An excerpt: "You must create new habits – new ways of coming to the cross in a crisis. You need an accountability partner to help you do this. You need an accountability partner who will pray with you and for you – and remind you of God’s forgiveness and acceptance, which is found at the cross.
You need an accountability partner who will recognize when you are calling out “Calgon, Calgon, take me away;” instead of calling out, “Christ, Christ, you have saved me.”
When you are facing trials in your life, look to what is to come by looking at what God has already done. Go to the cross of Christ in your crisis and find the desire and power to do His will."