Lanse Evangelical Free Church
April 6, 2025 :: Matthew 20:17-28
What was Jesus’ favorite name for Himself?
In this passage, Jesus uses His favorite title for Himself to teach us about Himself.
What was Jesus’ favorite appellation for Himself?
“The Son of Man.”
You might have guessed “The Son of God” which He surely was. But that’s what others called Him. Like His Father. And like the Roman Centurion at his crucifixion.
Jesus likes to use this phrase for Himself, “The Son of Man.” And I think He liked it for various reasons. One was its ambiguity and the mystery. It could just mean someone who was a human. A son of man is himself a man, and He was that!
But there’s obviously more to it. Israelite believers who had read the Book of Daniel may have interpreted this title, “Son of Man,” as a name for the coming Messiah.
Remember how “Son of Man” shows up in the central vision in the Book of Daniel, chapter 7? The last chapter in Aramaic and the first vision of the wiseman Daniel himself. Listen again to Daniel chapter 7, verses 13 and 14. It’s in the vision of the Ancient of Days. Keep your eyes on the Ancient of Days.
Daniel writes, “In my vision at night I looked, and there before me was one like a son of man, coming with the clouds of heaven. He approached the Ancient of Days and was led into his presence. He was given authority, glory and sovereign power; all peoples, nations and men of every language worshiped him. His dominion is an everlasting dominion that will not pass away, and his kingdom is one that will never be destroyed.”
Wow! That’s the Son of Man! The Son of Man is the King of Kingdoms!
He is human, yes. But so much more! He is a human who rides on the clouds! He is a human who can approach the Ancient of Days without fear and trepidation. He is a son of man who is welcome in the presence of the Ancient of Days and given the kingdom of kingdoms! Which He then shares with His people!
And that’s how Jesus saw Himself! In Matthew chapter 19 (the chapter right before this one), Jesus said this. Look at chapter 19, verse 28 & 29.
“Jesus said to them, ‘I tell you the truth, at the renewal of all things, when the Son of Man sits on his glorious throne, you who have followed me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life.”
The Son of Man coming in glory and sitting on His glorious throne and giving away glorious gifts! That’s the Son of Man!
But that’s not all that the Son of Man is. That’s not all that the Son of Man is going to do. It turns out that the Son of Man is going to be very different than many people expected.
Jesus is often different than we expect, is He not? You could never predict Jesus. The more you get to know Him and become like Him, the more He makes sense to you, but He’s definitely counter-intuitive and counter-cultural.
We’ve seen that again and again, haven’t we? For example, when Jesus describes His kingdom. What is the kingdom of kingdoms actually like? Read the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5-8.
It’s upside-down and inside-out. The opposite of what we’d ever predict.
It’s upside-down and inside-out.
In fact, what does Jesus say in verse 30? Chapter 19, verse 30, right after that prediction of the glorious coming, the glorious throne, the glorious kingdom?
“But many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first.”
It’s not just an upside-down kingdom. It’s a back-to-front kingdom. It’s a last-to-first kingdom. In Jesus’ kingdom, the last will be first and the first will be last.
And that goes for Him, as well! In today’s passage (Matthew 20:17-28), Jesus shows us how He Himself will live out this first and last theology.
The Son of Man will not just come in kingdom glory.
He will first come in suffering service.
I only have two points this morning, and they are both things you would never expect the Son of Man to do if all you had was Daniel 7.
Here’s the first one:
#1. THE SON OF MAN CAME TO SUFFER.
I know that we’re used to that idea, but the disciples sure weren’t.
"The Son of Man comes in glory! He rides the clouds! He sits on a glorious throne! He doesn’t come to suffer?!"
But that’s exactly what Jesus predicts in Matthew chapter 20. Look at verse 17.
“Now as Jesus was going up to Jerusalem, he took the twelve disciples aside and said to them, ‘We are going up to Jerusalem, and the Son of Man will be betrayed to the chief priests and the teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death and will turn him over to the Gentiles to be mocked and flogged and crucified. On the third day he will be raised to life!’” (Matt. 20:17-19).
Isn’t it amazing that Jesus knows exactly what is going to happen to Him? Jesus is on His way up to Jerusalem. He’s almost there!
We know what’s going to happen in Jerusalem. We just studied the Gospel of John last year.
And Jesus knows what is going to happen in Jerusalem. He pulls His followers aside on the road, and He tells them so that they are prepared!
“We are going up to Jerusalem, and the Son of Man [“The Son of Man, that’s Me.”] will be betrayed to the chief priests and the teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death and will turn him over to the Gentiles to be mocked and flogged and crucified” (vv.17-18).
Listen to those verbs:
Be betrayed.
Condemned to death.
Turned over to Pilate and the Romans.
Mocked.
Flogged.
Crucified.
The Son of Man was going to be:
Mocked. Flogged. Crucified.
Mocked. Flogged. Crucified.
Mocked. Flogged. Crucified.
Jesus knew what was coming.
In fact, He chose it!
Praise the Lord for verse 19, and “On the third day he will be raised to life!” Jesus knew that, too. He knew that suffering was the true path to glory. He knew about His resurrection. That the last will be first.
But He also knew about the Cross. Mocked. Flogged. Crucified. Jesus took the last place to get the first place. Mocked. Flogged. Crucified.
As we enter Passion Week next Sunday just think of those 3 words from Jesus’ lips. What He knew was coming. The Son of Man would be mocked, flogged, crucified.
What’s really sad about verse 20 is that they clearly were not listening. I know because of what James and John do. They bring their Mom to Jesus to try get to be first in the kingdom. They are clearly not paying attention. Verse 20.
“Then the mother of Zebedee's sons came to Jesus with her sons and, kneeling down, asked a favor of him. [This ought to be good.] ‘What is it you want?’ he asked. She said, ‘Grant that one of these two sons of mine may sit at your right and the other at your left in your kingdom.’”
What do you think of that request? Well, it’s great that she and they believe in the kingdom. Many people then did not believe that Jesus was the coming king. And many people today still do not believe that Jesus is the coming king. They got that right. They believed what He said in chapter 19, verse 28.
“By the way, you mentioned twelve thrones. I was just wondering if my two sons could be on the thrones immediately to your right and to your left. What do you say?”
[By the way, it’s possible that James and John were actually half-cousins of Jesus and this woman named “Salome” was Jesus’ aunt. It’s not at all for sure as the Bible never comes out and says it, but if you follow the names and relationships in the gospels, it’s definitely possible. So this could be Jesus’ Jewish aunt trying to get some special favors in.]
"So what do you say, Jesus? I mean everybody’s got to have a right hand man!" V.22. Truer words were never spoken.
“‘You don't know what you are asking,’ Jesus said to them. ‘Can you drink the cup I am going to drink?’” Stop there for a second.
These folks have no clue. Jesus just said that He was going to be mocked, flogged, crucified. And they’re like, “Yeah, whatever, sure. But can we be glorified? We want to be first in the kingdom!”
And Jesus says, “Can you drink the cup I am going to drink?”
What do you think is in that cup? I believe they think that cup is the cup of victory. “Can you drink from the cup of glory that I drink from?” “Sure! Hand it over.” v.22 “‘We can,’ they answered.” “I’ll drink to that!”
But it’s not the cup of glory. It’s not the cup of victory. It’s the cup of death. It’s the cup of God’s wrath. It’s the cup of suffering. When Jesus was praying in the Garden of Gethsemane, He asked His Father if there is any way that this cup could be taken away from Him (cf. Matthew 26:39)! And they say that the could drink it with Him.
“You don’t know what you’re asking.” This cup is the cup of being mocked, flogged, and crucified. And even more, bearing the just wrath of God. That’s what the Son of Man is going to do. The Son of Man Came to Suffer.
So we shouldn’t be surprised if we have to follow in His footsteps. V.23
“Jesus said to them, ‘You will indeed drink from my cup, but to sit at my right or left is not for me to grant. These places belong to those for whom they have been prepared by my Father.’”
That’s another surprise. Jesus says that they will drink, to some small degree, from His cup. They too will suffer. Not exactly like He did. But kind of like He did.
The Sons of Zebedee? James will be killed by Herod in Acts chapter 12. Killed by a sword. John will be exiled to the island of Patmos. The Sons of Zebedee will suffer for Jesus’ sake.
And we, too, should not be surprised when are called to suffer for Him, as well. Because that’s the path that Jesus took. Suffering is the path to glory. Why would we think that we would get there without any pain?
But they all did. All of the disciples thought this way. V.24
“When the ten heard about this, they were indignant with the two brothers.
[They weren’t more godly, they were jealous. “Hey, you’re trying to take our place! We want to be first.”]
Jesus called them together and said, [No way, guys.] ‘You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave–just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
#2. THE SON OF MAN CAME TO SERVE.
They all want to be first. And Jesus says, “No, no, no. You want to be last. Don’t be like the world. The pagans want to be lords and authorities and little potentates. They want to be kings! But my kingdom is upside-down. If you want to be great, you must be a servant. If you want to be first, you must be last. You must be a slave.”
Jesus says, “Don’t be like them. Be like Me!”
How counter-cultural. How counter-intuitive. Nothing has changed. The world still clamors to be first. Nobody runs to the back of the line. Nobody lives to die to self and deny themselves. Everybody loves to live for their selves.
Think about it. What is the number one thing the world tells you today:
“Be yourself.”
“Trust yourself.”
“Love yourself.”
Jesus says, “Die to self.”
And serve others.
Now, of course, this doesn’t mean that someone who is in authority no longer exercises authority. Jesus has all authority and exercises it. But He does so as a servant. He is the prime example of serving others, putting them before Himself. And His Crosswork is the prime example of His Servanthood. His suffering was His way of serving.
Verse 28 is so wonderful! One of my favorite lines of Scripture.
Serve others, “just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
I’ll say it this way: The Son of Man from Daniel 7 is also the Suffering Servant of Isaiah 53.
He is worthy of the crown because He drank from the cup.
One of the reasons why Son of Man was welcome in the presence of the Ancient of Days was because He had suffered for His people! Because He had given His life as a ransom FOR many.
That means “in place of” many.
A ransom is a price paid for someone’s freedom.
On the Cross, Jesus was paying the price of freedom from sin and guilt and shame.
Isaiah 53:12 says that the Suffering Servant will be rewarded “because he poured out his life unto death, and was numbered with the transgressors. For he bore the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors.”
Jesus is “riffing on” that language. He’s alluding to Isaiah 53 and saying that He will fulfill it. The Son of Man came to serve.
And so, we who follow Him, should choose to serve, as well.
Are you a servant? Would that appellation be appropriate for you? Would it go on your business card? Would that fit on your social media bio? And nobody would laugh? “Matt Mitchell, servant.” I want it to.
When was the last time you put somebody ahead of yourself, and you didn’t do it to manipulate them? When was the last time you took the last place because you were following Jesus?
The Son of Man deserved to be served, but instead He served. How much more should we serve the people around us?
How could you quietly up your servant quotient today, this week?
At work?
At home?
In the neighborhood?
At church?
Today is our quarterly church family meeting. Does anybody remember what I said at our last quarterly church family meeting as my vision for 2025? I don’t expect anybody to remember!
But what I said was my vision for 2025 was “Serving the King.”
Serving. This year, we have a number of things planned that call us to serve others:
We are planning to serve the people of Hazard Kentucky who were severely affected by flooding a few years ago by sending an 11 member ministry teams in July.
We are planning to serve our neighbors with the first full year of the Lanse Free Fridge. It’s been used left and right.
We are serving our community through a Egg Hunt outreach–maybe the Pavilion will be done in time to use it to serve the community that day, too!
We have an exciting proposal to lay out today in our meeting in how to serve the people of Malawi in a new way.
Our church is full of servants who follow their King’s example!
I am so proud to pastor this church because so many of you put other people ahead of yourselves.
The Deaconnesses, the Facilities Team, the Elders, the Missions Ministry Team. Jenni, Jordyn, Cindy! Ladies Fellowship Group. The Hospitality Team that prepped everything for the meal we’re about to enjoy.
All of those Kids Bible Class teachers! Because we have grown in here, the classes have grown back there. And it’s hard to keep up. There were 20 kids back there, and for those long Daniel sermons! Thank you, KBC servants, for serving our kids.
Thank you for applying this teaching to yourself? For being different from the world.
“Not so with you...whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave...”
Just like the Son of Man did.
The Son of Man? The One rides the clouds? He gave His life as a ransom for many. Even though we don’t didn’t deserve it! Even though he knew what we were like. We were “completely known.” He was eyes-wide-open about who we are and what we are.
But He still went to the Cross for us.
Mocked. Flogged. Crucified.
Mocked. Flogged. Crucified.
Mocked. Flogged. Crucified.
Completely known and yet completely loved! We are covered by our Savior’s blood. The Son of Man suffered for us.
Have you put your faith and trust in what He did for you? How He suffered for you? How He paid the ransom to set you free from sin and death and Hell?! He drank the cup of suffering so that we would not have to. His suffering was serving us. His suffering was saving us.
The Son of Man came to save. And (v.19), on the third day He was raised to life! He didn’t stay dead. (Spoiler alert for the next couple of weeks.) He came back to life and will never die.
And He’s coming again. “[A]t a time known only to God” the Son of Man will return (Matthew 24:44).
During Passion Week, Jesus will use this name for Himself over and over again, “The Son of Man...the Son of Man...the Son of Man.”
But also that He will return.
In fact, at His trial, right before He went to the Cross, they were asking Him if He was the Messiah the Son of God, and He answered, “Yes, it is as you say...But I say to all of you: In the future you will see the Son of Man sitting at the right hand of the Mighty One and coming on the clouds of heaven” (Matt. 26:63-64).
He came to suffer.
He came to serve.
He came to save.
And He’s coming again to receive and reign over the Kingdom of Kingdoms.
May He get all of the glory He deserves.
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Astute readers will recognize how much of this week’s message was adapted from “The Suffering Serving Son of Man” which I originally preached on July 7, 2019. I’m grateful for the opportunity to share it again.