. She has been keeping it secret because Mordecai told her to. But now, Mordecai has asked her to take her life in her hands and ask the king to save her and her people.  

Maybe, just maybe, she had been raised to this position for such a time as this! Timing is so important!

Did she do it? Not yet. First, she fasted and asked all the Jews to fast with her. For three days! No food or water! And then she went and broke the law. This is what we read about last week in chapter 5. 

Esther robed herself in courage and royal dignity and wisdom. And she approached the king without being summoned–which unless the king extended his golden scepter meant death. But she had decided that if she died, she died. But she was going to do what was right. And she did.

And...big relief...the king extended his golden scepter and asked her what was up. What did she want? And what did she say?

She said, “I want you to come to lunch with me. How about a banquet? Me, and you and Haman.” And that pleased the king because he loves banquets. Oh boy, does he love banquets! And then when they were at her banquet, he said, “Ok. Now what was it you were going to ask? What is your request?” And she said, “I’ll tell you tomorrow at the next banquet.”

She’s teasing him! She’s pulling him along. He loves this. Esther has great timing!

Probably tomorrow she’s going to ask him to do something to save the Jews. (Unless she invites him to another banquet! She just might have a third one up her sleeve.)

But that’s when the second clock started ticking down. Because Haman saw Mordecai on his way home from Banquet #1, and he was filled with rage again because Mordecai still would not honor him. And Haman poured out his anger and pride and hate at home, and his “friends” and wife there egged him on to do something about it right then and there. They said, “Don’t wait for next year. Kill Mordecai tomorrow. Build a gallows, a killing machine that towers above all of the buildings in this city and ask the king in the morning to execute Mordecai on it tomorrow before Banquet #2.

Timing is everything. Esther may have dodged death today, but little did she or her cousin know, Mordecai was headed for death tomorrow. The carpenters had been hammering all night long. The second clock is ticking down towards death, and it’s not months, it’s hours, it’s minutes.

But here’s where it gets funny! Because the very next thing that happens is that king passes a sleepless night. First words of chapter 6, verse 1. Our title for today:

“That Night the King Could Not Sleep”


That night (there’s timing for you!) the king could not sleep. The Hebrew is even funnier. It says something like “the sleep of the king fled.”  The Christian Standard Bible says, “Sleep escaped the king.”

Ever felt that way? Sleep got away from you. Tossing and turning. Warm side of the pillow. Cool side of the pillow. Warm side of the pillow. Cool side of the pillow. Look at the clock. Stare at the ceiling. “I don’t think I’m going to sleep.” Talk about timing. Have you ever had a big day planned, and the night before is the night that you just can’t sleep?

It doesn’t say why he couldn’t sleep. Maybe this happened to him often.

Maybe it was all that rich banquet food he ate. I know I can’t sleep if I eat too much. Maybe he was worried about something like “What was Esther going to ask tomorrow?” Or when would his army ever defeat the Greeks? Maybe he was excited about something. “I can’t wait to see Esther tomorrow and find out what she has planned for our banquet!” Too keyed up to sleep. Or maybe there’s this sound of hammering in the distance that is keeping him awake. “What’s all that construction noise?”

It doesn’t say why. It just says that it just so happened (wink, wink) that “That night (of all nights!) the king could not sleep.” We laugh, but he didn’t think it was funny. The most powerful man in the world, and he can’t even get himself to get some rest.

What do you do when you can’t sleep? Do you count sheep? Here’s what Xerxes did: 

He decided to listen to a podcast. Or something like it. He turned on C-Span. Look again at verse 1. 

“That night the king could not sleep; so he ordered the book of the chronicles, the record of his reign, to be brought in and read to him.”

To me that sounds about as exciting as watching paint dry.

He calls in his night staff, and says, “Read to me from the record of my reign.” Maybe he wants to bore himself to sleep. Or maybe if he has to be awake, he wants to hear stories about how great he is and how great his kingdom has been. And be reminded of all of the great things he’s done or have been done for him and his glory. So they are reading to him from these history books. And it just so happened (wink, wink, that verse 2):

“It was found recorded there that Mordecai had exposed Bigthana and Teresh, two of the king's officers who guarded the doorway, who had conspired to assassinate King Xerxes.”

Do you remember that story? It might have been 4 or 5 years ago. That was way back in chapter 2 soon after Esther had become queen. 

What are the chances that Xerxes would have had this story read to him on the very night before Haman would ask for Mordecai’s head? Timing!

Now, this is very important to the king. He puts his reader on pause, and he asks a question. Verse 3.

“‘What honor and recognition has Mordecai received for this?’ the king asked. ‘Nothing has been done for him,’ his attendants answered.”

And that’s correct. We heard about that back in chapter 2. They wrote it down, but then nothing happened. As far as we know, the king has never met Mordecai. He’s just some guy who works on the first floor. Works out by the door. It sure doesn’t seem like the king knows hardly anything about him–especially Mordecai’s real connection to his wife. 

But he’s been reminded of that day that he saved his life through his wife. And it’s important for a Persian king to reward that kind of service. Because if people know that they will be rewarded for exposing a threat to the king, they will exposes more threats to the king. And that will keep him  safe and will show him to be generous. And this king loves to seem generous!

“‘What honor and recognition has Mordecai received for this?’ ...  ‘Nothing has been done for him...”

“Oh, that’s not right! We’ve got to fix this now.”

And it’s apparently reached morning. It’s tomorrow already. He hasn’t slept, but now he’s on a mission. And he’s headed for a collision. Timing is everything.

Speaking of timing, let’s do this with the name of Haman today. Let’s drown out his name the first time he’s mentioned as we read this chapter and the last time. So here in verse 4 and then again in verse 14. I’ll remind you.

Xerxes wants advice. He never does anything without getting advice which can be a good idea if you have good advisers. He’s got some of the worst.

He want some advice on what to do to honor Mordecai who once saved his life. Who should he asked? How about Mordecai’s worst enemy? Verse 4.  [Remember: Boo and Hiss for Haman!]

“The king said, ‘Who is in the court?’ Now Haman had just entered the outer court of the palace to speak to the king about hanging Mordecai on the gallows he had erected for him."

He can hardly wait! This is the day that Mordecai dies! He’s there first thing to ask. Verse 5.

"His attendants answered, ‘Haman is standing in the court.’ ‘Bring him in,’ the king ordered. When Haman entered, the king asked him, ‘What should be done for the man the king delights to honor?’”
 
Do you feel it? Do you feel the timing? It just so happened (wink, wink) that Haman was on hand to take this question.

And the king doesn’t say who he’s talking about! Which just sets things up for a classic case of comedic misunderstanding. Like a sitcom where everybody is assuming something different and talking past each other. And it just gets funnier and funnier!

The king doesn’t give Haman a chance to open his mouth. He doesn’t say good morning. He just launches in with, “What should be done for the man the king delights to honor?”

And who does Haman think he means? Himself, right? Haman is a narcissist who is completely full of himself. He can’t think of anybody else. And he’s always been honored before.

In fact, he’s always been successful at manipulating this king before. Haman assumes that he can do it again. Verse 6.

“Now Haman thought to himself, ‘Who is there that the king would rather honor than me?’ So he answered the king, ‘For the man the king delights to honor, have them bring a royal robe the king has worn and a horse the king has ridden, one with a royal crest placed on its head. Then let the robe and horse be entrusted to one of the king's most noble princes. Let them robe the man the king delights to honor, and lead him on the horse through the city streets, proclaiming before him, 'This is what is done for the man the king delights to honor!'”

I almost titled this sermon “The Man the King Delights to Honor” because he repeats it over and over and over again.

Haman doesn’t ask for much, does he? I would have asked for cash, but he’s already loaded. What he wants is to be king for the day. He wants to wear the king’s clothes and ride the king’s horse and be given a king’s parade. He wants everything but the king’s wife!

And I think he wants Mordecai to see it. He’s now happy to wait for Mordecai to hang until after Mordecai sees Haman paraded around town as “the man the king delights to honor.”

Haman craves glory for himself. He is so proud. So proud he doesn’t realize what he’s done. Timing is everything. Verse 10.

“‘Go at once,’ the king commanded Haman. ‘Get the robe and the horse and do just as you have suggested for Mordecai the Jew, who sits at the king's gate. Do not neglect anything you have recommended.’”

I don’t know if the king has an idea of the rivalry between these two guys. It’s possible that as he heard what Haman thought should be done, he picked up that Haman thought it was all about him, and he enjoyed playing this practical joke on Haman. That’s possible. It sure doesn’t seem like he knows the beef between these two. He just says, “That’s a great idea. Do that! Robe, horse, parade. Mordecai the Jew. Go! Now! Timing is everything.”

Can you imagine the look on Haman’s face? I see him opening his mouth. And then closing it. And then turning on his heel and swallowing hard and gritting his teeth and doing everything just like the king said. Because you don’t disobey this king. He doesn’t get to say why he came early. He has to honor his enemy. V.11

“So Haman got the robe and the horse. He robed Mordecai, and led him on horseback through the city streets, proclaiming before him, ‘This is what is done for the man the king delights to honor!’”

Can you imagine what this was like for Mordecai? He probably didn’t know about the gallows, but when Haman showed up at his house, he must have thought this was it! And he is forced to take off his sackcloth and put on a robe that King Ahasuerus has worn! And get up on a horse that King Ahasuerus has ridden. This horse has some kind of royal crest on his head. It’s like the horse has a crown! And his enemy, the enemy of his people, is leading the horse around town and shouting, “This is what is done for the man the king delights to honor! This is what is done for the man the king delights to honor! This is what is done for the man the king delights to honor!”

I can’t imagine what he must have been feeling. All we’re told is that he got dropped off back at work. But we are told what Haman was feeling. V.12

“Afterward Mordecai returned to the king's gate. But Haman rushed home, with his head covered in grief, [The tables have been turned. Look who is mourning now...] and told Zeresh his wife and all his friends everything that had happened to him. His advisers and his wife Zeresh said to him, ‘Since Mordecai, before whom your downfall has started, is of Jewish origin, you cannot stand against him–you will surely come to ruin!’”

That’s not what they said yesterday! Yesterday, he was on top of the world, and they were riding his coattails. But now, they say, “It’s tough to be you. You know you can’t win against the Jews.”

And, speaking of timing, Haman doesn’t have time to come up with a plan. Look at verse 14 and remember to drown out his name. Verse 14.

“While they were still talking with him, the king's eunuchs arrived and hurried Haman away to the banquet Esther had prepared.”

This isn’t going so well for him. All of a sudden, Haman is finding out that he’s not in control of his life after all. He’s rushed away to the second banquet that Esther had prepared.

Which we will read about next Sunday. Yep, it’s another cliffhanger. Because there is enough stuff in this chapter for us to think about more deeply today.

What can we learn from that night that the king could not sleep?

Let’s start by asking ourselves this question:

Who is the hero of Esther chapter 6?

It’s obviously a very funny story and has a happy ending...so far. Mordecai has dodged the bullet so far, but the big clock is still ticking down. His people are still scheduled for annihilation. We don’t know what’s going to happened at this second banquet. They don’t know. We don’t know.

But chapter 6 was very funny and very happy. 

Who made that happen?  

It wasn’t Esther, right? She didn’t do anything in chapter 6. She didn’t even start anything that then played out in chapter 6. She’s doing her part. She’s been courageous and prepared these banquets, but she’s hardly even mentioned in this chapter.

Is it Mordecai? Did he save the day? No. He’s pretty passive in this chapter. He goes for quite a ride! But it all happens to him. It’s not stuff he’s doing. He’s not the hero.

It sure isn’t Haman!

And I don’t think it’s Xerxes either. I mean, he does something right. He decides to fix something that was wrong and give credit where credit was due. But he’s not sweeping in to save Mordecai’s life. He doesn’t even know Mordecai was in danger.

Who’s the hero?

Nobody...that is named. But it sure feels like Somebody is moving things around in this story, doesn’t it? Timing is everything.

There sure are a lot of coincidences in this story.

How many times in re-telling it did I said, “It just so happened that...” How is that the king would be robbed of sleep that night? How is that the king would have read to him about when Mordecai saved his life that night? How is that Haman would have walked into the court at that very moment? How is that they would have talked past each other in that way? What are the chances?

What if there is no such thing as chance? Who could be doing all of that?

Someone who has not been named. Someone else is driving this story. It sure seems like the Author of this Story is the hero who is making it all happen.

I have three points for us to consider to apply Esther chapter 6 to our lives, and here’s the first one. They are all things for which we can be eternally grateful this Thanksgiving. 

#1. SOMEONE IS WORKING WHEN WE ARE NOT LOOKING.

Someone–this book does not say His name, but He’s very important to the story nonetheless–is working when we are not looking. 

He’s working in all of the details of our lives, no matter how seemingly insignificant. 

He’s working in our sleepless nights.
He’s working in our random meetings.
He’s working in our misunderstandings and when we’re talking past each other.
He’s working in the smallest of details to accomplish His grand plan.

Do you believe that? I do.

That’s something to be grateful for on Thursday when you’re having the turkey. Be thankful for (I’ll say His name, God’s) providence. God so orders the world that He uses every single thing that happens to accomplish His purposes. 

That doesn’t make everything good. Sleepless nights are not always good. You don’t have to pretend they are. But God is always good, and He’s working every single sleepless night for our good! Even when we can’t see it. Especially when we can’t see it.

He is working when we are not looking. [I got that phrase from Nick Boonstra. I’m loving his sermon series on the Tale of Queen Esther.] And we don’t have to see His hand or even His fingerprints to know that they are there.

Often, we’ll only know in hindsight. Looking back. Looking back in your life, what are some of the super small things that made a big impact when you look back on them?

I think about the time I met Heather Joy. Her maiden name was Lundeen. My last name was Mitchell. We just so happened to be put in the same orientation group at Moody Bible Institute. Our last names just so happened to be close together in the American alphabet. And we just so happened to be at Moody as freshman at the same time. 

Did we know that day that Someone was working towards our marriage and our family and our ministry here in Pennsylvania? No. We were not looking. (I mean, I was looking! And I liked what I saw. But I had no idea.)

How about you? Looking back can you see some ways that Someone was working when you weren’t looking?

How about how you came to know Jesus as your Savior? What all had to come together for that to happen? What “just so happened” so that today you are saved? If today you are saved.

I think that this is the turning point of the Book of Esther. It feels like it. Even the Persians feel it (v.13)! Even Haman’s evil wife feels it! Someone is working when we’re not looking. He’s working all the time and in every thing that happens, big or small. 

That might be an even greater miracle than all the miracles we read about in the Book of Daniel! Because this is every single thing in the world in history being worked together into achieving God’s grand plan!

He’s doing it on His own timing. Talk about timing being everything. He doesn’t do it on our timing. But His timing is perfect. Down to the smallest thing. Down to the sleepless nights and silliest misunderstandings. Someone is working even when we are not looking. And here’s what He’s doing:

#2. SOMEONE IS OPPOSING THE PROUD BUT GIVING GRACE TO THE HUMBLE.

Haman is so proud, and he’s going down.

It seemed like he was never going down. His trajectory was just up, and up, and up. And it didn’t matter whom he trampled on to get there. All he cares about is himself. He’s the only person he can imagine that king might want to honor.

Think about that. And ask yourself if that’s been you.

I know it’s been me. I have to regularly remind myself, “It’s not about you, Matt.”

It’s not about you. Stop thinking just about yourself and focus on others. Humble yourself and God will lift you up. The humble are the ones that the King delights to honor! But if you keep making everything about yourself, then you will find that Someone is opposing you. Someone is going to stop you, and you don’t want this unnamed Person as your enemy.

Haman would have done much better if he had known and taken heed to Proverbs 25:6&7.

“Do not exalt yourself in the king's presence, and do not claim a place among great men; it is better for him to say to you, ‘Come up here,’ than for him to humiliate you before a nobleman.”

Or 1 Peter 5:5, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

God is in the business of reversing things. Making everything right. He does it in his own perfect timing. Not on our timing. But He’s doing it. Haman was finding that out the hard way. God is going to settle all accounts. He’s going to bring perfect justice. Just like Mordecai was finally rewarded for his service to his king, we know that our King will one day reward all faithful service to Him. Justice will be done and will be seen to be done.

This story we’re living in is a not a tragedy. It’s a comedy. 

A comedy, in the classic literary sense, is a story that turns out to have a happy ending.

Lots of bad things can happen in a comedy, but the ending is always one of joy.

Church, we are a living in a comedy! I’ve read the end of the story, and our Hero wins! Remember: All bad things must come to an end! And this little chapter gives us just a hint of that. That’s something we can be give thanks for on Thursday. We living in a comedy, not a tragedy.

And one other thing that Someone is doing when we’re not looking...

#3. SOMEONE IS KEEPING ALL OF HIS PROMISES.

You know Who I mean! 

Did you notice why Haman’s wife and friends say that Haman is going down? Was it because Mordecai was such a great guy? Was that what they emphasized?

No. If you still have your Bible open, look at verse 13. It’s the thing that keeps getting mentioned over and over about Mordecai. It’s not that he’s a hero or an example or even really strong-willed and defiant. Verse 13.

“Since Mordecai, before whom your downfall has started [they expect it to continue!], is of Jewish origin, you cannot stand against him–you will surely come to ruin!’”

Now, they could be wrong. They are not prophets. But they have this sense that the Jews were protected. They have this sense, maybe they’ve heard some things about Daniel and his friends over in Babylon fifty years ago. Or maybe they’ve heard ancient prophecies from the Bible like the Eastern prophet Balaam’s in Numbers 24 about how if you curse these people you will be cursed.

Or the promises given to their ancestor Father Abraham. Promises of land, offspring, and blessing no matter what. Promises that the Promise Maker is going to keep.

Not on our timetable! He’s going to do it on His own schedule.

Timing is everything, and His timing is inscrutable and unimprovable.

So He’s going to do it. He’s going to keep every one of His promises. Including the promise to send a Messiah, a Savior who saves His people, not just from death but from their sins and eternal death. And He promises to allow that Messiah to suffer and die for His people’s sins, but then to be raised to life and given the name that is above every name. So that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.

That’s what’s going to happen to the Man the heavenly king delights to honor! 

And we can count on it. Someone is keeping all of His promises, every single one, and we just need to trust in them and in Him.

And give thanks for His faithfulness forever!


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Messages in this Series:

01. The King Gave a Banquet - Esther 1:1-22
02. “Hadassah” - Esther 2:1-23
03. "Bewildered" - Esther 3:1-15
04. "Who Knows?" - Esther 4:1-17
05. "What Is Your Request?" - Esther 5:1-14

Sunday, November 16, 2025

“What Is Your Request?” [Matt's Messages]

“What Is Your Request?”
Where Is God? - The Tale of Queen Esther
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
November 16, 2025 :: Esther 5:1-14  

Queen Esther is about to do the bravest thing she has ever done.

Queen Esther is about to embark on what might be, for her, a suicide mission.  She is going to take her life into her own hands and break the law of the land for the sake of her people.

Queen Esther is about to go stand before the king.

Esther is married to this king, King Ahasuerus, mostly likely King Xerxes I, Xerxes the Great of Persia. The year is probably 474BC.

And her husband the king has been manipulated by his evil adviser Haman to give his royal authorization for all of the Jews in the Persian kingdom from India to Ethiopia to be destroyed, killed, and annihilated on a single day, eleven months from now (3:13). Every single Jew was to killed on that chosen day. Young and old. Women and little children. Leaving no survivors. And all of their stuff was to be confiscated for the glory of the Persian Empire.


The Jews throughout the world are in danger of extermination, and they have gone into bewilderment and mourning. They have dressed in sackcloth and ashes and are weeping throughout the world.

Including Mordecai. Mordecai was Esther’s cousin and guardian. He had raised Esther ever since her parents died. And he was a Jew working in the king’s own administration. 

And, yes, that means that Esther was a Jew, as well. Her Jewish name was Hadassah. But nobody knew it! Mordecai and Esther had kept it a secret all these years.

But now, Mordecai had gone public with his identity. He had refused to bow to Haman which had so enraged Haman that he had come up with this plan to kill not just Mordecai but all of the Jews.

And now Mordecai, dressed himself in sackcloth and ashes, has howled his way through the city of Susa up to the palace to call upon Esther to go public, as well, and to approach her husband the king asking him if he could to put a stop to the genocide.

And that would be very dangerous for Queen Esther. Because they have a law in this kingdom that nobody but nobody comes to the king unless the king calls them. And the punishment for breaking this law is death! The king determines who comes and goes in his presence. We saw in chapter 1 that this king had called his previous queen, Vashti, to come, and she had refused. And she was stripped of her crown and banished to never see the king’s face again. What would happen if this queen shows up without being called?

She hasn’t been called for a month. The king hasn’t had any time for Esther. Not interested! This is very dangerous, and Esther didn’t really want to go.

But Keagan just read to us what we studied last week where Mordecai tried to persuade her to go anyway. He said that she was in danger either way. Someone was going to find out that she was Jew, and all of the Jews are supposed to be killed. 

The king probably doesn’t know that Esther is a Jew. How does she probably want to him to find out? Probably from her own lips and not from someone else!

And maybe, just maybe, she has reached this place, being the Queen of Persia, for such a time as this. Who knows? 

How is it that someone like Esther could be where she is today? This is a very unlikely tale! What are the chances? Perhaps Someone who has gone unnamed throughout this story is orchestrating the story, even the hard and bad parts, so that Esther has reached this place to do this thing? Who knows? It’s possible.

And Queen Esther has received this counsel and made up her mind. She asked Mordecai to gather all of the Jews in the city to fast for her for three days. And we know that probably means to pray for her for those three days, as well. And she and her team in the palace are also going to fast for three days. And then she is going to go to the king, no matter what. Even if she dies. She said, “If I perish, I perish.”

And that’s where we are when chapter 5 begins. Esther, Mordecai, and all of the Jews have fasted for three days.

Have you ever gone without food for three days? I have not. Not even close. I don’t like to go three hours. I can’t imagine not having eaten since Thursday! Can you? Or drank anything?! I’m thirsty just thinking about it. I can’t imagine going three days without drinking something! How did Esther do it? How did she feel? Weak. Dehydrated. Headache-y. 

No matter. In her weakness, she was strong. And courageous. Look at verse 1.

“On the third day Esther put on her royal robes and stood in the inner court of the palace, in front of the king's hall. The king was sitting on his royal throne in the hall, facing the entrance.”

What a moment! I don’t think we can truly imagine what it must have been like for Esther. It’s the third day. There’s something about third days in the Bible, isn’t there?! This is the third day of the fast. It doesn’t say that she ate anything. But she did get dressed up. 

She doesn’t go in sackcloth and ashes. She goes dressed in royalty. The Hebrew basically says, “She wore royalty” or “She wore the kingdom.” Esther put on her most breathtakingly beautiful royal clothes and left the harem, walking in regal dignity down the hallways.

What must have gone through her head? We’re going to see in moment that she has not just sat around for three days doing nothing. Esther has been busy thinking and planning out what she will say and do if the king does not have her killed on sight.

There is only once chance of survival. If the king decides to be merciful (and Xerxes was not known for his mercy), then he can hold out his golden scepter to her, and she would be safe. But there is no telling whether or not he will do such a thing. It could go either way.

There are ancient paintings of the King of Persia sitting on his throne with a Median soldier standing behind him with an axe. Ready to cut off the head of someone who comes when they weren’t called.

Esther must have been holding her breath in this tense moment!

Notice that she exercises prudence and caution. She does not just waltz all the way in. She stops at the entry way to the king’s hall where he can see her. But she just stands there and waits. Attracting his attention but waiting for his response. That’s courage! Verse 2.

“When he saw Queen Esther standing in the court, he was pleased with her and held out to her the gold scepter that was in his hand. So Esther approached and touched the tip of the scepter.”

Esther is still alive!

But the Jews are still slated for death. What’s going to happen next? Look at verse 3.

“Then the king asked, ‘What is it, Queen Esther? What is your request? Even up to half the kingdom, it will be given you.’”

The king is intrigued. He knows something must be up if Esther has appeared without being summoned.

“What is it, Queen Esther?” I love it that he calls her by her full name. Even though she hadn’t eaten in three days, she was clearly at her best. Her beauty had always charmed him, and now there was something more.

I picked the king’s question in verse 3 as the title for this message because it’s a turning point in the story, and it gets repeated in verse 6, as well. In fact, it will show up several more times before we get to the end of the book: “What Is Your Request?”

Ahasuerus wants to know what Esther really wants. And he offers her up to half the kingdom. I think that’s an exaggeration. It’s a figure of speech that means that he is ready to be extremely generous to her. He is feeling magnanimous. Like when he poured out all of the wine to his guests in the banquets of chapter 1. Or when he forgave everyone’s taxes when Esther was picked to be queen in chapter 2. Or when he loaned his royal ring to Haman to put his wicked plan into place. This king loves to be extravagant.

“What is your request?” 

What would you have said back to the king if you were Esther?

The other reason I picked these words for the title of this message was that they got me thinking about what I am asking my God to do for me. Because our Lord wants us to bring Him our requests, as well. He is much more dependable than Xerxes[!], and He is even more interested in hearing us ask for things.

The Lord Jesus taught us, “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened” (Matthew 7:7-8. See also Luke 11:9).

What is your request?

In studying chapter 5, I came up with three requests. Here’s number one.

#1. THAT I WOULD HAVE COURAGE LIKE QUEEN ESTHER DID.

Do you want that, too?

The more I study this story, the more I realize how brave she really was. Esther didn’t know if she was going to live or die, but she still did what she thought was right. That’s courage. As we learned last week, courage is not the absence of fear. It is doing the right thing even if you are afraid. 

Today, we have three Christians who are going to be baptized.

That takes courage. To stand before your friends and family in public and say, “Jesus has saved me. Jesus died for my sins and came back to life to give me life. I believe in Him. And I want to tell the world.”

Well done, you three. Way to be courageous! These three are not staying silent. They are, like Queen Esther, going public with their truest identity. 

“I belong to Jesus!”

Have you been courageous in this same way? Some of you are Christians who have not yet taken the step of water baptism. And for some of you it’s because of fear. Fear of the water, fear of saying something in public, fear of being identified as one of those extreme Christians. 

Let me encourage you to be courageous like Queen Esther and step forward in baptism. And step forward out there in sharing the gospel with your friends, family, neighbors, co-workers, strangers, and even enemies. 

If Esther could do this, what could you and I do?

“Lord, we request courage.”

What do you think Esther is going to ask for?

We know what she wants. She wants to save the Jews. Does she just come out and ask for that? Sometimes the direct approach is the best one. But Esther has thought about this, and she’s got another idea.  She knows her man. Look at verse 4.

Oh, by the way, remember to boo and hiss when we get to the name of the enemy of the Jews. 

I went to the middle school play on Friday night, and they did that every time Copper (aka Duke Dreadful) showed up on stage.

Let’s drown out the name of Haman in verse 4.

“‘What is it, Queen Esther? What is your request? Even up to half the kingdom, it will be given you.’ ‘If it pleases the king,’ replied Esther, ‘let the king, together with[...]Haman, come today to a banquet I have prepared for him.’”

“Wait, what? You came over here to invite me to a banquet? I love banquets!”

This is a surprise. Esther has done something unexpected. And we’re seeing a new side to her character. Not only is she beautiful. Not only is she regal. Not only is she courageous. But she is wise.

This is not a spur of the moment thing. Esther isn’t chickening out and putting off the inevitable. No, she knows her man loves a banquet. And she’s been preparing one for him while fasting! I never thought about that until this week. She says that she’s been overseeing the preparations for a feast while she has been fasting from food and drink!

There’s a method to her madness. She’s wily and wise. And she’s setting the hook.

‘If it pleases the king...come today to a banquet I have prepared for him.”

Remember banquets (Hebrew: mishteh) are very important in this story. There are about 10 of them, and every time there is a banquet, something really important happens.

This one is put on by Queen Esther, and she has invited both the king and  (surprisingly) Haman.

Why did she do that? We don’t know, but it sure seems like she has a plan.

The king loves it! “Well, sure we can do that! I thought you were going to do something hard.” Verse 5. [Don’t forget to boo and hiss.]

“‘Bring Haman at once,’ the king said, ‘so that we may do what Esther asks.’ So the king and Haman went to the banquet Esther had prepared.”

The scene has changed. They are now in a different part of the palace, perhaps a banquet hall. It’s just Esther, Xerxes, and Haman. And they are eating and drinking. And probably drinking and drinking and drinking some more, knowing Xerxes and Haman. That could get dangerous. But Esther has a plan. Verse 6.

“As they were drinking wine, the king again asked Esther, ‘Now what is your petition? It will be given you. And what is your request? Even up to half the kingdom, it will be granted.’”

“There’s got to be more, right? You didn’t come all the way over here and risk your life just to invite me to dinner, did you?”  Verse 7.

“Esther replied, ‘My petition and my request is this: If the king regards me with favor and if it pleases the king to grant my petition and fulfill my request, let the king and Haman come tomorrow to the banquet I will prepare for them. Then I will answer the king's question.’”

Surprise! She doesn’t just blurt out, “My name is Hadassah. Please save my people!” No, she says, “I’ll tell you tomorrow at banquet number two!”

She’s not chickening out. She’s got a plan. She’s building anticipation. She’s using her gifts. She’s practicing persuasion. She is using wisdom.

My friend Pastor Nick Boonstra at our Free Church in State College preached through Esther this time last year, and I’ve been listening to his messages to cheat, I mean, to gain insight from him.

And Nick brought out a whole host of the Proverbs that Esther was embodying in this part of the story, like:

Proverbs 15:28 – “The heart of the righteous weighs its answers, but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil.” 

She thought about what to say and weighed it all out before blurting something out.

Proverbs 13:15 – “Good judgment wins favor, but the way of the unfaithful leads to their destruction” (NIV).

Good judgment, that’s wisdom, wins favor. That’s what she was after with the King. That’s what she got from this king over and over again. She received favor because of God’s grace, but also because she exercised God’s wisdom along the way.

And I want that for me, too. That’s my request, Lord.

#2. THAT I WOULD HAVE WISDOM LIKE QUEEN ESTHER DID.

That I would grow in my understanding of how to live well in this world. That I would understand how people think, what makes people tick. And that I would become more persuasive. Not to manipulate people but to serve people well.

Esther is at the top of her game in wisely relating to these two powerful, dangerous, volatile men.
She’s a woman in a dangerous kingdom for women, and she’s using every  bit of wisdom that she can put to work to serve her people who are also in danger.

She isn’t just just going off half-cocked. She isn’t just typing whatever she wants onto social media and seeing what happens. She has weighed her answers and used good judgment in seeking the favor the king.

I’ve been reading some books recently about how to have better conversations especially when you disagree with the person you’re talking to. I want to grow in that. My tendency is to run away from hard conversations, and when I can’t do that, I tend to talk too much and not listen as well. The right approach is to listen much and then courageously say just what needs said.

And that takes wisdom. Wherever would we get that?

The Bible says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him” (James 1:5).

What is your request? That I would have wisdom like Queen Esther did.

At this point, Esther steps off stage. The next banquet isn’t until tomorrow, and she’s got a lot of work to do to get ready for it. At least she can eat now!

But in the last few verses of chapter 5, we follow Haman on his way home from Esther’s banquet. And he’s really happy with himself. Look at verse 9, and don’t forget to boo and hiss. Because he’s really earning it here. Verse 9.

“Haman went out that day happy and in high spirits. But when he saw Mordecai at the king's gate and observed that he neither rose nor showed fear in his presence, he was filled with rage against Mordecai. Nevertheless, Haman restrained himself and went home. Calling together his friends and Zeresh, his wife, Haman boasted to them about his vast wealth, his many sons, and all the ways the king had honored him and how he had elevated him above the other nobles and officials. ‘And that's not all,’ Haman added. ‘I'm the only person Queen Esther invited to accompany the king to the banquet she gave. And she has invited me along with the king tomorrow. But all this gives me no satisfaction as long as I see that Jew Mordecai sitting at the king's gate’” (vv.9-13).

What a great guy, huh? I think we might use the word “narcissist?” Haman is so full of himself. He leaves the palace whistling. He’s probably drunk from the banquet, “happy and in high spirits.”

But his happiness dissipates immediately when he sees Mordecai in his sackcloth and ashes and he still doesn’t honor him. Mordecai doesn’t even say anything. He just stands there looking at Haman in defiance. He doesn’t even seem scared! 

And that just sends Haman over the edge again. He just about loses control and attacks Mordecai right then and there, but he doesn’t know exactly what to do so he just goes home fuming. And there are his “friends” and his wife. And he sits there and tells them all kinds of things they already know. How much money he has. How many sons he has. My guess is that Zeresh already knows that! The answer is 10 (see Esther 9:10), but that doesn’t keep him from talking about. These are all markers of greatness in Persian culture. Haman is obsessed with being seen as great.  

“All of the ways the king had honored him and how he had elevated him above the other nobles and officials.” 

“Have I told you how great I am?” He’s got to talk about himself. Egocentric. Vain. In love with the sound of his own voice. Prideful. And you know what the Proverbs say about pride... 
Proverbs 16:18, “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall” (Proverb 16:18).


“And that's not all...I'm the only person Queen Esther invited to accompany the king to the banquet she gave. And she has invited me along with the king tomorrow....But all this gives me no satisfaction as long as I see that Jew Mordecai sitting at the king's gate.”

It wasn’t enough. Nothing was ever enough for Haman. His heart was so controlled by pride, and greed, and hate, and anger that he could not be thankful for the many gifts that he had been given. 

I don’t know about you, but I don’t to end up like Haman. So that’s my request.

#3. THAT I WOULD HAVE GRATEFULNESS LIKE HAMAN DID NOT.

I want to live with contentment and thanksgiving. And not just this time of year, though it’s really good to concentrate on thanksgiving at key times like this. 

I don’t want to become like Haman, ruled by my circumstances and my emotions. I want to be filled with gratefulness for all the good gifts that God has given me.

Haman’s wife Zeresh seems to be tired of hearing him complain about Mordecai. So she suggests he do something about him once and for all. “Let’s not wait until next year when we kill all the Jews. Why don’t you kill Mordecai tomorrow? If you are so high and mighty, how about that? And let’s make him an example like you’ve never seen before. Remember Bigthana and Teresh hung in the front yard? Let’s do that but on steroids.” Verse 14.

“His wife Zeresh and all his friends said to him, ‘Have a gallows built, seventy-five feet high, and ask the king in the morning to have Mordecai hanged on it. Then go with the king to the dinner and be happy.’ This suggestion delighted Haman, and he had the gallows built.”

Just when you think it couldn’t get worse! 

Haman’s loving Jezebel-of-a-wife has suggested he build a gallows that is taller than the palace. 
The columns on the front of this palace were 70 feet tall. Is that more exaggeration in Persian-style storytelling? Or just the outsized ugly expression of outsized hateful hearts? These gallows were probably a scaffold on a base perhaps on a hillside out which rose a very tall pole upon which the victim would be impaled.

And you see how Haman feels about this? He loves Zeresh’s idea! He calls the carpenters out of their homes to build it over night. You can hear the hammers pounding all through the night. A skyscraper of a killing machine.

Haman feels better and goes right to sleep. And Esther and Mordecai don’t know what’s coming.  Who will get to Xerxes first? Esther or Haman? We don’t know. And we’re going stop the story right there because we have some baptizing to do. 

But before we do, we need to remind ourselves just how grateful we should all be.

Haman had many gifts. But we have so much more. We have God’s amazing grace, amen? We have salvation through Jesus Christ.

Because our Lord Jesus Christ went to the gallows himself. He was nailed to a cross of wood. He was lifted up to save all who put their trust in Him.

He took all of our sin–all of our pride, all of our hate, all of our hot-tempered anger, all of our dissatisfaction with our circumstances, all of our transgressions, and He paid the penalty for it all.

At the cross. He took our place. And then He was buried. And then on the...third day--there’s something about that third day in the Bible--Jesus rose from the dead!

And that’s what these three who are coming to be baptized today believe.


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Messages in this Series:

01. The King Gave a Banquet - Esther 1:1-22
02. “Hadassah” - Esther 2:1-23
03. "Bewildered" - Esther 3:1-15
04. "Who Knows? - Esther 4:1-17

Sunday, November 09, 2025

“Who Knows?” [Matt's Messages]

“Who Knows?”
Where Is God? - The Tale of Queen Esther
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
November 9, 2025 :: Esther 4:1-17  

What was troubling Mordecai?

By verse 5 of chapter 4, Queen Esther wants to know. But we already know what is troubling Mordecai: 

The genocide of the Jews has been placed on the calendar.

The people of God are in grave danger. We read last week that Queen Esther’s cousin Mordecai, who had raised her since her parents died, had refused to honor Haman, the enemy of the Jews.

And Haman who had been promoted to the top spot in the kingdom, like a Grand Vizier, had become enraged by Mordecai’s actions and hatched a plot to exterminate all of the Jews. Not just Mordecai and his family, not just the Jews in the capital city of Susa, but the Jews throughout the Persian kingdom from India to Ethiopia which included all of the Jews in Israel.

And this Haman, full of hate, manipulated King Xerxes (also know as Ahasuerus) to hand over to him the executive authority to carry out mass executions.

They rolled the dice. They cast the lot. They cast the “pur.”  And it “just so happened” to land on Adar 13th. Eleven months from now. The clock of death has started ticking down. 

The royal order has been signed on Passover Eve, Nisan 13th, and sent out by couriers to every corner of the kingdom. And it says in all the languages, by irrevocable royal decree of the king of kings in Persia, King Xerxes I, that everyone in this kingdom is ordered “to destroy, kill and annihilate all the Jews–young and old, women and little children–on a single day, the thirteenth day of the twelfth month, the month of Adar, and to plunder their goods” (Esther 3:13).


The evil genocide of the Jews has been placed on the calendar. That’s what was troubling Mordecai. And it was troubling all of the Jews and even many of their pagan neighbors. 

Last week, we ended with a cliffhanger. While Xerxes and Haman are partying it up and drinking away, the city of Susa was bewildered.

The Persians are wondering what this means for them. Will they have to  kill their Jewish neighbors, young and old? And who is next? If Haman and Xerxes can just purge an entire race, who might be next in line? [I got this insight from Mike Cosper.]

And even more bewildered and terrified are the Jews. What can they do? Can they run away? Can they hide? Can they try to mount a defense? Against all of the Persians, the greatest world power of the day? The kingdom of bronze? The two-horned ram? The bear-like beast? What can the Jews do?

They can mourn. That’s what they can do. They can prepare to die. They can ready themselves for thousands and thousands of funerals. Death looms over them, and they feel it.

And they feel the question, “Where is God?”

Why is He letting this happen?
Where did He go?
Does He even exist?
Why isn’t He doing something?

Where is God?

Have you felt that question? Recently? If you haven’t felt it yet, just wait.

Now, chapter 4 is probably the most famous and familiar chapter in the Book of Esther.

Chances are if you know any line from the Book of Esther, you know one or two from this very chapter. It’s famous for a good reason. (For such a time as this, right?)

Well, that’s all the more reason to remember to pretend as we read that you don’t know what is going to happen. Because the people hearing the story for the first time didn’t know what was going to happen. And a story is almost always better if you don’t know the ending in advance.

But even more importantly, the people in the story did not know what was going to happen!

Mordecai sure didn’t. Mordecai even says (in verse 14) that he doesn’t know. He says the words, “Who knows?”

“Who knows?”

Who knows why this or that has happened?
Who knows what is going to happen?
Who knows the future?

Mordecai didn’t know what was going to happen, and so he mourned. And he took action.

This chapter is full of courage. We’re going to see real courage on display. 

Real courage is often different from what we expect it to be. Everybody has a mental image of courage, and but real thing doesn’t always look like you might think. 

As we read through this chapter, keep your eyes peeled for real courage.

Like, for example, the courage to be vulnerable.

Mordecai mourns. Look with me at verse 1 of chapter 4.

“When Mordecai learned of all that had been done, he tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and ashes, and went out into the city, wailing loudly and bitterly. But he went only as far as the king's gate, because no one clothed in sackcloth was allowed to enter it” (vv.1-2).

It think this took courage.

Have you ever been so upset that you tore your clothes? Ruined your good clothes on purpose? That’s what Mordecai did. The Jews did this to express great emotion, and so did the Persians. The historian Herodotus says that the Persians ripped their clothes when they lost their wars to the Greeks. 

And Mordecai went way beyond that. He changed his clothes into scratchy clothes. “Sackcloth” is like scratchy clothes made out of goat or camel hair. So that you may be covered, but you are never comfortable. Your clothes on the outside feel like you do on the inside. In distress.

And he went to his fireplace and smeared ashes all over himself. What a sight! And he didn’t stay at home. He went out into the city and wailed loudly and bitterly. He’s howling.

Have you ever howled in pain and sorrow? I have. When our first daughter died in utero, I wailed in that hospital room. And I did the same when I came back from the scene of Blair Murray’s plane crash.

Mordecai took this wailing into the streets right up to the king’s gate.

Why didn’t he go in? That’s his workplace. He’s got the access codes. Because they had a law that you couldn’t go in there if you were wearing sackcloth. Your access codes don’t work if you are in mourning. The king didn’t want to see that.  Only “shiny happy” people are allowed inside the king’s gate. 

And Mordecai was anything but happy. And neither were any of the Jews. Verse 3.

“In every province to which the edict and order of the king came, there was great mourning among the Jews, with fasting, weeping and wailing. Many lay in sackcloth and ashes.”

Many were probably saying, “Where is God?” Some of them were saying, “We are sorry, God.” I’m sure that most of them were saying, “Please help us, God!”

You know, this chapter comes the closest of all of the chapters in the book of Esther to actually naming God and talking about...prayer.

We’ve already learned that the name of God never appears in the Book of Esther. And neither does the word, “prayer” or “pray.” Not once. But there is a word here that is so very often linked to the word “prayer” in the rest of the Bible. What is it?

“Fasting.” Fasting is the deliberate choice to not eat for a good reason. And the reason is often, in the Bible, to express sorrow, heartache, mourning, and...repentance to God. And to put an exclamation mark onto our prayers.

Fasting is like an exclamation mark to our prayers!

These three exact same words, “fasting, weeping, and wailing” appear here in Esther 4 and also in the book of Joel chapter 2, verses 12 through 15 where the Prophet writes, “‘Even now,’ declares the LORD, ‘return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and [wailing].’ Rend your heart and not your garments. [I think he means not just your garments.] Return to the LORD your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity. Who knows? He may turn and have pity and leave behind a blessing...” (Joel 2:12-15a).

Who knows? Perhaps verse 3 is hinting that the Jews were repenting all over the kingdom. And they were asking God to rescue them once again.

Remember, so many of them were still in exile because of the broken covenant. All of them were in distress. And that distress reaches the ears of Queen Esther. Look at verse 4.

“When Esther's maids and eunuchs came and told her about Mordecai, she was in great distress. She sent clothes for him to put on instead of his sackcloth, but he would not accept them.”

Esther is worried. “He can’t stay out there like that. Why is he dressed like that? He’s so conspicuous like that. He’s drawing attention to himself. I know he doesn’t bow to Haman, but this is going to get every eye in the citadel focused on him. He’s going to get into trouble.” 

Esther is bewildered. She sends down new clean clothes for Mordecai so that he can come inside and maybe then they can talk. But if he’s dressed like that, she can’t come anywhere near him.

Remember, she has been keeping her Jewish identity secret because Mordecai told her to. "Why is he is drawing attention to himself like that?"

Is it possible that Esther has not heard? I think it’s quite possible. Mordecai just found out in verse 1. And Esther is sequestered in the harem. She is sheltered from a lot of what goes on outside in the rest of the kingdom. 

And most people might not have thought to tell her about the king’s edict because why would it affect her? She’s all Persian. They don’t know that she is Hadassah.

But she will soon find out what’s up. She springs into action, calling a trustworthy messenger named “Hathach.” Verse 5.

“Then Esther summoned Hathach, one of the king's eunuchs assigned to attend her, and ordered him to find out what was troubling Mordecai and why.”

It’s a good thing Hathach is trustworthy because there have been a number of “bad eggs” in this administration. Remember Bigthana and Teresh from chapter 2?

Hathach is a good go-between, and he will get his steps in running back and forth between the two cousins. Look at verse 6.

And, remember, everybody be ready to drown out the name of Haman with boos and hisses when we reach verse 7. He is only named once in this chapter so we only have one chance to “diss” the enemy of the Jews. V.6.

“So Hathach went out to Mordecai in the open square of the city in front of the king's gate. Mordecai told him everything that had happened to him, including the exact amount of money Haman had promised to pay into the royal treasury for the destruction of the Jews. He also gave him a copy of the text of the edict for their annihilation, which had been published in Susa, to show to Esther and explain it to her, and he told him to urge her to go into the king's presence to beg for mercy and plead with him for her people” (vv.6-8).

Mordecai lays it all out to Hathach to explain to Esther.

It’s interesting that he gives him a copy of the edict and asks him to explain it to her. It’s quite possible that Esther has never been taught to read. Even though she’s a queen.

Maybe she can read, but Mordecai wants to make sure that she understands. On Adar 13th, all of the Jews are going to be annihilated. Haman has told her husband that the Jews are problematic and need to be exterminated, and he’s told her husband that he will raise 2/3 of the annual kingdom budget by doing this mass murder. And now she knows.

By the way, this is a good reminder to check your sources when you hear bad news. Don’t believe every bad story that you hear, especially online, especially if it’s something that you want to believe, that confirms your prior opinion. We need to deal with facts not rumors and gossip.

Out in the open square, Mordecai lays out the facts for Hathach to lay out for Queen Esther. 

And more than that, Mordecai urges Esther to act. He urges Esther to do the exact opposite of what he has always told her to do up until now. He encourages her to out herself as as Jew and assume her true identity in public before the king.

“[G]o into the king’s presence to beg for mercy and plead with him for her people.” 

Think about this:

Esther’s own husband almost certainly doesn’t know that she is a Jew. If he did know, it’s not how he thinks about her. He only knows her as Esther, not as Hadassah.

It must have been so hard for Mordecai to give these instructions to Esther. It took courage to go weeping and wailing through the city and out in the open square to lay out the problem and send his beloved Esther whom he has always protected to what might mean her death. Because that’s what Esther hears. Look at verse 9.

“Hathach went back and reported to Esther what Mordecai had said. Then she instructed him to say to Mordecai, ‘All the king's officials and the people of the royal provinces know that for any man or woman who approaches the king in the inner court without being summoned the king has but one law: that he be put to death. The only exception to this is for the king to extend the gold scepter to him and spare his life. But thirty days have passed since I was called to go to the king’” (vv.9-11).

“You understand, cousin Mordecai, what you are asking me to do? I can’t just waltz in there any time I want. I have to be summoned. He calls for me. I don’t just go to him. And he hasn’t called for me in a month. We’ve been married for five years. He might be getting tired of me and thinking about holding another contest. I’m getting older and he likes them young.”

And we think, why she didn’t just ask for an audience? Why didn’t she go through some official channels to see if it would be okay if she stopped by with a request? Well, who do you think manages the official channels? Probably a guy named Haman.

Here’s the rule. If you come into the king’s presence without being summoned, then you end up like Bigthana and Teresh hanging in the front yard. This protects not just the king’s time but his life. Access to the king is very limited. Unless the king is feeling merciful. And Ahasuerus was not known for his mercy.

Esther doesn’t want to go. This feels like a bad idea. It’s risky. It’s dangerous. Remember what happened to Vashti? This could turn out much worse!

Mordecai knows all that. Mordecai feels all of that. He doesn’t dispute it. But he thinks it’s the less worse choice. And so he urges her in no uncertain terms to be courageous. Verse 12.

“When Esther's words were reported to Mordecai, he sent back this answer: ‘Do not think that because you are in the king's house you alone of all the Jews will escape. For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father's family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to royal position for such a time as this?’” (vv.12-14).

That’s one of the greatest speeches in the Bible and in human history. And it marks a turning point in the story. And to think it was sent through intermediaries! Ash-covered Mordecai standing there in his scratchy clothes is, from a distance, trying to persuade Queen Esther to risk it all.

He starts by saying, “Yes, you might die, but you’re probably going die either way. Your Jewishness will come out sooner or later. Your connection with me is known, and I’m out. And soon I’ll be dead. There are no safe choices here. I can’t protect you. In fact, if you remain silent, you and your father’s family will perish. That’s me, I was his brother. We will perish. I can just about guarantee it. You will be siding with Haman against your real people. You will go down."

But notice this little glimmer of hope! Did you catch it? I always focus on “for such a time as this,” and it’s easy to miss the “relief and deliverance” thing. Look closely at verse 14 again.

“...if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place...”

What’s he talking about? Mordecai believes that the Jews are going to be saved. Mordecai believes that the Jews will experience “relief and deliverance.” Maybe not all of them, but enough of them!

He doesn’t say why. He doesn’t have to. We can guess. 

Maybe it’s because there is Someone Who loves them. Maybe it’s because there is Someone Who has promised to preserve them even in exile. Maybe it’s because there is Someone Who has promised to send a Messiah to save them once and for all. And that Messiah must be Jewish Himself.

So, “relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place...” If not from her then from somewhere else.

You see how close He comes to naming the LORD?! He can’t help it. The LORD may be hidden, but He’s still there. And He still has a plan. And who knows? Maybe the plan includes Queen Esther.

Who knows? That’s what Mordecai says. Verse 14.

“And who knows but that you have come to royal position for such a time as this?'"

Just think about your life, Hadassah. What are the chances that chapter 1 of this tale would happen? What are the chances that chapter 2 of this tale would happen?

How is that you were taken? How is that you have found favor with everyone? How is that you have found favor with the king so many times? If not in the last 30 days? Remember, there is no such thing as coincidence and there is no such thing as chance. But there is a such a thing as providence

Who knows? Maybe Somebody has been moving things around (including you and me) for such a time as this, for this particular situation? You have been exalted and embedded into the very palace of the king. I kind of doubt that that’s an accident.”

Now, let me you ask all of you.

Does Mordecai know that Esther is going to save the Jews? No, he most certainly does not. 
He says, “Who knows?” And the answer to that question is:

#1. WE DON’T.

We sure don’t. 

Mordecai didn’t know what was going to happen. Not down to the details. He believed that the Jews were going to be saved, and he believed that enough that you could say he knew it, but not how and not by whom or not from where. Maybe from Esther. But just maybe. He didn’t know. He didn’t know if she was there to change things or for some other reason or reasons.

Life is like that. There is so much we don’t know. Why are we placed in certain situations? I don’t know. Why are you and I in this family or this church or this job right now? Who knows?

I can guess. Sometimes it will be abundantly clear a least for a moment, especially in retrospect.  But most of the time, it will not. And that’s why so often it will take courage for us to do the right thing.

Because courage is not the absence of fear. Courage is doing the right thing even when you are afraid. Real courage is doing what you think is the right thing even though you don’t know what will happen if you do it.

Like our veterans. When you go off to serve your country, you don’t know if you are coming back. Many do come back, some do not. You don’t know. That’s one of the reasons why we honor you who have served. Thank you once again for your service. Thank you for your courage.

Real courage is often when you don’t know the outcome, and you still do what you believe you should do.

And now is the moment in this story for Queen Esther to choose. Look at verse 15.

“Then Esther sent this reply to Mordecai: ‘Go, gather together all the Jews who are in Susa, and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my maids will fast as you do. When this is done, I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish.’ So Mordecai went away and carried out all of Esther's instructions.”

It’s interesting that verse 14 was the last time in this book that Mordecai was giving the instructions.

Now Esther is. And Mordecai is carrying them out.

Queen Esther comes to the crossroads of her life, the defining moment, and she chooses to be brave.

Esther takes a deep breath and steps up and says, “Ok. Here we go. First things first, let’s all fast. [And you and I know what that means. Wink, wink. The storyteller won’t use the P word, but we know. Three days of no food for any of the Jews. That’s extreme! And no food for Esther and her beauty team? These are the gals who had the special food in chapter 2. Now, they take no food.]

And then Esther will take her life in her hands and go see the king.

And she just knows that she will prevail, right? No. She does not know! She hopes. She prays. She asks others to pray. I mean “fast.” But she doesn’t know what will happen. That’s what makes this courageous.

And that why she’s a great example for every Christian woman and every Christian man and every Christian child. 

“If I perish, well, okay. Then I perish.”

Just like Shadrach, Meshach, and Abendego. “If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to save us from it, and he will rescue us from your hand, O king. But even if he does not, we want you to know, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up” (Daniel 3:17-18).

We don’t know. But it doesn’t matter. We’re going to do the right thing anyway. Because who knows? Maybe Someone is going to use this to do His thing!

Where do you need to be courageous these days?

Do you need to be more vulnerable? Mordecai really set himself up by putting himself out there in sackcloth and ashes. Crying in public. That’s not a power move. That’s a weakness move. Same thing with fasting. It takes courage to be vulnerable.

To humble yourself before someone who could hurt you–maybe with their words? Maybe with some piece of information about you that you believe you should share, but you’re scared because you don’t know what will happen?

It takes courage to identify with the people of God. Sometimes it takes real courage to tell people that you are a Christian.

“You’re one of those? Okay.”

It takes real courage to not just remain silent. Sometimes it takes real courage to share the gospel with your friend, your neighbor, your co-worker, your family member. Especially if they haven’t asked you for it. Because you don’t know how they are going to react.

“What if they ask a question I don’t the answer to?”

Esther would say, “That’s your big worry? Say, ‘If I don’t know the answer, then I don’t know the answer.’”

“If I perish, I perish.”

You don’t have to almost die to be courageous. You just have to do the right thing not knowing what might happen next. To say the thing that needs said.

Not just the gospel--though that’s the main thing--and the main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.

But we also sometimes need to say a hard word about lots of other things. Standing up to a bully. Speaking out for the vulnerable.

There are times when we need to confront a loved one about something they are doing that is destructive for themselves or someone else.

And we don’t know how it will be received.

We don’t know.

But we do know that the Lord has placed us in their lives and, maybe, for such a time as this. We are not here by accident. There is no such thing as coincidence and no such thing as chance. That doesn’t mean that we know why we are placed here, but we do know that we have been placed.

Do the thing that only you can do.

Only you are uniquely placed in your situation, whether you got there by pain or by pleasure. By being taken or being favored. For Esther it was both!

Where have you been placed? You might feel like it’s hard to relate to Esther. You haven’t been placed in a palace. But you also haven’t been asked to advocate for all of the Jews in the world either.

Where have you been placed? What power have you been given? Are you using it?

The courageous thing you are supposed to do could seem like a little thing, but it feels risky. Or it could seem really big. Big or small, do it!

Some people act like they are being courageous, but they are really just showing off. We call that “virtue signaling” or “being performative.” The real test of courage is when you don’t know if you will get any “likes” for it. We need to say the thing we should say that could get us into real trouble.

And do the thing we know we should do even if we don’t know what will happen as a result. 

Fear and worry tell us that they know what’s going to happen. “Bad things are going to happen.” Don’t listen to them! They don’t know what’s going to happen.

#2. GOD DOES.

Only God does. 

The Book of Esther doesn’t say His name, but we are allowed to here. We know the One who knows the future. We know that has given us His great and precious promises, and He knows how He will bring them all to pass.

I have this little saying that I use. “I don’t know the future, but I know the One who holds the future in His hands.” And that’s good enough. The Lord knows.

True hope is trusting in God’s promises and His knowledge of how He will work everything out for His glory and our good.

And I think Mordecai had that kind of hope because he said, “[R]elief and deliverance...will arise from another place” with or without Esther’s help.

And that kind of real hope can engender in us real courage.

There is another kind of real courage. And that’s when you absolutely do know that the worst thing is still going to happen even if you do the right thing and you still do the right thing.

That’s the kind of courage that Jesus had. Because unlike Mordecai or Esther, Jesus knew. Jesus knew He was going to perish. His courage was even greater because He knew what was going to happen when He went to the Cross. He was going to die for our sins in our place. He wasn’t going to get out of it at the last second. He was going to endure the pain and the shame.

And then He also knew that He would rise again. So that all of us who put their faith and trust in Him can know our ultimate future, too.

We’re going to leave Esther right here in chapter 4 on the cusp of her courageous move. We know what was troubling Mordecai and why. And now Esther is troubled, too.

Nothing has changed...except for Esther.

The Jews are still scheduled for genocide. The clock of death is still ticking down.  But Esther has made her decision to come out of the shadows and identify herself with them. And she’s stopped eating until she does it. 

She doesn’t know what’s going to happen next. Another cliffhanger! 

And while we wait to find out, we can always start to follow her example.


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Messages in this Series:

01. The King Gave a Banquet - Esther 1:1-22
02. “Hadassah” - Esther 2:1-23
03. "Bewildered" - Esther 3:1-15