Sunday, October 26, 2025

“Hadassah” [Matt's Messages]

“Hadassah”
Where Is God? - The Book of Esther
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
October 26, 2025 :: Esther 2:1-23  

“Where Is God?” That’s the title of our new series on this unique book of the Bible called, “Esther.”

“Where is God?” That’s a question that we have all asked from time to time, and we have all felt in our bones.

“Where is God?” Especially, where is God when bad things are happening to us?

We saw already, last week, that the Book of Esther answers that question in a subtle way. It doesn’t just come out and hit you with the “right answers.” It allows you to feel the question and to feel your way to the answer by following this rollicking good story.


“Where is God?” 

Especially when He is not mentioned. We pointed out last Sunday that unlike the Book of Daniel that had all of those amazing names for God that Shaggy referenced in his song. Unlike the Book of Daniel with all of those amazing names for God, in the Book of Esther, God is never named.

God is never mentioned! Not even once. We read chapter 1 last week, all about the fateful banquet that King Xerxes (also known as Ahasuerus) threw to impress his kingdom and the trouble he got everybody in when he required his queen to appear and make a show of herself before a crowd of drunken men. When Vashti refused, Xerxes dug in and made it all worse. He allowed himself to be talked into publishing his spat with the queen and make it an unrepealable law that Vashti could never enter his presence again and her place as queen be given to someone else.

And in all of that story, God was never mentioned. 

Where was God in Esther chapter 1? Was God present and active in the foolish court of the pagan king of Persia? Or was He absent, inactive, missing, gone? I think the story is hinting already that God, though perhaps hidden, is very present and very active, and we just need to keep our eyes open and our ears tuned to catch what He is up to. What do you think?

It’s also possible that He’s there, but we aren’t going to know or understand what He is up to. We wouldn’t understand if we did know.

In Esther chapter 2, Xerxes is still on the throne, but he feels alone. Let’s look at verse 1.

“Later when the anger of King Xerxes had subsided, he remembered Vashti and what she had done and what he had decreed about her.”

He’s feeling it, isn’t he? He’s finally sobered up and cooled down. And he’s thinking about Vashti. I wonder if he regrets at all what he did. I wonder if he was brooding.

Xerxes never seems to ever think he did anything wrong. Notice it says that he remembered what she had done. As if Vashti was the real problem here. Not what he had demanded that she do. But he also remembers what he had decreed. By law, he was never supposed to see Vashti again. And that law had been translated and broadcast into every language in his kingdom from India to Ethiopia. 

I wonder if he was depressed?

And Xerxes has even more on his mind during this time period. Do you remember last week that we said that Xerxes wasn’t happy with the size of his giant kingdom. He really really wanted to conquer...what other kingdom?

Greece! His dad had tried it and failed. He was going to try it once again.

How did that go?

Do you remember the vision of Daniel chapter 8? That’s the one that Daniel had in Susa (where this story takes place), and it was about a Ram and a Goat. And the ram had two horns (one longer than the other one), and it was the Medes and the Persians. Do you remember what the goat was? Ran so fast it didn’t touch the ground. The goat was the Greeks. And they ran at each other. And which animal won? The goat won. Ultimately, years later, with Alexander the Great.

So Xerxes could not conquer the Greeks. Even when he had superior numbers! Some of you may remember from your high school history classes the battle of Thermopylae. Or the 300 Spartans that held back the oncoming onslaught of the giant army. Well, that was Xerxes army, and it was right about this time.

So Xerxes may have been feeling like a loser. He had lost to Greece, and he had lost his queen. He had lost to his queen. With her refusal, she had made him look weak, a joke. Even though he was perhaps the most powerful man on the planet at that moment, Xerxes was down.

So his staff tried to come up with a solution to cheer him up.

“You know what you need, O king? You need a wife. You need a queen. You need a replacement queen. An upgraded queen. And to get there, you need a lot of sex.”

You can almost see his head bob up in verse 2.

“Then the king's personal attendants proposed, ‘Let a search be made for beautiful young virgins for the king. Let the king appoint commissioners in every province of his realm to bring all these beautiful girls into the harem at the citadel of Susa. Let them be placed under the care of Hegai, the king's eunuch, who is in charge of the women; and let beauty treatments be given to them. Then let the girl who pleases the king be queen instead of Vashti’” (vv.2-4a).

This is another terrible idea.

Instead of fixing his problem with his old wife, or instead of choosing a new queen from those who might be qualified by their wisdom and experience in overseeing other important responsibilities, the king’s personal attendants proposed...a giant beauty and sex contest. A star search. 

A reality show where beautiful young ladies of marriageable age are brought from all over his vast kingdom for the king to try out one at a time.

Survivor: Queen Edition. Persian Wife Search. “Tune in at 9, 8 central.”

This is a terrible idea.

His advisors make it sound so legitimate with “appointing commissioners,” and placing these women under the care of Hegai, and providing them with beauty treatments. How nice for them to get a day in the spa!

But this is not nice. This is brutal, when you think about it. Because I don’t think that these women were, for the most part at least, volunteering. They were being subscripted. Just like the army. Just like the eunuchs. The commissioners were snatching up the beauties from all over the kingdom. “You, you, you. Come with me.” [I got this "you, you, you" wording from Christopher Ash.]

It was more like a kind of kidnaping. More like coercion. More like royal human trafficking than just a version of “The Miss Persia Contest.”

And the only thing they were looking for was superficial youthful beauty. They had to be young, of marriageable status, and beautiful. 

Apparently, King Ahasuerus and his friends did not know what Lemuel’s mother had taught him, “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised” (Proverbs 31:30).

Guys, you don’t want a queen whose only qualification is that she is great arm candy or lots of fun in bed.

But that’s the plan! Gather up the beautiful young girls and have them put under the care of Hegai, a man that Xerxes has most likely had castrated so that they will be safe with him. [Interestingly, even though Vashti and Esther are not named in Herodotus’ history, this Hegai may be!]

And place them in a harem. “A house for the women of the king.”

Every time a harem is mentioned in Scripture, it’s presented as a bad idea. Bad for women. And bad for nations. And bad for the king who thinks he should have one. [This includes King Solomon who was a Hebrew!]

So what does Xerxes do? Verse 4.

“This advice appealed to the king, and he followed it.”

Of course, he did.

Where is God?  Xerxes doesn’t know and doesn’t care. He just knows what he wants. And he’s the king, so he’s going to get what he wants! He’s all cheered up. He’s rubbing his hands together. [By the way, this tracks with what we learn about Xerxes during this time period. He was famous for his affairs and adulteries and chasing after his pleasures.]

“Great idea, guys! This will be expensive. What big a undertaking! But I am totally worth it. Start bringing them in. Let’s see what we’ve got.”

Now in verse 5, the focus of the story changes. The storyteller introduces two more key characters in this drama, including the one from which the book gets its name. Look at verse 5.

“Now there was in the citadel of Susa a Jew of the tribe of Benjamin, named Mordecai son of Jair, the son of Shimei, the son of Kish, who had been carried into exile from Jerusalem by Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon, among those taken captive with Jehoiachin king of Judah” (vv.5-6). Stop there for a second.

There was a Jew named Mordecai, and this is his story.

Where does he live? He lives in Susa. That’s this Persian city where Xerxes has his winter fortress. In fact, he lives in the fortress. He’s somehow attached to the citadel. Perhaps he’s a low-ranking official in Xerxes’ government. 

Why does he live there? If he’s a Jew, why doesn’t he live in Israel? Well, it’s complicated. His family was carried off into exile in 597 BC. We read about Nebuchadnezzar’s uprooting and hoisting away the second-to-last king of Judah named Jehoiachin (also called Jeconiah) in 2 Kings 24 and Jeremiah 24, and 27, and 29. Apparently, Mordecai’s family went with King Jehoiachin into exile, and Mordecai has found his way not just to Babylon but to Persia.

By the way, it almost certainly must mean that his great-grandfather Kish was carried into exile because it’s been like 114 years since that happened, and I don’t think Mordecai was that old!

But Mordecai is in Susa because of the broken covenant. And because of some other decisions by his family. For over 50 years, they have been allowed to immigrate back to Israel. Xerxes’s grandfather Cyrus said so. But only about 50,000 Jews went back to Israel at that point. Most of the rest of them decided that they would try to make a go of it in the land where they had been replanted.

Was that good and wise?

It’s hard to say. It was definitely hard. It was hard to maintain their Jewish identity when they were embedded in Persia.

Mordecai’s name for example is almost certainly Persian in origin. It was probably a variant of Marduk one of the gods of Mesopotamia. It’s possible that Mordecai had a Hebrew name, too, but the Bible doesn’t tell us that. To us, he’s just Mordecai, son of Shimei, the son of Kish.

By the way, keep that last name in your head. It may become somewhat important as the story unfolds.

But we need to move on from considering Mordecai to gazing upon his young charge. And her name was “Hadassah.” Look at verse 7.

“Mordecai had a cousin named Hadassah, whom he had brought up because she had neither father nor mother. This girl, who was also known as Esther, was lovely in form and features, and Mordecai had taken her as his own daughter when her father and mother died.”

Her name was Hadassah which means “myrtle,” which is a fragrant star-shaped flower. It’s a beautiful name. I’m sure her parents loved bestowing it upon her when she was born. But they had both died. The storyteller tells us that twice in this one verse. We need to understand that Hadassah was an orphan.

Where was God when her parents were taken from her?

At least, Hadassah had her cousin. Mordecai had taken responsibility for Hadassah and was bringing her up. 

And Hadassah also had another name. This is the only place in the Bible where we read her name as “Hadassah.” She had another name that was much more famous. Her other name was Esther. Esther is probably her Persian name. It’s probably related to the name of the Mesopotamian goddess Ishtar. And it is related to the word “Star.” Esther is, in many ways, the star of this story.

I have so many questions when I read this book.

I wonder if she loved both of her names? I wonder if she had a hard time with the Esther name. Just like I wonder about Daniel (who was also called Belteshazzar) or Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah a.k.a. Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego.

Those guys didn’t think these names were worth fighting over or dying over. It was a just a name, after all. But I wonder how they felt about it.

I really wonder how Hadassah felt about what happened to her next. Because just as soon as the storyteller let us know that Esther was “lovely in form and features,” every person listening to the story so far said, “Uh oh! I can see where this is going!”

Esther is a pretty young thing, and Xerxes is looking for some pretty young things. Let’s read verse 8.

“When the king's order and edict had been proclaimed, many girls were brought to the citadel of Susa and put under the care of Hegai. Esther also was taken to the king's palace and entrusted to Hegai, who had charge of the harem.”

So many questions.

I wonder how she felt about it. It doesn’t say that she resisted. Apparently, on some level, she was willing. She maybe didn’t feel she had much choice. She didn’t have much choice. She was at the king’s mercy.

When that decree went out, I wonder how all of the parents in the kingdom felt about it. Some may have wanted their daughter to get into the program. A shot at being the queen! An honor to be picked just for the harem itself, and as we’ll see, a relatively safe and secure future in an uncertain and scary world. There are worse things than being in a harem as much as I would not want it for any woman I know. 

Other parents probably rushed to marry off their daughters to someone they knew and trusted before the king’s commissioners could take them away from them.     

Did you feel that word “taken” in verse 8?

I felt that word like I had never felt it before as I studied Esther this week.

“Esther also was taken...”

[And there was no Liam Neeson with a particular set of skills to go rescue her.]

How did she feel? There go her hopes and dreams. She would never marry a nice Jewish boy and move back to Jerusalem. She would never live in her home with her guardian cousin again.

Her parents had been taken from her, and now she was being taken from everything she knew.

Where was God when Hadassah was taken to the king’s palace?

By the way, the Bible does not tell us all of this because God was okay with it! This part of the story is not presenting the king’s audition program as the biblical way to get a wife or a queen. Far from it! God does not condone this treatment of women.

The Bible is telling us this part of the story to bear witness that this is what happened...and to hint that God can use even this evil for His glory and our good.

Mordecai lets her go. He probably doesn’t think he has much choice either.

And then something interesting happens...

Esther rises to the top. Look at verse 9.

“The girl pleased him [that’s Hegai] and won his favor. Immediately he provided her with her beauty treatments and special food. He assigned to her seven maids selected from the king's palace and moved her and her maids into the best place in the harem.”

Now, just like that word “taken” was important in verse 8, so is the word “favor” in verse 9.
 
Hegai just loved Esther! She was perfect in his eyes. Hegai was a talent spotter, and he could see something special in this one. She was a real beauty! She won his favor. And the word translated “favor” in verse 9, is the Hebrew “hesed.” Which we normally think of as something that God has for us. Steadfast love. Lovingkindess. Loyal love. 

It’s in our new memory verse, Psalm 117. “Praise the LORD, all you nations; extol him, all you peoples. For great is his [hesed] toward us, and the faithfulness of the LORD endures forever. Praise the LORD.”

Hmmm. I wonder if there’s something special going on here? Not a miracle, and yet...

Hegai gives her nothing but the best. Special beauty treatments, special ointments, massages, exfoliation, and special food. And unlike Daniel and his friends, Esther says, “Okay, I’ll eat your food.” It probably wasn’t kosher. In the best part of the harem, she got seven [count them seven! Just like the 7 eunuchs and 7 advisors last week, Esther gets 7] maids to be on her beauty staff to get her ready to meet the king!

Now, is this a good thing that she’s doing all this? It’s hard to say. Unless she is going to pull a Daniel and the lions den or a Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego and face the furnace, she doesn’t have much choice. So she makes the best of it.

I don’t judge her. And I don’t think the Bible presents her as necessarily doing something wrong here.

She made a hard choice in a hard place.

If she was doing something wrong, it’s probably the next thing, in verse 10.

“Esther had not revealed her nationality and family background, because Mordecai had forbidden her to do so.”

Nobody knew she was a Jew. Nobody knew that she was Hadassah. They just knew she was Esther, the Star. She was quiet about it. She didn’t deny it. But it was a secret.

She kept it secret because Mordecai told her to. We don’t know why he did that, but we can guess. It’s called “antisemitism,” and it’s been around a long long time.

We’ll find out in the next chapter that Mordecai had good reason to fear hatred of the Jews in Susa.

But it’s not completely clear if keeping this was the right thing to do or not. It’s always tempting to keep quiet about our connection to our God. It’s often easier to be a “secret believer.” It’s easier if you are living in two worlds, to keep quiet about the one when you’re in the other. Making little compromises and losing your true identity in the process.

Or perhaps, in that moment, it was wise and strategic to stay silent. I can’t say. I don’t think the Bible is clearly saying one or the other in this part of the story either. But there is probably coming a time in this story when Esther will need to reveal that she is also Hadassah, and it might take some courage to get there.

Mordecai is keeping a close eye on her. Verse 11.

“Every day he walked back and forth near the courtyard of the harem to find out how Esther was and what was happening to her.”

He has not given up on her, even though she was taken. He’s right there checking on her every single day. 

I think, men, that we could learn something from that! Checking on the well-being (literally the shalom) of the key women in our lives every single day.

Mordecai was probably worried about her. What was going to happen to Hadassah?

Verses 12 through 14 explain the process that all of the girls in this program went through. Look at verse 12.

“Before a girl's turn came to go in to King Xerxes, she had to complete twelve months of beauty treatments prescribed for the women, six months with oil of myrrh and six with perfumes and cosmetics. [A whole year!] And this is how she would go to the king: Anything she wanted was given her to take with her from the harem to the king's palace. [Perfumes, clothes, jewelry, aphrodisiacs, special food. Anything that she thinks would really please him.] In the evening she would go there...and in the morning return to another part of the harem to the care of Shaashgaz, the king's eunuch who was in charge of the concubines. She would not return to the king unless he was pleased with her and summoned her by name” (vv.12-14).

I love how careful the storyteller is with the details.

We don’t have to have it all spelled out for us.

She prepares for a year. She gets herself all dolled up. She goes in the evening. She stays the night. She goes from the part of the harem for virgins to the part of the harem for concubines. She is no longer in the realm of Hegai but of Shaashgaz.

Her life has changed.

She has “auditioned.”
Her status has changed.
She has been inducted into a new reality.

She is not quite a wife. She’s still a prisoner, really, and always will be. But she could be called back for some more if the king calls her by name. And not many were called back.

That’s what happened to all of them. What about Hadassah? What happened to her in particular? In verse 15, her time has come.

“When the turn came for Esther ([to be clear, that’s Hadassah] the girl Mordecai had adopted, the daughter of his uncle Abihail) to go to the king, she asked for nothing other than what Hegai, the king's eunuch who was in charge of the harem, suggested. And Esther won the favor of everyone who saw her. [Favor!] She was taken to King Xerxes in the royal residence in the tenth month, the month of Tebeth, in the seventh year of his reign.”

That was probably 479BC. Church, that was four years since Vashti had been banished! Has Xerxes been trying out new girls for four years?!!

Verse 16 says again that Esther was taken. 
Her parents were taken from her.
She was taken from her guardian.
She was taken from the harem to the king.

And verse 17 says that there she found favor with him. Look at verse 17.

“Now the king was attracted to Esther more than to any of the other women, and she won his favor and approval more than any of the other virgins. So he set a royal crown on her head and made her queen instead of Vashti” (v.17).

Ahasuerus took a big high royal turban and set it on her head.

“And the king gave a great banquet, Esther's banquet, for all his nobles and officials. He proclaimed a holiday throughout the provinces and distributed gifts with royal liberality” (v.18).

Esther won! Esther won the contest. She won hands down. She was the best in the king’s eyes! 
The king even threw her a banquet!

We said last week to keep an eye on the banquets in this story. “Mishteh.” Every time a banquet happens, the story changes. This girl went from a nobody orphan exile at the bottom of society to be rocketed to the tippy top! Hadassah is now Queen Esther! She was married. Not just a concubine but a wife. And not just a wife but a queen. Never had she ever expected anything like this. What an honor! What possibilities may stretch ahead of her!

Is this a good thing?
Well, there’s certainly good things about it. I don’t think a good Jewish girl was supposed to go bed with an uncircumcised pagan they weren’t even married to. And they weren’t supposed to marry outside of the twelve tribes either [see Ezra 9-10 for more about this!].

But it’s not like she had much choice, and now a Jew (though a secret one) is now the Queen of Persia. In a place of honor and power. And everybody in the kingdom is celebrating. The king has gotten generous like he did at the last banquet with the wine. He’s giving out gifts with “royal liberality.”  Probably canceling taxes so that everybody celebrates a Esther’s Banquet. Three cheers for our new Star Queen!

There’s one more part to this story, and then we’ll try to do a little application; though I think it’ll just be a hint of application this week.

In verse 19, we read another story about Mordecai and something he heard. Look at verse 19.

“When the virgins were assembled a second time, Mordecai was sitting at the king's gate. 

It's not quite clear why they were assembled. My guess is that the contest is actually over now that Esther has won, so they are getting grouped together to be sent home. Which would be a relief to many of them and a disappointment to some. Or it could mean that the king enjoyed the first round of this contest so much, he was starting a second one. It’s not clear.

But Mordecai is still doing his job at the king's gate. That's not just sitting around at a doorway! The king’s gate is where the official business of the kingdom was often conducted. V.20

“But Esther had kept secret her family background and nationality just as Mordecai had told her to do, for she continued to follow Mordecai's instructions as she had done when he was bringing her up. [The storyteller tells us this again. It will probably be important as the story goes on.] During the time Mordecai was sitting at the king's gate, Bigthana and Teresh, two of the king's officers who guarded the doorway, became angry and conspired to assassinate King Xerxes. But Mordecai found out about the plot and told Queen Esther, who in turn reported it to the king, giving credit to Mordecai.  And when the report was investigated and found to be true, the two officials were hanged on a gallows. All this was recorded in the book of the annals in the presence of the king.”

Do you get the picture? Mordecai gets wind of this plot to kill the king. Maybe he even overheard “Biggie and Terrie” conspiring together. 

Mordecai is immediately concerned for Esther! If the king gets killed, what does that mean for the queen?

Apparently they still talk regularly, maybe every day. Mordecai tells the queen. The queen tells the king. The secret service conduct an investigation into the threat, and later that day Bigthana and Teresh are hanging from gallows, or, to be more specific, impaled on poles in the front yard as a cautionary tale for whoever might even think about trying to kill the king. 

Isn’t it interesting that Mordecai just so happened to be there to catch wind of this plot?

And isn’t it interesting to see how handsomely Mordecai was rewarded. Wait. He wasn’t rewarded, was he? No. Everything gotten written down in the log. “Recorded in the book of the annals in the presence of the king.” "Mordecai. Bigthana. Terish. Gallows. Got it."

But, contrary to Persian practice, Mordecai gets overlooked for recognition. Somebody else rises in the kingdom whom we’re going to meet in the next chapter. But Mordecai gets nothing and is forgotten.

Hmmm. I wonder if that might become important later in the story?

So, let’s think together about application from this chapter of the Bible. What lessons could we learn because we’ve studied Esther chapter 2?

How to find a wife?
How to pick a queen?
How to snag a husband?
How to run a harem?

I don’t think so. I think we get the best applications for this chapter by asking once again our key question for this series.

Where is God?

Where is God in Esther chapter 2? He’s never mentioned. He’s never named. So if we see Him, it’s just a glimpse. It’s just an echo. Just a whisper. He’s hidden in the Book of Esther, after all. If we see him, it'll be just a glimpse in the corner of our eye.

I thought of three things we might say. Three things that are hinted at in this chapter and are definitely true in the rest of the book and the rest of the Bible. Number one. 

Where is God in Esther chapter 2?

#1. HE IS THERE WITH OUR SUFFERINGS.

He is present in our pain. He is on hand in our trauma.

God wasn’t absent when Hadassah’s parents died.
God wasn’t absent when she was orphaned.
God wasn’t absent when Esther got taken, violated, imprisoned. 
He wasn’t away on vacation that day.

He was there. He was right there.

How do we know that? 

Well, this story tells us what happened. It bore witness to the history of her life. And of Mordecai’s life. And their entire exiled family’s life. The storyteller tells their story. 
 
And we know Who the ultimate Storyteller is! And just because it happened, doesn’t mean that it’s good. Life is hard. The Bible says that clearly. And it’s hard for believers, too. We are not exempted from death or sexual assault, or systemic injustice.  Just because we have a Mighty Fortress does not mean that we will escape pain and harm and trauma in this life. We will not escape pain and harm and trauma in this life. But that doesn’t mean we are alone.


Just like Mordecai checking daily on Hadassah, the LORD is watching over His children.

Present in our pain. He knows! The LORD knows what you have gone through. That thing that person did to you? God was there. And He cares. 

He knows your story. And He dares to tell it. And He’s doing something with it.

We might not ever know this side of eternity what in the world God was doing with all of that suffering that He allowed into our life. But we know that He was there for all of it. And He has the ability to turn it all for our good.

We know that. The Bible says so. The Bible says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28).

And that, in the process, He will never leave us nor forsake us. 

Where was God? He was right there with our sufferings.

Second hint. Where is God in Esther chapter 2?

#2. HE IS THERE WITH OUR SUCCESSES.

He’s not just there with “taken.” He’s there with “favor.” It’s both.

Where do you think all this favor for Esther was coming from? It doesn’t say! But it sure makes you wonder. Where did all of this “hesed” come from all of sudden? How did Hadassah go from the bottom to the top in one year?

Hmmm. I wonder. God is not just sovereign over the hard things but the happy things, too.

Proverbs 21:1 says, “The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD; he directs it like a watercourse wherever he pleases.” ]

Xerxes ends up wherever the LORD ultimately wants him to end up. He makes all of his own choices for himself. Terrible as they often are! But Xerxes’ choices don’t stop the LORD’s purposes from being fulfilled. And that includes Esther finding favor with him and with everyone. It’s not because she’s so great (as great as she probably was!) but because the LORD was with her. It doesn’t say it. But... And any more successes that are in this story, especially the big surprising ones, I wonder where they might come from?

And last but not least. Where is God in Esther chapter 2?

#3. HE IS THERE WITH OUR SALVATION.

I know we haven’t seen it yet, only just a hint, but next time, Lord-willing, in chapter 3, we’re going to learn of a grave danger that threatens the people of God and yet does not catch God by surprise.

Even though His name never appears in the story. There just might be Someone who has a plan that He’s been putting into place from before even chapter 1! There just might be Someone who just might have a plan that includes little details that just so happened to happen in chapter 2. Because maybe there is no such thing as coincidence. 

Maybe Someone is sovereign over even the small things that make our lives. The details. The things even we’ve forgotten much less everyone else. Even our bad choices along the way.

The odds were stacked against Hadassah and her people. But I think we might see as this story unfolds, that there is salvation on the way.

That’s what happened at the Cross and the Empty Tomb, isn’t it?  Everything was stacked against us there. All of our enemies were winning. The World, the Flesh, the Devil. Our backs were against the wall, and we had nobody to blame but ourselves. 

But our God had a plan. He had a plan before the story even began. And it was a plan that we would have expected or come up with our own.

God sent His Son to rescue us from our sin by taking our sin onto Himself and giving us His righteousness. So that when Jesus went to the Cross, He died for our sins. And then when came out of the Tomb, He came back to life to give us life forever with Him!

Not because of anything we had done or would do.

Salvation is by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone. And we know this because of the Word of God alone. God had a plan and all who repent and put their trust in His Son will enjoy the blessings of that plan forever. To the glory of God alone. 

God is not hidden. He is with us in our salvation.

Psalm 46:11, “The LORD Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress.”

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Sunday, October 19, 2025

“The King Gave a Banquet” [Matt's Messages]

“The King Gave a Banquet”
Where Is God? - The Tale of Queen Esther
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
October 19, 2025 :: Esther 1:1-22  

You might be wondering why we are tackling the tale of Esther today.

That’s a good question, and there are a lot of reasons why I thought this was the right next book for us as a church.

For one, it seemed like it was already time to get back to the Old Testament. We were in Paul’s two letters to the church of the Thessalonians for five months of this year. It seemed like a good idea to jump right back and learn some more from the “First Testament” which the Lord gave us for our instruction (Romans 15:4).

And on top that, Esther seemed like the right next book of the Old Testament. I was going to preach Ezra next in our ongoing series recounting the Big Story of the Old Testament. 1-2 Kings, Jeremiah, Daniel, and then...Ezra, right? Because we saw back in Daniel in the Winter and Spring that the events of Ezra had already begun while the Book of Daniel was unfolding. So, Ezra would make sense. 

But Esther is another book that, like Daniel, tells a story of the Jews in Exile.  The entire story takes place far away from the Promised Land. And like Daniel, we learn in Esther how to live in a kingdom that is far from the kingdom that has been promised to us. I think that was helpful to learn about in the winter, and it would be good for us to think about some more as the next winter approaches.


There are a lot of similarities between the Book of Esther and the Book of Daniel.

But there are also a lot of differences!

In Daniel, there were lots of miracles–circumventing the laws of nature.
In Esther, there are none. 

In Daniel, there were lots of visions–revealing the future.
In Esther, there are none.

And here’s the biggest one:

In Daniel, there were lots of names used for the one true God.
In Esther, there are none.

The name of God does not appear in the Book of Esther. That’s one of the most amazing things about this book! It’s in the Bible, but the LORD is not named in it.

If you remember, just about every message in Daniel, I picked a different name for God from that chapter to be in the title of that message for that chapter. The God of Heaven, The King of Heaven, The God of Gods, He Who Lives Forever, The Ancient of Days.

Not one of those names appears in the Book of Esther. And I don’t think that’s a coincidence. That is not a minor thing about this book. That’s a major thing about this book. This book does theology without ever talking directly about God. 

God seems conspicuously absent. And I think that’s on purpose.

Some people have thought that maybe the Book of Esther doesn’t belong in the Bible since it doesn’t mention God. It’s just an interesting story. But the Jews and the Church have disagreed with that idea. God’s people have recognized that this story is a sacred story. It belongs in Holy Scripture.

Because God inspired it to help us when we feel the question:

“Where Is God?”

Have you ever felt that question? I know you have.

Where is God when bad things are happening to me?
Where is God in this day and age?
Where is God in this situation that I’ve found myself in?
Why does it seem like God is not here?

In many ways, Esther is a lot easier to relate to than Daniel. Because I don’t know about you, but I’ve never gotten a vision from God. But I have lived in a world where I wondered if God was even there.

The world goes about its business acting as if God is not present. And sometimes (often) it feels like it.

Is God here?
Is God at work?

Sometimes He sure seems invisible...and quiet.

Where is God?

The Tale of Queen Esther answers that question with subtle genius. It doesn’t just come out and say the answer. No, it allows you to feel the question and to feel your way to the hope-filled answer by following this rollicking good story!

This is one of the greatest stories of all time!

It’s got it all: 

Political intrigue: money, sex, and power.
Twists and turns that you would never see coming.
Tragedy and violence.
Comedy and humor. Even physical humor. There is so much irony and satire in this story, especially in how the storyteller paints the characters!

How foolish some of them are!
How wicked some of them are!
How brave some of them become!

This is one of the greatest stories of all time!

There’s a reason why Esther is so many peoples’ favorite. I will try not to bungle it for you as I re-tell it.

And it all begins at a party. “Once upon a time.” Look with me, please, at Esther chapter 1, verse 1.

“This is what happened during the time of Xerxes, the Xerxes who ruled over 127 provinces stretching from India to Cush...”

What a great opening line! The storyteller places this story in history and geography. It happened during the time of Xerxes. Your Bible might say, “Ahasuerus.” Same guy. 
  
His Hebrew name is “Ahasuerus” or more woodenly, “Ahk-ash-way-rowsh.”

And nearly everything points towards him being the same king that is known in Greek history as “Xerxes (I) the Great” who reigned from 486 to 465 BC.

His name in Persian is something like “Khshayarshan.”  

But “Xerxes” is the easiest to pronounce, so we’ll go with that. Same guy.

I’ll try to throw in the Hebrew name from time to time because that’s actually here behind the NIV translation. But it’s the same guy.

And the storyteller wants you to know who he is. They say, “the Xerxes who ruled over 127 provinces stretching from India to Cush.” That’s from modern day Pakistan to modern day Ethiopia, maybe Northern Sudan! This guy was a big deal in geopolitics for a few decades in the fifth century BC.

Kind of like Nebuchadnezzar, he was just about “the king of kings” of his day. It’s that Xerxes. That king.

Now, what beloved nation was within his territory? From India to Cush? Israel was. It’s not named, but we all know it. Xerxes was the High King over Israel. Remember, Israel was a football kicked back and forth between teams. That’s probably important.

Which kingdom was this one?  Remember what Daniel learned in his visions? Like the one of the big statue in chapter 2.

The kingdom of Babylon was the head of gold.
What was next? Chest and arms of silver.

We said that was probably the Medes and the Persians. Look at verse 2.

“At that time King Xerxes reigned from his royal throne in the citadel of Susa...”

Susa was in Persia. Modern day Iran. Xerxes was the grandson of King Cyrus of the Medes and Persians. The one who conquered Babylon the night of Belshazzar’s Feast. Remember that from Daniel chapter 5? 

King Cyrus had a daughter named “Atossa” and a son-in-law named “King Darius the Great” who built up a great winter fortress in Susa. And King Darius and Atossa had a son named “Xerxes,” and he took over and ruled over a vast kingdom.

But not every country was in his domain. Can you guess which nation he was unsuccessful in defeating?

Remember Daniel’s statue? The belly and thighs of bronze? Which we said looked to probably correspond to the Kingdom of Greece. The land of Socrates (who born about this time), the land of Pythagorus (with his famous algebraic equation. He had already lived and died by this time). And the land of Herodotus the historian who wrote a lot about Xerxes in his book about the Greco-Persian wars.

Xerxes wanted to conquer Greece. In fact, that might have been what his banquet was all about.

And what a banquet it was! Look at verse 3.

“At that time King Xerxes reigned from his royal throne in the citadel of Susa, and in the third year of his reign [probably 483BC] he gave a banquet for all his nobles and officials. The military leaders of Persia and Media, the princes, and the nobles of the provinces were present. For a full 180 days he displayed the vast wealth of his kingdom and the splendor and glory of his majesty” (vv.2-4).

We’re supposed to be impressed.

That is one long party! A banquet that lasted 180 days. That’s six months!

The word translated “banquet” in verse 3 (and v.5) is “mishteh,” and it shows up more in Esther than anywhere else in the whole Bible. The storyteller uses it 20 times these short chapter, and it only shows up 44 times in the whole Bible! Nearly half of them are right here in the tale of Esther.

The whole story turns on what happens at these “mishteh,” banquets or “feasts.” There are like 10 banquets in these 10 chapters, and every one is entertaining and important to the story. Whenever there is a banquet, pay attention!

This is the longest one, and it has all of these military people at it which leads a lot of readers to think that this is a political rally to get Xerxes’ armies all psyched up to go attack Greece.  For six months, they party. Maybe that’s an exaggeration? Maybe they work some and party some, but the whole festival is six months? I don’t know.

I do know that this party was an extravaganza!
 
“For a full 180 days he displayed the vast wealth of his kingdom and the splendor and glory of his majesty.”

And when that party was over, he threw another party! Verse 5.

It is possible that this is the actual banquet referred to in verse 3 which came after the display of wealth. It’s hard to say for certain if there are one or two banquets. In the end, it doesn’t really matter.

“When these days were over, the king gave a banquet, lasting seven days, in the enclosed garden of the king's palace, for all the people from the least to the greatest, who were in the citadel of Susa. The garden had hangings of white and blue linen, fastened with cords of white linen and purple material to silver rings on marble pillars. There were couches of gold and silver on a mosaic pavement of porphyry [red feldspar?], marble, mother-of-pearl and other costly stones” (vv.5-6). Stop there for a second.
 
Do you see the ostentation?
Do you feel the opulence?
Do you see the glitz?

This banquet isn’t kingdom-wide. It’s at home in Susa. And the king has opened up the doors of the palace to anybody in town. Thousands of people. Everybody was welcome for seven days to come check out this palace. 

They have the latest and the greatest stuff!
They have couches made of gold!
Couches made of silver. 

That word “couch” means “couch.” Like a thing you sit on with pillows. They had so many of these, the historian Herodotus says that after the Persians left Greece in defeat, they left behind gold couches that they forgot. Not coins or statues, but couches (Cosper, pg. 3)! Golden couches!  

Now, before we go much further, I’ve got to warn us all to be careful.

Don’t get too impressed here. 

Xerxes was trying to impress everybody in the kingdom. And it’s easy to fall right into it. I mean, just imagine walking through this party especially if you are a normal person with a normal house, and you see all of this wealth on display. Wow. Wow. Wow!

But think for a second about where this wealth came from. Nearly all of it came from unnecessary violence. From war. From setting out to conquer other kingdoms and bring back the plunder and start collecting the taxes of tribute.

Yes, it’s sumptuous, but it’s also blood-soaked. And it’s so exorbitant. It’s so excessive. Yuck.

The music was bumping. The wine was flowing. Look how much wine. Verse 7.

“Wine was served in goblets of gold, each one different from the other, and the royal wine was abundant, in keeping with the king's liberality. By the king's command each guest was allowed to drink in his own way, for the king instructed all the wine stewards to serve each man what he wished” (vv.7-8).

No two goblets were same! And everybody could drink as much as they wanted. The bar never closed. I think the point of verse 8 is that they didn’t have to drink just when the king drank. Often the rule was, if the king is drinking, you’re drinking. And when the king is not drinking, you’re not drinking. But this time, the king said, “Don’t pay attention to me. Drink as much as you want, guys. The only law here is you’ve got to drink all that you desire."

What could go wrong? A bunch of men drinking as much as they want for a whole week. King Ahasuerus was showing off. 

I think we’re going to soon see that the story of this banquet is a story of foolishness.

So I have three points of wisdom that I think we can glean from Esther chapter 1, and here’s the first one:

#1. DON’T BE FOOLED BY THE BIG SHOW.

Not everything that glitters is gold. And even real gold isn’t all that important in the grand scheme of things. (In heaven, we’ll walk on the stuff!)

The world tries to convince of us its greatness.

With whatever is big.
Whatever is flashy. 
Whatever is expensive.

Social media makes things look great, and then you order something online, and it’s so disappointing when it comes, right? Politicians make big promises and say how wonderful they are and wonderful everything is going to be if we just for vote for them. Influencers show off their homes and cars and girlfriends and boyfriends and piles of cash.  Celebrities with their record deals. Athletes with their clothing contracts. 

The world is trying to sell us something. We need to be wary, Church.

Xerxes was trying to impress everybody, but he was not a great man.

Who are you tempted to be impressed by and why? Not somebody else. Don’t think about the mistake they’re making. Look at yourself and your own heart. Who are you tempted to be impressed by and why?

This creeps into the church, too. We get impressed by the big church, the mega church, the pastor who is clever and sharp, with the best social media presence. The most exciting sermons. The worship band that really bumps or whatever the kids say today.  The most books sold. No matter what’s in them. The most “followers.”

Don’t be impressed by the big show.

This feast reminds me of Belshazzar’s feast from Daniel chapter 5. That’s the day that Xerxes’ granddad killed Belshazzar of Babylon and took over his kingdom.

What were they doing that day? Drinking it up. Acting as if the LORD did not exist. Are these people thinking about the LORD? No way. He’s the furthest thing from their mind. “Where is God?”

All they can think about is money and power and drink and probably sex.

Because here’s what comes next. 

By way, if you know this story, and most of us do, try to pretend like you don’t, while we read it. Try to think what it was like to hear this story told to you for the very first time. So you don’t know what’s going to happen next.

The next thing is the Queen. And her name is not Queen Esther. Her name is Queen Vashti. She, too, is giving a banquet. Verse 9

“Queen Vashti also gave a banquet for the women in the royal palace of King Xerxes.”

We don’t know much about her. She may be the same woman Herodotus names as “Queen Amestris” in his history books, but it’s not for sure.

At this point, this woman was the leading lady of Ahasuerus’s harem, and the queen of Persia, and she was beautiful.

Some scholars believe that this banquet was a wedding banquet meant to celebrate Xerxes and Vashti’s marriage. That’s possible, but it doesn’t say. What it does say is that King Xerxes wanted Queen Vashti to leave the banquet for the women and come over to the banquet for the men.

Who had been drinking. And drinking. And drinking.

Including the king himself. Look at verse 10.

“On the seventh day, when King Xerxes was in high spirits from wine, he commanded the seven eunuchs who served him–Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha, Abagtha, Zethar and Carcas–to bring before him Queen Vashti, wearing her royal crown, in order to display her beauty to the people and nobles, for she was lovely to look at” (vv.10-11).

Xerxes was drunk.

“High in spirits from wine.” The CSB says, “feeling good from wine.”

Oh yeah. Not the best time to be making big decisions. But Xerxes did. He decided to call in his staff, seven eunuchs who served him. And, yes, they were mostly likely castrated so that they could be considered “safe” around the harem. Xerxes was a brutal king. He was not afraid to abuse and use people.

He calls these seven guys to him. They all have hard-to-pronounce names, and many scholars that I read this week say that’s on purpose to bring out the comedic effect. The storyteller might have even changed their names for the book to make everybody giggle when they heard them.

And it’s also comedic that the king sends seven guys to collect one queen. Like so much else in this story, it’s outrageous overkill. It’s going to take seven guys to bring back Vashti. 

But what’s not funny is why he wants her over there. He wants to show her off. He wants to “display her beauty” to a bunch of drunk men. I don’t think that’s anything like the beauty of a bride on her wedding day. This is most likely showing off how “smoking hot” his trophy wife is.

This is making her an object. It is probably degrading, insulting, humiliating. Treating his queen just like all of his other property. He wants to use her as further proof of his greatness. He wants everyone in the kingdom to envy him. And it’s an assault on her dignity.

Many Jewish readers came to believe (though it doesn’t say this outright), that verse 11 implies that Xerxes wanted Vashti to appear at this banquet wearing only her royal crown. Which was probably a high turban.

Xerxes was not a good king. He was not a good husband. He was not a good man.

Don’t be impressed by the big show.

Now, pretend for a second that you don’t know what happens in verse 12. What would the reader expect to happen? Given what we’ve heard so far. This king rules from India to Ethiopia. He has just shown everybody what “great king” he is. What do you expect to happen?

The queen will obey. Right? She will obey her summons and follow, maybe be carried by, the seven eunuchs from the women’s banquet to the men’s banquet and perform whatever duty the “great” king requires.

But that’s not what happened! Verse 12.

“But when the attendants delivered the king's command, Queen Vashti refused to come. Then the king became furious and burned with anger.”

We don’t know why she said, “No.” The Bible doesn’t tell us. Perhaps she didn’t want to be treated like a showgirl. Maybe she was sick. Perhaps she didn’t feel safe. Maybe she was making a point. We don’t know.

It certainly was a gutsy move. She was taking a big risk because she was bringing “shame” on King Xerxes in the thousands of eyes of his guests.

And, boy, did he hate that! He got so angry. So angry, that he didn’t...go and talk to her and solve this problem in their marriage. 

He called his buddies together and treated it as problem for the whole nation. Look at verse 13.

“Since it was customary for the king to consult experts in matters of law and justice, he spoke with the wise men who understood the times and were closest to the king–Carshena, Shethar, Admatha, Tarshish, Meres, Marsena and Memucan, the seven nobles of Persia and Media who had special access to the king and were highest in the kingdom” (vv.13-140).

I think we’re supposed to giggle at those names, too. 

Seven more men. These are “wise men,” perhaps astrologers and lawyers and (definitely) politicians because they told him what he wanted to hear.

By the way, in this book, King Ahasuerus almost never makes any decision without consulting someone else. He can never make up his mind on his own. He has no moral compass. Sadly, Daniel has been dead for nearly fifty years, so he’s not in this bunch of advisors. And the king does not get good counsel. V.15

“‘According to law, what must be done to Queen Vashti?’ he asked. ‘She has not obeyed the command of King Xerxes that the eunuchs have taken to her.’”

Often a bad sign when they start talking about themselves in the third person. 

These “wise men” are in a difficult position. The best advice would be for them to encourage the king to repent. To see his mistakes here. To sober up and apologize to the queen for putting her in that position.

But that’s...not what they say. Look at verse 16.

“Then Memucan replied in the presence of the king and the nobles, ‘Queen Vashti has done wrong, not only against the king but also against all the nobles and the peoples of all the provinces of King Xerxes. For the queen's conduct will become known to all the women, and so they will despise their husbands and say, 'King Xerxes commanded Queen Vashti to be brought before him, but she would not come. This very day the Persian and Median women of the nobility who have heard about the queen's conduct will respond to all the king's nobles in the same way. There will be no end of disrespect and discord.’"

The kingdom will fall apart!

"‘Therefore, if it pleases the king, let him issue a royal decree and let it be written in the laws of Persia and Media, which cannot be repealed, that Vashti is never again to enter the presence of King Xerxes. Also let the king give her royal position to someone else who is better than she. Then when the king's edict is proclaimed throughout all his vast realm, all the women will respect their husbands, from the least to the greatest’” (vv.16-20).

This is terrible advice.

Memucan is trying to convince Xerxes that this will make their society fall a part if the word gets out that Vashti has shamed him like this. So he suggests that they spread the word that...Vashti has shamed him like this! What?!

And he tries to convince the king to make a law that cannot be revoked–as if the king couldn’t make a mistake in making a law–that Vashti will be banished from the king’s presence. [Which by the way, might have suited her just fine. That’s what she wanted, right? She didn’t want to see him. Even though it came with a demotion, effectively a divorce. Notice that he’s not called “queen” in verse 19. Just “Vashti” now.[

And, interestingly, if Vashti is to be equated with Queen Amestris, then if Herodotus’s history is right, she must have risen back to power after the death or fall of Esther. We don’t know. The Bible doesn’t say what happened to these folks after chapter 10.

And if he makes this law, then “all the women in the kingdom will respect their husbands, from the least to the greatest.”

Sure! That’s what will happen. Just because there is a law on the books, all the wives are going to do what Vashti did not do. It doesn’t make any sense. How are you going to enforce that one?

He’s trying to save face by legislating respect without earning it.

So, of course, Xerxes loved the idea!

“Great idea, Memucan! Yes, yes, let’s do that.”

I think that Memucan might have had trouble at home, himself, and was hoping that this would fix things there (Chuck Swindoll raises this idea in his book on Esther).

Memucan definitely was sending the message, “The men of Persia will love  you for this, O king.” (This idea was raised by Mike Cosper in his book, pg. 8). Look at verse 21.

“The king and his nobles were pleased with this advice, so the king did as Memucan proposed. He sent dispatches to all parts of the kingdom, to each province in its own script and to each people in its own language, proclaiming in each people's tongue that every man should be ruler over his own household” (vv.21-22).

There. We told them!

Here’s lesson number two for this foolish banquet:

#2. DON’T BE FOOLED INTO THINKING THAT YOU’RE IN CONTROL.

Xerxes was not in control. He might have thought he was, but he was no such thing.

He wasn’t in control of himself. He was drunk and making bad decisions.
He wasn’t in control of his wife. He didn’t earn her respect and couldn’t command it.
He wasn’t in control of his kingdom. You can’t make the kingdom respect you by making up some law that says they must. You can’t buy everybody’s love either.
He wasn’t in control of his life or his destiny.

What he did made him look weak, ineffective, and silly. 

He was a joke. As the story goes, “The emperor had no clothes.”

Don’t be fooled into thinking that you are in control. And don’t try to seize control of things you can’t and shouldn’t.

Some people (especially certain types of guys) read verse 22 and say, “That doesn’t sound so bad. ‘Every man should be rule over his own household.’” Just sounds like “biblical manhood” to me.

But the Bible never tells Christian husbands to subject their wives. The Bible never tells Christian husband to make their wives submit to them.

Yes, it tells Christian wives to submit to their Christian husbands as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22).

But it never says that the husband is supposed to seize control. He’s supposed to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her (see Ephesians 5:26). That’s biblical headship!

Xerxes wasn’t saying that to the men of Persia. He was saying that women are second class citizens if they are citizens at all. Women are just objects to be used and abused and consumed. Property to be shown off. Prizes to be won and enjoyed.  Women are something to control.

Brothers, don’t be fooled. Sisters, don’t fall for it.

Women are to be cherished. 
Women are to be respected.
Women are to be honored.

Wives are to die for.

Because our King, King Jesus, didn’t kill to get His glorious majestic wealth. 

Our King, King Jesus, was killed to give us His wealth.

And our King, King Jesus has given us the model to follow.

Now, we’ve gotten to the end of chapter one, and we haven’t even yet met anyone named Esther. The storyteller hasn’t even mentioned the Jews yet. Much less God. It’s just been these pagans with their pagan king and their pagan queen and their pagan drinking party.

So where is God?

Where is God at the king’s banquet?

Is He here? Nobody has mentioned him. If He’s here in this story, He is hidden.

I think that’s it. He is here, but He’s hidden. Lesson number three and last:

#3. DON’T BE FOOLED INTO THINK THAT THE HIDDENNESS OF GOD MEANS HE’S MISSING.

God is not AWOL. Ahasuerus is not in control of his story.

Whoever is telling the story is in control of his story.

I wonder who is telling the story?

Isn’t it interesting that now the king has a new problem? He’s going to wake up one day and realize that now he doesn’t have a queen. There’s a vacancy in his organization...near the top! What’s he going to do about that?

And is it possible that Someone Who hasn’t been named in this story is moving everybody around for His own purposes? Behind the scenes, so to speak?

Is it possible that Someone is not interfering with signs and wonders and miracles but is just nudging everything and everyone into place for His own glory and the relief and deliverance of His people?

I wonder.

Is it possible that Someone is taking into account even the foolish choices of a drunk king and the dangerous choices of his previous queen and the stupid counsel of his seven dummies (I mean wise men). Taking all of that into account and weaving it into a story that will astonish and delight people in Pennsylvania 2,500 years later?

Maybe Someone is not missing. He’s just hidden right there in plain sight.

Monday, October 06, 2025

Sunday, October 05, 2025

“Never Tire of Doing What Is Right” [Matt's Messages]

“Never Tire of Doing What Is Right”
Eternal Encouragement - 1&2 Thessalonians
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
October 5, 2025 :: 2 Thessalonians 3:6-18  

Do you ever feel like giving up? Do you ever feel discouraged and ready to throw in the towel? Do you ever feel the question, “Why even bother?”

I think that most of us can feel that way at least some of the time, and some of us can feel that way most of the time.

“What good does it do, anyway?”
“Why keep trying so hard with so few results?”
“Why do I keep punishing myself? Why do I keep beating my head against this wall?”
“Why do I keep trying to do what is right?”

In verse 13 of chapter 3, the Apostle Paul tells the Christians in this beloved baby church to not give up. He says, “And as for you, brothers [and sisters], never tire of doing what is right.”

The updated NIV has, “...never tire of doing what is good.” The ESV and CSB both have, “...do not grow weary in doing good.”

In other words, don’t give up, and don’t give in, and keep on doing the right thing. Keep putting one good foot in front of another. Do the right thing. Don’t get discouraged. Don’t lose your enthusiasm for well-doing. Stay diligent. Stay steadfast. Don’t grow weary. Do the good thing.

“[N]ever tire of doing what is right.”

That’s maybe easier said than done, but it was the Lord’s word for the Thessalonians back in the day, and it’s His word for you and me today. “[N]ever tire of doing what is right.”

Our series on the letters to the church of the Thessalonians has been called “Eternal Encouragement,” and we have noted that encouragement comes in two basic flavors: consolation and exhortation. Comfort and command.

A great majority of the encouragement in these two letters has been the first kind–comfort and consolation. It has been so encouraging to hear how much Paul loved this church, and even more how much Jesus loved this church. And what good hope He’s given them! It’s been so encouraging to hear what the Lord has in store for this church–protection from their enemies, strengthening them for every good word and deed, perfect justice, eternal life with the eternal Lord. Return, resurrection, rapture, reunion! Eternal encouragement!

But in this last section, it’s mostly the second kind of encouragement. The kick in the pants. The encouragement to get off our seats and into the game. And to stay in the game even when it feels like it’s a losing game. “Never tire of doing what is right.”


Last week (in verses 3 through 5), the Apostle Paul assured the Thessalonians that the Lord is faithful and would both strengthen them  and protect them from the evil one and empower them to do what He has commanded.

He said, (v.4) “We have confidence in the Lord that you are doing and will continue to do the things we command.” Paul expected them to obey because the Lord was at work in them, and the Lord’s work will work. God’s love and Christ’s perseverance would see to that (see v.5)!

And now in verse 6, Paul tells them what the specific commands he expects them to obey actually are. Starting with: staying away from disorderly Christians. Look at verse 6.

“In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, we command you, brothers [and sisters], to keep away from every brother [and sister] who is idle and does not live according to the teaching you received from us.”

I have three points of application to summarize this passage, and here’s the first one:

#1. AVOID CHRISTIANS WHO HAVE TIRED OF DOING WHAT IS RIGHT.

I was surprised this week at how strong Paul was here. He gives a command “in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.” And we know that the Lord Jesus Christ has all of the authority in heaven and on earth.

And so it’s nothing small when Paul invokes that name and says, “Here’s the apostolic command in Jesus’ name: KEEP AWAY from every brother who is idle and does not live according the teaching you received from us.” 

Wow. That’s strong language. We need to take it to heart. This is serious stuff.

So, who is that we are supposed to avoid?

The old NIV says someone who is “idle.” That’s someone who isn’t doing the work they are supposed to be doing. They are idle. 

The updated NIV has, “idle and disruptive.” There’s clearly more to what’s wrong with this kind of people than just basic idleness. 

The Greek word is “ataktows,” and it’s a little hard to capture in English.

We saw Paul used it before in chapter 5 of his first letter to the Thessalonians when he said, “Warn those who are [ataktows] idle and disruptive...” 

The King James has “walks disorderly.” The CSB has “walks irresponsibly.” The NASB has “leads an unruly life.” 

The idea is someone who is “out of line” and not doing what they are supposed to be doing. (Like working for example.) This is someone who claims to be a Christian (notice that Paul calls them a “brother” or a “sister”) but who “does not live according to the [authoritative] teaching” that Paul and his team had given to the church.

In other words, they had tired of doing what is right. They had gotten lazy and undisciplined and unruly and disordered. And given up. They were out of line. And Paul tells the Thessalonians to keep away from brothers and sisters who are doing that.

Now, down in verses 14 and 15, Paul is going say more about what that “keeping away from” means and doesn’t mean. It’s clearly not a complete avoidance. Because he says they should not “regard him as an enemy, but warn him as a brother.” (That’s verse 15.) So there is some level of relating that is still supposed to happen. But Paul also says that they should “take special note of” someone like this and, “Do not associate with him, in order that he may feel ashamed.” (That’s verse 14.) The idea is that the brother or sister in Christ will be embarrassed to be left out of the fellowship and be motivated to repent and change.

One commentator I read this week said that we should remain “aloof” from folks that are like this. Make sure they know we love them and that we are not mad at them. That’s not why we are keeping our distance. But because we want them to know that what they are doing is serious, and we must take it seriously so that they might change. Not ostracism, but also no close fellowship until there is repentance. Avoid Christians who have tired of doing what is right. Including stopping their rightful work to freeload on others.

Paul says that he and his ministry team showed them how they were supposed to live. Look at verse 7.

“For you yourselves know how you ought to follow our example. We were not idle [and disruptive, ataktows] when we were with you, nor did we eat anyone's food without paying for it. On the contrary, we worked night and day, laboring and toiling so that we would not be a burden to any of you” (vv.7-8).

Paul, Silas, and Timothy had worked and worked and worked when they were in Thessalonica. Paul was a tentmaker by trade. So he spend a good deal of his day making and mending tents and selling them in the marketplace and then also sharing the gospel and building up the church. He did both night and day!

And he didn’t take support from the church that he was planting. Now, we can see in other letters, that he sometimes received missionary support from churches after he had planted them–like from the Philippians. But when he was planting, he didn’t want to come across as a grifter or be a burden on the fledgling little church that was struggling so much to survive in the first place. So he took he didn’t take support from them.

I think that’s what he means by “did not eat anyone’s food without paying for it.” I don’t think that means that if they had him over for supper one night that he insisted on paying for their hospitality. That would be rude. It means that he didn’t expect them to do that night after night after night. (And he would probably have them over for supper from time to time on his dime.) The same thing was true of housing and clothes and other basic necessities. He worked for them all.

We talked about this back when we studied 1 Thessalonians chapter 2 (see v.9). Could Paul have asked them to support him? Yes, he could! A gospel worker is worthy of his wages. (See 1 Corinthians 9:3-15, 2 Corinthians 11:7-9, Matthew 10:10.) It’s not wrong for you to support me as your pastor, and how well you do it! Thank you for sending us next weekend to the district retreat for pastors and wives (see also 1 Timothy 5:17-18)!

But Paul intentionally did not do that here. Look at verse 9.

“We did this [eschewing your support], not because we do not have the right to such help [we do!], but in order to make ourselves a model for you to follow.  For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule: ‘If a man will not work, he shall not eat.’” (vv.9-10).

Paul was showing them how important it is for Christians to be faithful to work and to be self-sufficient to the degree that we can. So much so that he gave them this rule of thumb:

“If a man will not work, he shall not eat.”

If you follow that rule, that will be really motivating! I don’t know about you, but I like to eat!

Now, the most important word there is “will.” And it really means “will” as what they are willing to do. Where is their heart in this?

It’s not talking about someone who is disabled and can’t work, or sick and can’t work, or too young to work, or too old and infirm to work, or has tried to find work and can’t get work. Or if it’s illegal for them to work.

Paul is talking about Christians who are capable of work who refuse to work. They rebel against work. They are not willing to work. The “rule” is “If a man will not work, he shall not eat.”

And if he will not work, then we should keep from away from him, as well. Not only should we not keep feeding him, we shouldn’t keep fellowshipping with him either.

I’ll be honest. I don’t know that I’ve ever done this quite like this. I’ve definitely chosen not to feed someone who I was pretty sure was just gaming the system. Our Ministerium has a fund of Neighbors Helping Neighbors that we are collecting for at Blessed to Be a Blessing this afternoon, and we have turned people down that have requested help when it was clear that they were just trying to freeload.

But I don’t know if I have ever told another Christian that I can’t hang around them unless they work harder at getting a job. Most of the Christians I know follow Paul’s example of working hard for their upkeep. But there are folks out there who have tired of doing what is right. And there were, apparently, some among the Thessalonians. Look at v.11.

“We hear that some among you are idle [and disruptive]. They are not busy; they are busybodies.”

Yikes! Imagine being that guy or that gal when the church read Paul’s letter for the first time. “I heard about that guy [and everybody turns to look at him] among you who is out of line. They are freeloading on your church family.”

Now, it doesn’t say why. Perhaps they were just lazy. Some people have the exact opposite problem. The work too much. We call that “crazy busy,” right? Or workaholics. 

There are people who make work an idol. They worship their work instead of worshiping the Lord. But Paul is talking about the other kind of idle here. The opposite problem. Refusing to work. 

Not crazy busy, but “crazy lazy.” (I got that phrase from Alistair Begg.) What the Proverbs call “The Sluggard” or we often call “The Slacker.”

Some of these folks might have gotten the wrong idea about how to wait for the return of Christ. Paul has been teaching them all about the return of Christ and how they should be ready for it, right? These two letters are full of the return of Christ. He’s referred to it at least once a chapter up to this one. And some of these folks might have thought, “Well, if Jesus is going to come back soon, then why bother working? Let’s all quit our jobs and just sit around and talk.”

I wonder if anybody quit their job last week when that guy on TikTok said that Jesus was coming back on September 23rd?

But what did we just say before we sang, “On Jordan’s Stormy Banks I Stand?” “The coming of Christ, at a time known only to God, demands constant expectancy and, as our blessed hope, motivates the believer to godly living, sacrificial service, and energetic mission” (EFCA SOF #9). We’re supposed to be motivated to work by the return of Christ, not the other way around.

Notice what happens when we let ourselves become idle. We don’t just stop working, we start sinning.

Paul says (in v.11), “The are not busy; they are busybodies.”

That’s trying to capture the word play in the Greek. It’s kind of like when we say, “Are you working hard or hardly working?” But it’s stronger than that. When we stop doing the business that we’re supposed to do, we often start getting ourselves into other people’s business.” And become meddlers and gossips and busybodies. 

I read a book about gossip once. It’s apparently a bad thing. Should be resisted!

These folks aren’t working for their upkeep or for their families or for their Lord. They are working for their disordered interests. And we should not support them. And we should avoid them. And we shouldn’t be like them. See what Paul says to do instead. Verse 12.

“Such people we command and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ to settle down and earn the bread they eat.” 

Literally, “to work quietly and eat their own bread.” And then verse 13. “And as for you, brothers, never tire of doing what is right.”

#2. NEVER TIRE OF DOING WHAT IS RIGHT.

Don’t be like those guys who have given up on working for the Lord and refusing to work for themselves. Get busy and stay busy, quietly working away until the Lord returns.

Paul had similar instruction for the Thessalonians in his first letter, chapter 4, he said, “Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody” (1 Thess. 4:11-12). That’s how a Christian is supposed to live!

Now, I don’t know about you, but whenever I read this chapter, I can be tempted to be proud. Proud of my work ethic. I love to work! I like working more than resting. I’m not good at resting. I’m good at working. And that’s a problem I have because the Lord calls me to rest every night and every week, not just to work. But I don’t tend to have a problem with idleness, and I can be tempted to  look down my nose at those who do. I’m tempted to say, “Yeah, Paul stick it to those slackers! You tell them.”

And if you are a slacker, this passage is speaking to you. It’s encouragement to get off of your seat and into the game. Paul commands YOU and urges YOU in the Lord Jesus Christ to settle down and earn the bread you eat! But this passage is not just for the idle. It’s for all of us. It’s also for those of us who are considering throwing in the towel. Who are discouraged by the state of the world and tempted to give up and give in. We all need to hear verse 13!

“[A]s for you, brothers [and sisters], never tire of doing what is right.” Never tire of doing what is good.

This week, I had my prayer retreat, and I tried to pray for every family in the church directory. I didn’t get through all the names. I’m still working at it. I prayed for all of you together and many of the names, and all of the little prayer cards you gave me. But I haven’t made it through the whole directory yet. And I was tempted to give up. Those prayer cards sure are heavy. You folks are battling difficult stuff. You have a lot of cares and concerns. Valid ones for your health, your families, your workplaces, your country, your world. And it felt heavy.

But I was reminded of what we had read in verse 3 and what we had sung last Sunday. “The Lord is faithful.” And kept praying. And I will continue to pray. And by God’s grace, I will obey verse 13 and never tire of doing what is right.

Sadly, some of these brothers did not. So the church needed to take note and avoid and warn them. Verse 14.

“If anyone does not obey our instruction in this letter, take special note of him. Do not associate with him, in order that he may feel ashamed. Yet do not regard him as an enemy, but warn him as a brother.”

And keep doing it as the Lord leads. Never tire of doing what is right. Never tire of doing what is good. I like the update of the NIV translation here because it’s not just what is morally right but what is morally good and beautiful. [The Greek word is “kalopoiountes” (used only here in our Bibles) which has the “kalo” pre-fix which makes it mean something like “doing beautiful goodness.”]

Think about it.  When we who are capable of working do our work, we not only can provide for ourselves and for our families but what else? For other people. For the genuinely needy!

The Lord doesn’t just want us to not be freeloaders. And He doesn’t just want us to be self-sufficient. He wants us to be generous (see Ephesians 4:28 and Acts 20:35)!

He wants us to fill the fridge for our needy neighbors.
He has blessed us to be a blessing for our needy neighbors.
He has given some of us strong bodies that can not only do our work but can help others who can’t do their work.

And we’re gonna. And we’re not going stop. We’re going never tire of doing what is good. And we’re not going to look down our noses at those who wear out, but we are going to encourage them to get back in the game.

“[A]s for you, brothers [and sisters], never tire of doing what is right.”

How’re we going to do that?

How’re we going to do that when everything is stacked against us? Think about this little baby church in Thessalonica that had so much against them. They were new and small. They were being attacked. They were being persecuted by the Jews and the Romans. They were being hounded and pounded by their neighbors. They were getting confused by unsettling teachings about the end times and even maybe fake letters from somebody pretending to be Paul. How were they going to keep going?

God’s peace and God’s grace.

#3. EXPECT THE PEACE AND GRACE TO KEEP DOING WHAT IS RIGHT.

In verse 16, Paul prays once again. Just like he has over and over again through these two letters, Paul pops out with a burst of prayer. Verse 16.

“Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way. The Lord be with all of you. I, Paul, write this greeting in my own hand, which is the distinguishing mark in all my letters. This is how I write. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.”

“This is no fake letter. No forgery. You can tell this is from me by the handwriting. And I’m praying for you.”

I’m praying for peace. Notice that He uses the Lord’s name here. Just like verse 6 and verse 12 and verse 18. He prays for the Lord of peace Himself to give them peace. Just like our memory verse. Not just the Lord’s messenger or agent. But the Lord Himself. The Lord of peace Himself. I’m praying that Jesus would give you His peace. And at ALL TIMES and in EVERY WAY. That’s peace, peace, peace, peace, peace! 

We can have that!

Even when persecuted.
Even when attacked.
Even when the world wears us down.

We can have peace all the time and in every way. Why?

“The Lord be with all of you.”

“The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.”

That’s how. That’s what we need! Peace and grace from the Lord Himself.

How encouraging that must have been for Paul to leave that little church with that last word! A last word not of a kick in the pants, but a shot in the arm, a long cool drink of water for a thirsty soul, a belly full of nourishing food, a tank of gas. Expect it! Whatever it takes to keep on going. All of the peace and all of the grace to never tire of doing what is right.

And it’s found in our Lord Jesus Christ alone.


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Messages in this Series:

1 Thessalonians

01. "To the Church of the Thessalonians" - 1 Thessalonians 1:1-10
02. "We Loved You So Much" - 1 Thessalonians 2:1-16
03. "You Are Our Glory and Joy" - 1 Thessalonians 2:17-3:13
04. "Do This More and More" - 1 Thessalonians 4:1-12
05. "Encourage Each Other With These Words" - 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
06. “We Belong to the Day” - 1 Thessalonians 5:1-11
07. "To Each Other and To Everyone Else" - 1 Thessalonians 5:12-15
08. "This Is God's Will For You" - 1 Thessalonians 5:16-28

2 Thessalonians

09. "In Every Good Deed and Word" - 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17
[Bonus Historical Message: "Forever: Hell" - 2 Thessalonians 1:1-12, October 30, 2005]
10. "God's Judgment Is Right" - 2 Thessalonians 1:1-10
11. "We Constantly Pray for You" - 2 Thessalonians 1:11-12
12. "Stand Firm" - 2 Thessalonians 2:1-15