Saturday, September 08, 2012

When God's Kingship is Unacknowledged

"When God's kingship is unacknowledged, when his law is ignored, when the morality that he advocates is circumvented, incredible, appalling disasters are the outcome. When rash oaths in his name are used to manipulate and abuse people, when leaders use the ends to justify the means, when God doesn't exist in the lives of his people, the consequences are outrageously appalling."

[K. Lawson Younger, Jr. on Judges 19-21, NIV Life Application Commentary on Judges/Ruth, pg.386]

Friday, September 07, 2012

Upcoming at Hot Orthodoxy

Here are some new things to look forward to on this blog:

- More regular posting.  I'm hoping to post 3 to 5 times per week. Sometimes it will be pointing you towards helpful things I see around the internet.  Other times, it will be my own reflections on theology, ministry, and life.  I'll still be posting "Matt's Messages" each week.  I'll also be updating the "tagging" system to make things easier to find and use.  

- More book reviews. I'm working at producing a book review on about a monthly basis for The Biblical Counseling Coalition, a group whose vision for counseling mission resonates with my own.

I'm loving the books, and planning reviews right now for:

The Deep Things of God: How the Trinity Changes Everything
Wrestling with an Angel: A Story of Love, Disability, and the Lessons of Grace
Grieving with Hope: Finding Comfort As You Journey Through Loss

- Giveaways and Other Special Events.  I'm planning to participate in upcoming blog tours for great books  this Fall including:

Heart of the Matter: Daily Reflections for Changing Hearts and Lives
A Better December: Proverbs to Brighten Christmas

Stay tuned for free books and other fun ways connecting with good resources.

- Updates on Publishing Resisting Gossip.  I have been taking things one step at a time in trying to publish my book on the problem of gossip. I'll keep you updated on as things develop in this process.  Thank you for praying!

- What Else?  What else would you like to see on Hot Orthodoxy? What would serve you, my readers, even more and help you to connect head and heart and life?

Thursday, September 06, 2012

Happy or Sad Worship Songs?

On Tuesday, I heard this fascinating report on the shift in pop music over the last half century. It turns out that in 1965 all of the top 40 songs were in a major key and were generally faster and "unambiguously happy."  In 2009, only a minority of the songs (18) were in a major key.  Clearly, things have changed.

Why?

Well, it's hard to document the whys and wherefores of things like that (a lot of other things have changed in the same time perioud), but the author of the study quoted in the NPR story says that we like to think of ourselves as smart and that "unambiguously happy" is not thought of as very "deep" or smart today. Life is more complex.  Life is full of problems and trials and (often) darkness.  We want songs that convey that reality.

That makes some sense, and it made me think about the songs we sing at church.

It is really difficult to choose the songs each week for worship. There are so many things to factor into each week's decisions including: what fits the themes of the service and message, what we've sung recently, what we're songs trying to teach people, what songs can be played by the different levels of skill we have in our worship band, etc.

And there is also the question of popularity.  Who wants to sing an unpopular song? Not me.

But popular with who? And why?  That's the question.

I think that I have been attracted to songs that were darker, in minor keys, perhaps reflecting more emotional complexity.  I love songs like "Let Us Love and Sing and Wonder."  I want to sing songs that reflect how hard life is and find grace in the nitty gritty.

But I've recently come to realize that we don't have enough songs in our repertoire that are unambigiously happy.

Christians have a lot to be happy about. It's not wrong to rejoice.  If we are happy and we know it, let's sing about it.  Our next song to learn as a church like that will be Kristian Stanfill's "Say Say."




How about you?

Obviously, it's not an either/or choice, but do you think Christians have too many songs that are too happy or too sad?  Why?

Sunday, September 02, 2012

[Matt's Messages] “How Low Can You Go? (Part One)"

“How Low Can You Go?  Part One”
Downward Spiral: The Message of Judges
September 2, 2012
Judges 17:1-18:31

When I started this series of sermons, I seriously considered skipping these last 5 chapters of the book–they are that depressing, that dark.

But, they are God’s holy Word.  And I believe I would be doing you a disservice by not preaching them for you.

2 Timothy 3:16 says that “all Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteous, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.”

I don’t know about you, but I want to be thoroughly equipped for every good work, and I want you to be thoroughly equipped for every good work.

So, we will wade into these last five chapters in two last sermons on the book of Judges.

And here’s our title for them, “How Low Can You Go?”

Just how low can you go?

Our series has been titled, “Downward Spiral: The Message of Judges,” and we have watched as Israel has gone from the heights of joy in the victory of the book of Joshua to the valleys of defeat and disobedience and destruction in the book of Judges.

Remember this chart?

The Israelites did evil. The anger of God burned against them and He gave them over to their foes. They cry to God for help. God sends a deliverer/a judge: Othniel, Ehud, Shamgar, Deborah & Barak, Gideon, Tola, Jair, Jephthah, Ibzan, Elon, Abdon, and Samson. And then peace followed.

And the cycle didn’t just go around, it went down. Israel got worse and worse. Sometimes, they didn’t even cry out for help. The judges that were raised up went down and  down in quality, as well.  Samson seemed to be the worst, the bottom of the barrel.

Well what do you think would happen if the LORD did not send a judge?

What do you think would happen if the LORD did not intervene?

These last five chapters answer that question.

How low can you go?

There are no judges, no deliverers, in chapters 17 through 21.

No good guys. No white hats.

Things get worse, and they don’t get better.

There is no cycle upwards, just a downward spiral to the bottom.

This week, we’ll look at the story in chapters 17 and 18. And then next week the story in chapters 19-21.

I need to warn you that next week’s sermon will have to be rated PG-13 because of its subject matter.

I will be very careful with it, but merely reading the text of Scripture includes terrible acts of sex and violence.  I will be very careful with how I present it, but parents especially need to know that and take whatever precautions you feel necessary.

This is the dark bottom of the book.

It is ugly, and intentionally so.

Because these chapters demonstrate how low we go when God does not intervene with His grace.

I’m going to point out four lessons we can learn from chapters 17 and 18 this morning, and the first one is this:

#1. WHEN LEFT ALONE, WE SINK TO THE BOTTOM.

When people are left to our own devices, our own nature, our own approach to life, we naturally sink to the bottom.

We are depraved.

Humans are sinners by nature and by choice.

And we see this in chapters 17 and 18.

Judges chapter 17, verse 1.

“Now a man named Micah from the hill country of Ephraim said to his mother, ‘The eleven hundred shekels of silver that were taken from you and about which I heard you utter a curse–I have that silver with me; I took it.’ Then his mother said, ‘The LORD bless you, my son!’”

Now, you have to understand that we’re going to be shaking our heads in disbelief for the next two Sundays.

It’s already started here.

A man named Micah from the north, the hill country of Ephraim has stolen a great deal of money: 1100 shekels of silver. That’s same great amount that the Philistines had offered to Delilah.

He had stolen this money from his mom.

And he didn’t feel guilty about it until he heard his mom utter a curse on whoever stole it. Then he confessed.

He’s scared of that curse, apparently.

And his mom immediately forgives him and utters a quick blessing in the name of the LORD. “The LORD bless you, my son!”

Now, before we think that she’s an amazingly godly woman to forgive and bless like this, we need to read on. V.3

“When he returned the eleven hundred shekels of silver to his mother, she said, ‘I solemnly consecrate my silver to the LORD for my son to make a carved image and a cast idol. I will give it back to you.’”

[Huh?  How many of the 10 commandments have broken so far?  Apparently, the #1 No other gods, #2 no graven images, #3 the Lord’s name in vain, #5 honor your father and mother, #7 no stealing and #10 no coveting. And here’s #9 a lie. We’re on 3 verses in!  V.4]

“So he returned the silver to his mother, and she took two hundred shekels of silver and gave them to a silversmith, who made them into the image and the idol. And they were put in Micah's house. [200 shekels? What did she do with the other 900?]

Now this man Micah had a shrine, and he made an ephod and some idols and installed one of his sons as his priest. In those days Israel had no king; everyone did as he saw fit.”

Wow. That’s a lot of rule breaking right there. These are Israelites? They act like Canaanites!

Micah makes a shrine and installs his own son as priest. He has a house full of idols.

He steals. His mom lies. What a bunch of mixed up people!

This is what happens when God lifts His hand and no longer intervenes.

This is what happens when we are left alone. We sink to the bottom.

Verse 6 is a key verse. It’s going to be echoed 3 more times in the next 5 chapters.

“In those days Israel had no king; everyone did as he saw fit.”

Or the King James Version, “every man did that which was right in his own eyes.”

Everyone is a law unto themselves.
Everyone did what they felt like.
Everyone did what they thought was right by their own ideas.
Everyone did what they could get away with.

“In those days Israel had no king; everyone did as he saw fit.”

And they sunk to the bottom.

I recently skimmed through a parenting book that argued that children were basically angels. That children are fundamentally good.

That people are born good.  If they do bad things, it is a product of bad teaching, bad environment, and being mistreated.

But that children are fundamentally good.

Now, God has given all of us common grace and we are not as bad as we could be.

But the Bible presents a very different picture of what we are like naturally.

We are naturally depraved.

We are natural born sinners.

And if we are left alone, we sink to the bottom.

Many of us had to read The Lord of the Flies back in high school. I hated that book.

I thought that it would be like Swiss Family Robinson!  Those boys get stranded on a island and have to fend for themselves, and they would rise to the occasion and figure out a way to defend themselves and eke out a living and maybe escape the island.

But what happens?  They form into, basically, tribes or gangs and they end up killing one of them out of the badness of their hearts.

And that’s what it is, the badness of their hearts.

Christianity teaches that people are sinners.  When we are left alone, we sink to the bottom.

“In those days Israel had no king; everyone did as he saw fit.”

Micah hasn’t hit the bottom yet. V.7

“A young Levite from Bethlehem in Judah, who had been living within the clan of Judah, left that town in search of some other place to stay. On his way he came to Micah's house in the hill country of Ephraim. Micah asked him, ‘Where are you from?’ ‘I'm a Levite from Bethlehem in Judah,’ he said, ‘and I'm looking for a place to stay.’ Then Micah said to him, ‘Live with me and be my father and priest, and I'll give you ten shekels of silver a year, your clothes and your food.’ So the Levite agreed to live with him, and the young man was to him like one of his sons. Then Micah installed the Levite, and the young man became his priest and lived in his house. And Micah said, ‘Now I know that the LORD will be good to me, since this Levite has become my priest.’”

What in the world?!

Now, if we hadn’t gone through Genesis to Joshua, this wouldn’t seem so strange, but everything about it is wrong.  Everything.

Why is this Levite not living in a Levitical city?
Why is he a drifter and not doing Levitical duty like we learned about back in Numbers?
Why does Micah think that you can hire a personal priest? That’s totally against the law.
Why does he say, “Be my father” and then treat him like a son?
Why in the world does Micah think that the LORD will bless him now that he’s got a bona fide Levite on the payroll?

Because he has ignored God’s Word. That’s why.
He uses the name of the Lord, but he doesn’t know the Lord, at all.

Beware of people who use the name of the Lord, but don’t really know Him at all.

Beware of being a person who uses the name of the Lord but doesn’t really know Him at all.

“In those days Israel had no king; everyone did as he saw fit.”

Even using the name of the Lord.

Now, that foolish story sets the stage for the next story, the story of the Danites. Chapter 18.

“In those days Israel had no king. [There it is again. That’s important. We’ll come back to that.] And in those days the tribe of the Danites was seeking a place of their own where they might settle, because they had not yet come into an inheritance among the tribes of Israel.” Now, stop there for a second.

That sounds okay, but we should know by now that it isn’t.

Was Dan given an allotment of land?

Yes. Joshua chapter 19.

Then why did they not come into an inheritance?

Do you remember chapter 1 of Judges, a message we called “Unfinished Business?”

They failed to take the territory that God had given them.

They didn’t believe. They didn’t obey. They didn’t take possession of their own land.

That’s what’s got them in this predicament. V.2

“So the Danites sent five warriors from Zorah and Eshtaol to spy out the land and explore it. These men represented all their clans. They told them, ‘Go, explore the land.’ The men entered the hill country of Ephraim [they headed north, and guess what they found?] and came to the house of Micah, where they spent the night. When they were near Micah's house, they recognized the voice of the young Levite [we don’t know how]; so they turned in there and asked him, ‘Who brought you here? What are you doing in this place? Why are you here?’

He told them what Micah had done for him, and said, ‘He has hired me and I am his priest.’

Then they said to him, ‘Please inquire of God to learn whether our journey will be successful.’ [What should they be doing? They should be putting these idolatrous Israelites to the sword, not asking them for prayer!]

The priest answered them, ‘Go in peace. Your journey has the LORD's approval.’

So the five men left and came to Laish, where they saw that the people were living in safety, like the Sidonians, unsuspecting and secure. [Easy pickings.] And since their land lacked nothing, they were prosperous. Also, they lived a long way from the Sidonians and had no relationship with anyone else. [No one to come to their aid.]

When they returned to Zorah and Eshtaol, their brothers asked them, ‘How did you find things?’ They answered, ‘Come on, let's attack them! We have seen that the land is very good. Aren't you going to do something? Don't hesitate to go there and take it over.  When you get there, you will find an unsuspecting people and a spacious land that God has put into your hands, a land that lacks nothing whatever.’ [Except for God’s approval!]

Remember, “In those days, Israel had no king; everyone did as he saw fit.”

When left alone, we sink to the bottom.

V.16 “Then six hundred men from the clan of the Danites, armed for battle, set out from Zorah and Eshtaol. On their way they set up camp near Kiriath Jearim in Judah. This is why the place west of Kiriath Jearim is called Mahaneh Dan to this day.

From there they went on to the hill country of Ephraim and came to Micah's house. [Surprise, surprise!]

Then the five men who had spied out the land of Laish said to their brothers, ‘Do you know that one of these houses has an ephod, other household gods, a carved image and a cast idol? Now you know what to do.’

So they turned in there and went to the house of the young Levite at Micah's place and greeted him.

The six hundred Danites, armed for battle, stood at the entrance to the gate. The five men who had spied out the land went inside and took the carved image, the ephod, the other household gods and the cast idol while the priest and the six hundred armed men stood at the entrance to the gate.

When these men went into Micah's house and took the carved image, the ephod, the other household gods and the cast idol, the priest said to them, ‘What are you doing?’ They answered him, ‘Be quiet! [Shut up!] Don't say a word. Come with us, and be our father and priest. Isn't it better that you serve a tribe and clan in Israel as priest rather than just one man's household?’

Then the priest was glad. He took the ephod, the other household gods and the carved image and went along with the people. [He got a promotion! “Wahoo! I’m moving up!”]

Why not?  Why be loyal if you’re going to do everything else wrong?

“Putting their little children, their livestock and their possessions in front of them, they turned away and left. When they had gone some distance from Micah's house, the men who lived near Micah were called together and overtook the Danites. As they shouted after them, the Danites turned and said to Micah, ‘What's the matter with you that you called out your men to fight?’”

He replied, ‘You took the gods I made, and my priest, and went away. What else do I have? How can you ask, 'What's the matter with you?'’

The Danites answered, ‘Don't argue with us, or some hot-tempered men will attack you, and you and your family will lose your lives.’ So the Danites went their way, and Micah, seeing that they were too strong for him, turned around and went back home.”

Do you see how nothing is right in this story?

Micah stole from his mother. Now the Danites have stolen from him.

Micah hired a personal priest. Now the Danites have stolen him, too.

There is no good guy in the story.  And God is strangely silent for verse after verse.

When left alone, we sink to the bottom.

And our idols are no help.

Lesson #2 today?

#2. IDOLS ARE USELESS.

My favorite verse in this story is verse 24.  It is so pitiful.

Micah says, “You took the gods I made, and my priest, and went away. What else do I have?” Oh, poor Micah!

What kind of god is one that you can make on your own?

What kind of god is one that you can have stolen from you?

What kind of god is that?

It’s really no god at all.

Idols are useless.

So why do we love them so much?

Why do we manufacture counterfeit gods? Substitute gods?

Idols are very attractive.

They make big promises. They are controllable, unlike the real God.

You can keep your eye on them, unlike the real God.

But they can’t keep their promises. Like the real God does.

They are ultimately, useless things.

What are your favorite idols?

I’ve been trying to put to death one of mine–uncontrolled eating.

I love the pleasure of eating more than I need to eat.

And I have loved it too much.

I’m fighting back now, and I’ve lost 7 pounds so far in faith.

What idols do you love that need to be thrown away?

Idols are useless. They are only good for burning.

We need a God that can’t be made.

We need a God that you cannot steal.

We need the real thing.

And if we don’t have Him, we sink to the bottom.

What do you think is going to happen next?

Do you think the Danites will succeed?

Without looking, let’s take a show of hands. Do you think the Danite’s mission is going to succeed? Raise your hand for yes. Raise your hand for no.

Let’s see. V.27

“Then they took what Micah had made, and his priest, and went on to Laish, against a peaceful and unsuspecting people. They attacked them with the sword and burned down their city. There was no one to rescue them because they lived a long way from Sidon and had no relationship with anyone else. The city was in a valley near Beth Rehob. The Danites rebuilt the city and settled there. They named it Dan after their forefather Dan, who was born to Israel–though the city used to be called Laish. There the Danites set up for themselves the idols, and Jonathan son of Gershom, the son of Moses, and his sons were priests for the tribe of Dan until the time of the captivity of the land. They continued to use the idols Micah had made, all the time the house of God was in Shiloh.”

They were successful.

They took the idols and the priest, the good luck charms, and they successfully took over the town of Laish and renamed it “Dan.”
And they lived there a long time.

Here’s a lesson to draw from that.

#3. SUCCESS CAN BE DECEPTIVE.

Micah was successful for a very long time.

The Danites made a plan and carried it off. They were successful for a very long time.

Just because someone is successful does not mean that they are being blessed by God.

Success is no certain indicator of blessing or divine approval.

I think that American evangelicals need to remember that.

We can be blinded by success stories and think that they prove that God is saying this or that regardless of what the Bible says.

Including our own success stories.

Just because my business is thriving doesn’t mean that I am experiencing God’s blessing and approval.

Just because I get the most votes or am the most popular, does not mean that God is saying that I’m the best or that I’m righteous or that I’m following the right path.

These folks were at the bottom of the barrel and they were being successful.

Success does not prove anything.  It can be very deceptive.

What’s important is to see how our behavior matches up to God’s standard and how we put our faith and trust in the Lord and not in idols.

Not how well things go.

For example, if last Saturday, we held a gospel car cruise and it had rained, and two cars had crashed and a kid had run a key across a paint-job, but we did everything we could do in faith with the best of our wisdom and tried to be obedient to the Lord, God would have been pleased.

And we might not have known it.  We might have taken the “failures” as a sign of God’s disapproval.

Or we might look back at last week’s successful cruise and pat ourselves on the back. “Boy, our church is the greatest. We are sure good people. Look what we did for God. God sure is lucky to have us on His team! And the success proves it.”

Success is deceptive. We need to gauge God’s approval, but what God says, not by earthly standards of success.

For example, if Mitt Romney is elected President in November, it will not mean that God is now setting His approval on Mormonism, a false religion.

Success is no certain indicator of blessing.

That’s hard for us to get, but it’s the Bible’s teaching. Job was a success and that’s why he was attacked.

Asaph’s enemies were successful, and that’s why Asaph envied them. They were evil and successful.

Success is deceptive. We need to gauge God’s approval, but what God says, not by earthly standards of success.

Of course, we know that all earthly success of evil is just temporary.  God will eventually, in His timing, and forever bring justice and reward the good and punish the bad.

But, it won’t always obvious until then.

Did you notice that the writer of Judges waited until the end of the story to drop the name of the Levite?

It’s like the punchline in verse 30.

“There the Danites set up for themselves the idols, and Jonathan son of Gershom, the son of Moses, and his sons were priests for the tribe of Dan until the time of the captivity of the land.”

The grandson of great Moses was a false priest.

How low can you go?

What does all of this prove?

Lesson #4. WE NEED A KING TO SAVE US.

When we are left on our own, we sink to the bottom.

And we need someone to raise us up out of it.

Chapter 19, verse 1. There it is again.

“In those days Israel had no king.”

Now, of course, they didn’t need a half-hearted king like Saul. Or a polygamous king like Solomon. Or an evil king like Ahab or Mannessah.”

But they needed a covenant keeping king.

One who would lead them like the judges were supposed to do.

One who would take them up out of idolatry.

One who would establish the Law as the real law of the land.

One who would trust God and do what He says.

They needed king!

And they didn’t have one.

And we need a king.

And we have one, in Jesus Christ.

We need a king to save us from ourselves.

And that’s what Jesus did.

And our King is like no other king ever was.

Our King doesn’t just have people serve Him. He served His subjects by living a perfect life as an example for us, teaching us the way of His kingdom, and then dying for us–the King in our place–and coming back to life to give us life.

Worship at the Lord’s Table

And it is that king we celebrate at this table.

Left to our own devices, we sink to the bottom.

But God has given us His Son to reach down into the miry pit and pick us up and place our feet on a rock.

Left to our own self, we turn everything upside down.

But God has given us a King to make everything right side up.

Left to our own self, we trust in idols and earthly ideas of success.

But God has given us a King who topples idols and gives us a humble and right view of the world.

God has given us King Jesus, and we celebrate His death and resurrection now.

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Messages in This Series:

Unfinished Business
Israel's Downward Spiral
Ehud
Run to the Battle: Shamgar, Deborah, Barak, and Jael
Gideon Part One: The 'Mighty Warrior'
Gideon Part Two: The Snare and the Thornbush King
Downward Judges: Tola, Jair, Jephthah, Ibzan, Elon, and Abdon
The Weakness of Samson: Part One
The Weakness of Samson: Part Two

Saturday, September 01, 2012

Eat This Scroll

Tomorrow, Lord-willing, I will begin preaching the last 5 chapters of the book of Judges.

Yuck.

These chapters are so dark and ugly, and intentionally so, because they portray the the bottom of Israel's downward spiral. They paint a (grotesque) picture of what happens when God does not intervene.

I have seriously considered not preaching these chapters (esp. chp 19).

But I will.

These chapters are Scripture. They are God's word. And we need God's word--all of it.

I was helped this week in my daily Bible reading and devotional reading through D.A. Carson's For the Love of God (Vol. 2).

Carson is explaining yesterday's reading in Ezekiel 3, "And he said to me, 'Son of man, eat what is before you, eat this scroll; then go and speak to the house of Israel.' So I opened my mouth, and he gave me the scroll to eat. Then he said to me, 'Son of man, eat this scroll I am giving you and fill your stomach with it.' So I ate it, and it tasted as sweet as honey in my mouth."

...the opening part shows how important it is for the prophet to empathize with God and his perspective. Trailing on from the closing lines of chapter 2 and into the beginning of chapter 3, Ezekiel in his vision is commanded to eat a scroll with “words of lament and mourning and woe” (Ezek. 2:10) written on both sides. Ezekiel eats it and reports that “it tasted as sweet as honey in my mouth” (Ezek. 3:3). Why would a scroll full of “words of lament and mourning and woe” taste sweet? The point of the vision is that God’s words become sweet to Ezekiel simply because they are God’s words. God really does know best; he knows what is right. Therefore even when his words pronounce judgment and calamity, there is a sense in which the prophet must be empathetic to God’s perspective. [emphasis added]
That applies to Judges 17-21, as well.

All Scripture is God-breathed and useful, and I'm going to do my best to show it this Sunday and next.

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Strand and Strands

Greg Strand is the director of biblical theology and credentialing for our family of churches, the EFCA and a good friend.

The latest issue of EFCA Today has a excellent article by Greg called Undergirding the Faith which explores 7 core doctrines of the Christian faith.

At the end of the article, it is revealed that Greg has a blog (how did I miss this?) called Strands of Thought where he shares insights into theology, culture, ministry, and a whole lot more.  I added it to my RSS reader today, and recommend that you do so, too.

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Writing a Book



I can relate.  It's been about a year since I finished the first draft of my book on resisting gossip, but those feelings remain.  (Make sure to watch all the way through the credits.)

[HT: Steve Laube]

Sunday, August 19, 2012

[Matt's Messages] “The Weakness of Samson: Part Two"

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“The Weakness of Samson: Part Two”
Downward Spiral: The Message of Judges
August 19, 2012 :: Judges 15:1-16:31

We are learning together about the last of the judges in the book of Judges, the very weak man named Samson.

“The Weakness of Samson.”  He was very strong, supernaturally strong physically, but he also had significant weaknesses–especially spiritual ones.

Samson was a living picture of the downward depths to which the nation of Israel had fallen.

We saw last week how Samson had been born with so much promise and potential. The angel of the LORD Himself had announced Samson’s birth and declared him to be a Nazirite from conception: no grapes, no razors, no corpses.

And the angel promised that Samson would begin the deliverance, the salvation, of Israel from the Philistines.

But Samson seemed determined NOT to live up to his potential.

Even though he lets his hair grow long, he doesn’t seem to care about whether he gets near grapes nor corpses. In fact, he scoops out honey from a lion he killed and not only eats it, but gives some to his parents.

And instead of going to war against the Philistines, he wanted to marry one!

And so he did, and it was a total disaster.

Worst. Wedding. Ever.  The bride cried for a week. The guests cheated at the games at the reception. The groom killed 30 men. And, they were apparently divorced by the end of the week.

But in chapter 14, verse 4 the author of Judges let us into a little secret: God was still at work.

Even though Samson would never have done his part on his own to deliver Israel from the Philistines, God would still use Samson do just that.

Chapter 14, verse 4 says, “His parents did not know that this [disastrous marriage] was from the LORD, who was seeking an occasion to confront the Philistines; for at that time they were ruling over Israel.”

Now, this doesn’t excuse the weakness of Samson, but it does show us that God is still at work, mysteriously, behind the scenes, providentially making everything turn out the way He wants it.

God had promised to deliver Israel from the Philistines, starting with Samson, and He’s going to do it–no matter what.

So, at the wedding, if you remember, Samson tells his 30 Philistine guests an impossible riddle and offers 30 new outfits if they can figure it out.

And they lean on Samson’s weakness for women to outsmart him.  His new wife cries for the whole wedding week and Samson gives in and tells the answer to the riddle which she tells the Philistines, and that makes Samson mad.

“Hulk smash.”  Right?

He goes to another Philistine town, kills 30 men for their outfits and throws them at the feet of his wedding guests.  Not a great start to your marriage.

And it was the beginning of a war between Samson and the Philistines.

That war is the subject of chapters 15 and 16.

It’s really like a gangland war with escalating violence on both sides, and no end in sight.

The story picks up right where we left off with Samson and his ex?-wife.

As we read these two chapters, I’m going to point out 5 areas of application where we can take what we read and apply it to our lives.

Here’s #1.

#1. GETTING EVEN: REVENGE.

This story is about revenge–which is not a good thing.

Samson is so caught up in himself. He doesn’t think about anyone but himself.

Chapter 15, verse 1, Samson shows up at his father-in-laws house.  V.1

“Later on, at the time of wheat harvest, Samson took a young goat and went to visit his wife. He said, ‘I'm going to my wife's room.’ But her father would not let him go in.”

Hold on for a second.  Do you get the picture?

A little bit of time has passed, and Samson gets to thinking about that wife he left back in Timnah.

It appears that he’s feeling a little randy and wants to enjoy the benefits of being married.

I can’t imagine this going well. He’s got the ancient equivalent of a box chocolates under his arm (a young goat) [this humourous insight was suggested by a scholar named Boling quoted in Lawson Younger’s commentary], and he expects (as if nothing had ever happened) to be let into the house and into his wife’s room.

But his ex-father-law stands in front of the door and says, “No way.” v.2

“I was so sure you thoroughly hated her,’ he said, ‘that I gave her to your friend. Isn't her younger sister more attractive? Take her instead.’”

Nice. Wouldn’t you love to live in that Philistine culture?

And Samson doesn’t like it either. V.3

“Samson said to them, ‘This time I have a right to get even with the Philistines; I will really harm them.’”

There’s our phrase in the NIV, “getting even.”

That’s what this is all about for Samson, personal revenge. V.4

“So he went out and caught three hundred foxes and tied them tail to tail in pairs. He then fastened a torch to every pair of tails, lit the torches and let the foxes loose in the standing grain of the Philistines. He burned up the shocks and standing grain, together with the vineyards and olive groves.”

That is quite a feat!

Having foxes in our backyard, I can’t imagine how hard it would be to catch one, much less 300.  And now, you have 150 pairs with torches lit between them and they wreak havoc on the fields of the Philistines.

Now, we know that God is using this to break deliverance to Israel.

But from Samson’s point of view, it’s retaliation.  It’s an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.

And that’s how the Philistine’s take it, too. V.6

“When the Philistines asked, ‘Who did this?’ they were told, ‘Samson, the Timnite's son-in-law, because his wife was given to his friend.’ So the Philistines went up and burned her and her father to death.”

Great!  And then Samson hears about that. V.7

“Samson said to them, ‘Since you've acted like this, I won't stop until I get my revenge on you.’ He attacked them viciously and slaughtered many of them. Then he went down and stayed in a cave in the rock of Etam.”

The King James says, “he smote them hip and thigh with a great slaughter.” I take that to mean that he left them in a big jumble of broken and severed limbs.

Samson was an awesome warrior.

But he was driven by personal revenge.

His motto was “do to others what they did to you, or worse.”

Getting Even: Revenge.

That’s a powerful motivation. It can begin with a simple desire for justice to be done. Justice does involve retribution and payment for offense.

But a desire for revenge eats away at the hearts of humans and is not easily satisfied.

And more, it quickly falls into an endless cycle of tit for tat, of revenge for revenge, of retaliation for retaliation.

This week, I heard a news report about two tribes in Sudan who have endless warfare basically over cows.  One group steals some cows, the other group comes over and steals the cows back and takes some more. And now, it’s grown to include murder and rape and kidnaping.

And nothing seems to be able to stop it.  Both groups are sure that they are in the right, and they don’t trust that other group as far as they can throw them.

Have you gotten there in your relationships?

I know marriages like that.

I know families that have broken down over “getting even.”

Well, they did that to me.  So, I did this to them.

I don’t think that our culture even understands that personal revenge is a bad thing.

Most of the action movies that come out are based on this concept of getting even.

You hurt my son, my daughter, my wife.  I’m going to get you.

But Jesus presents a radically different way of living.

He talks about turning the other cheek.
He talks about going the extra mile.
He talks about loving your enemies.

Break the cycle!

The apostle Paul says, “Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord. On the contrary: ‘If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.’  Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”  (Romans 12:19-21)

Now, we see here that God can use our sinful motivations to accomplish His good plan.  God had a bone to pick with the Philistines, justice to be done, and He used Samson to do it.

But Samson (and the Philistines) were operating out of self-centered get-even motivations that would eat them away from the inside out.

Where will it stop?

Yes, someone has done something to you. But that doesn’t mean that you have to get even.  Leave room for the wrath of God, and love your enemies.

So, Samson is hiding out in cave in the rock of Etam, and the Philistines come up in force to get him. V.9

“The Philistines went up and camped in Judah, spreading out near Lehi. The men of Judah asked, ‘Why have you come to fight us?’ ‘We have come to take Samson prisoner,’ they answered, ‘to do to him as he did to us.’”

See the “getting even?”  They sound like a bunch of kids.  “We are going to do to him as he did to us!”

And Judah has fallen very far from the days of Othniel when they were leaders in following the Lord.  Now, they are just scaredy-cats. V.10

“Then three thousand men from Judah went down to the cave in the rock of Etam and said to Samson, ‘Don't you realize that the Philistines are rulers over us? What have you done to us?’ He answered, ‘I merely did to them what they did to me.’ [Sound familiar?] They said to him, ‘We've come to tie you up and hand you over to the Philistines.’ Samson said, ‘Swear to me that you won't kill me yourselves.’ ‘Agreed,’ they answered. ‘We will only tie you up and hand you over to them. We will not kill you.’ [They will, not us!] So they bound him with two new ropes and led him up from the rock.”

Now, this is a really sad story.  You know, nothing in these two chapters is how it should be. Everything this wrong.

Look what’s happened here.

Judah, 3,000 men!, has tied up Samson to turn him over to the Philistines.

They should be asking Samson, “What’s next? How do we defeat the Philistines?”

But instead, they are fearfully turning him over to them, with sentences like in verse 11, “Don’t you realize that the Philistines are rulers over us?”

This is what we said last week: apathy.

#2. GETTING COZY: APATHY.

Getting cozy with the enemy.

Being mad at Samson for fighting Philistines?!  That’s all backwards.

The fact is that they have become comfortable with their enemies.

They are apathetic, and it’s pathetic.

How about you and me?  Have we gotten to where we don’t care any more?

Are we apathetic and cozy with the world, the flesh, and the devil?

Remember, we have enemies, and we can’t forget that they are our enemies.

I think that verse 11 is the saddest verse in chapter 15.

Israel has become comfortable being ruled by their enemies. They have forgotten how to resist.

And that can happen to Christians, as well.

I see it in our choices of entertainment.
I see it in our lifestyles.
I see it in the daily choices we make.
What we submit ourselves to, etc...

We can become comfortable with the world, the flesh, and the devil.

And then, God help us.

The men of Judah here have tied up their judge and are trying to deliver him to their enemies.

But, at this point, the Lord will not allow that. V.14

“As he approached Lehi, the Philistines came toward him shouting. The Spirit of the LORD came upon him in power. The ropes on his arms became like charred flax, and the bindings dropped from his hands. Finding a fresh jawbone of a donkey, he grabbed it and struck down a thousand men.”

What a scene that must have been.

“Then Samson said, ‘With a donkey's jawbone I have made donkeys of them. With a donkey's jawbone I have killed a thousand men.’ When he finished speaking, he threw away the jawbone; and the place was called Ramath Lehi [Jawbone Hill.]”

Now, this story reminds us of the Shamgar story from chapter 3, but it doesn’t seem as godly as Shamgar’s did.

Again, Samson is motivated by personal revenge and sinful anger, not God’s glory and righteous anger.
And there he is again, using a corpse as a weapon. A fresh jawbone with its teeth still in it must have been a formidable weapon, but unclean, especially for a Nazirite.

And when he’s done, he’s boasting. But he’s also thirsty. V.18

“Because he was very thirsty, he cried out to the LORD, ‘You have given your servant this great victory. Must I now die of thirst and fall into the hands of the uncircumcised?’ Then God opened up the hollow place in Lehi, and water came out of it. When Samson drank, his strength returned and he revived. So the spring was called En Hakkore, and it is still there in Lehi. Samson led Israel for twenty years in the days of the Philistines.”

#3. GETTING HELP: PRAYER.

Samson acts self-sufficient in most of the stories about him, but we all know that he was just a man and just as needy as any man.

Now, his prayer isn’t a great one. It seems full of boasting even as he asks, but he does ask. He does pray. He does see his own need and turn to the One who can help.

The spring on Jawbone Hill is re-named En Hakkore, “Calling Out Spring.”

Because Samson called out for help.

And we need to do that, too.

We need help all of the time, and we need to turn to the Lord who can help us.

I don’t know about you, but if I'm not careful, I can go for a long period of time without praying.

To my shame!

Bob Bakke used to say that a prayer-less life is boast against God.

“Thanks, but I don’t need you, God.”

Have you ever asked someone if they have a prayer request, and they say, “No thanks, I’m good.”

What?  I know what they mean, but it could be dangerous.

We need. We pray.  We get grace.

Hebrews 4 says, “Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.”

And when we do, we can rename where we live, En Hakkore.

Now, verse 20 makes it sound like the end of the story. Maybe we’ll just have another cycle of the judges?

But no, there is more to come.

Apparently, Samson hasn’t learned a thing. Chapter 16, verse 1.

“One day Samson went to Gaza, where he saw a prostitute. He went in to spend the night with her. The people of Gaza were told, ‘Samson is here!’ So they surrounded the place and lay in wait for him all night at the city gate. They made no move during the night, saying, ‘At dawn we'll kill him.’ But Samson lay there only until the middle of the night. Then he got up and took hold of the doors of the city gate, together with the two posts, and tore them loose, bar and all. He lifted them to his shoulders and carried them to the top of the hill that faces Hebron.”

The fourth area of application is weakness.

#4. GIVING IN: WEAKNESS

We here we see a very strong man with a very strong weakness.

Last we said last week, Samson continually gives in to his appetites, his desires.

He is ruled by his wants.

This time, he doesn’t even marry the girl. He just pays for her.

It’s down in Gaza, which is Philistine territory again. What is he doing there?

Well, we know what he’s doing.

And yet the Philistines don’t win. Samson carries the city gates about 40 miles!

What strength!  And what weakness.  V.4

“Some time later, he fell in love with a woman in the Valley of Sorek whose name was Delilah. [And his weakness for her will be the death of him. V.5] The rulers of the Philistines went to her and said, ‘See if you can lure him into showing you the secret of his great strength and how we can overpower him so we may tie him up and subdue him. Each one of us will give you eleven hundred shekels of silver.’”

Now, our story turns from being a gangland violence story to being an espionage spy story.

A female agent has just been offered an enormous sum of money to get the information from the hero.

But the hero is wise to her feminine wiles and...no wait. Maybe he’s not.  V.6

“So Delilah said to Samson, ‘Tell me the secret of your great strength and how you can be tied up and subdued.’”

[Samson, run!]

“Samson answered her, ‘If anyone ties me with seven fresh thongs [animal sinews] that have not been dried, I'll become as weak as any other man.’

Then the rulers of the Philistines brought her seven fresh thongs that had not been dried, and she tied him with them.  With men hidden in the room, she called to him, ‘Samson, the Philistines are upon you!’ But he snapped the thongs as easily as a piece of string snaps when it comes close to a flame. So the secret of his strength was not discovered.

Then Delilah said to Samson, ‘You have made a fool of me; you lied to me. Come now, tell me how you can be tied.’ He said, ‘If anyone ties me securely with new ropes that have never been used, I'll become as weak as any other man.’

So Delilah took new ropes and tied him with them. Then, with men hidden in the room, she called to him, ‘Samson, the Philistines are upon you!’ But he snapped the ropes off his arms as if they were threads.

Delilah then said to Samson, ‘Until now, you have been making a fool of me and lying to me. Tell me how you can be tied.’ He replied, ‘If you weave the seven braids of my head into the fabric on the loom and tighten it with the pin, I'll become as weak as any other man.’

So while he was sleeping, Delilah took the seven braids of his head, wove them into the fabric and tightened it with the pin. Again she called to him, ‘Samson, the Philistines are upon you!’ He awoke from his sleep and pulled up the pin and the loom, with the fabric.”

Stop there for a second.  What’s going on?

Doesn’t Samson realize what is happening?

Can he really be that dumb?

I guess so.

Samson had a weakness for women. Not that women are bad, but there are bad women.

Samson was a he-man with she-problem.

He was stupid for sex.  He was in love with being in love.

He must have known that he was playing with fire, but he wouldn’t (or couldn’t even) stop himself.

Here he is asleep in the arms of a woman who is trying to defeat him.

I think we’re supposed to remember Sisera and Jael when we read chapter 16.

And it’s all wrong. This is not how it should have been.  V.15

“Then she said to him, ‘How can you say, 'I love you,' when you won't confide in me? This is the third time you have made a fool of me and haven't told me the secret of your great strength.’ With such nagging she prodded him day after day until he was tired to death.

So he told her everything. [Giving in.]  ‘No razor has ever been used on my head,’ he said, ‘because I have been a Nazirite set apart to God since birth. If my head were shaved, my strength would leave me, and I would become as weak as any other man.’

[And telling her this is repudiating the last of the Nazirite vows, the only one that he has kept.  That’s the true weakness of Samson.  He was not faithful in any way to the LORD and did not fulfill his calling. He was only interested in himself and not in saving Israel, and he was a slave to his passions. And Delilah knew it. V.18]

“When Delilah saw that he had told her everything, she sent word to the rulers of the Philistines, ‘Come back once more; he has told me everything.’ So the rulers of the Philistines returned with the silver in their hands. Having put him to sleep on her lap, she called a man to shave off the seven braids of his hair, and so began to subdue him. And his strength left him.

Then she called, ‘Samson, the Philistines are upon you!’ He awoke from his sleep and thought, ‘I'll go out as before and shake myself free.’ But he did not know that the LORD had left him. [Saddest verse in this chapter. I don’t want to ever get there. V.21]

“Then the Philistines seized him, gouged out his eyes and took him down to Gaza. Binding him with bronze shackles, they set him to grinding in the prison.

But the hair on his head began to grow again after it had been shaved.”

Samson was blinded by and enslaved to his appetites and became blinded by and enslaved to his enemies.

The only remedy is to repent, and Samson didn’t do it soon enough to escape.

But there is still hope. And it rests in God’s commitment to His own glory.

#5. GETTING GLORY: FAITH

Verse 23. “Now the rulers of the Philistines assembled to offer a great sacrifice to Dagon their god and to celebrate, saying, ‘Our god has delivered Samson, our enemy, into our hands.’  When the people saw him, they praised their god, saying, ‘Our god has delivered our enemy into our hands, the one who laid waste our land and multiplied our slain.’”

[Stop one second. Is that what happened?

Should the glory go to Dagon of the Philistines?

Did Dagon deliver Samson into their hands?

No. There is no God like Yahweh, and He will get the glory. V.25]

“While they were in high spirits, they shouted, ‘Bring out Samson to entertain us.’ So they called Samson out of the prison, and he performed for them. When they stood him among the pillars, Samson said to the servant who held his hand, ‘Put me where I can feel the pillars that support the temple, so that I may lean against them.’ Now the temple was crowded with men and women; all the rulers of the Philistines were there, and on the roof were about three thousand men and women watching Samson perform.

“Then Samson prayed to the LORD, ‘O Sovereign LORD, remember me. O God, please strengthen me just once more, and let me with one blow get revenge on the Philistines for my two eyes.’ Then Samson reached toward the two central pillars on which the temple stood. Bracing himself against them, his right hand on the one and his left hand on the other, Samson said, ‘Let me die with the Philistines!’ Then he pushed with all his might, and down came the temple on the rulers and all the people in it. Thus he killed many more when he died than while he lived. Then his brothers and his father's whole family went down to get him. They brought him back and buried him between Zorah and Eshtaol in the tomb of Manoah his father. He had led Israel twenty years.”

Now, Samson is not much of a hero. Not a godly one.

He was amazingly strong and killed a lot of bad guys.

But he was almost completely a loser when it came to spiritual values.

He’s not much of a role model.

But he did put his faith in the right place.

Hebrews chapter 11 says, “I do not have time to tell about Gideon, Barak, Samson, Jephthah, David, Samuel and the prophets, who through faith conquered kingdoms, administered justice, and gained what was promised; who shut the mouths of lions, quenched the fury of the flames, and escaped the edge of the sword; whose weakness was turned to strength; and who became powerful in battle and routed foreign armies.”

Samson was not much of a role model. Even in his last prayer, he’s praying for personal vengeance. There is nothing in there about saving Israel from the Philistines.

He just cares about his eyes.

But he does pray. He has faith. He does trust God for strength.

And God in His grace and for His glory, gives it to Samson. His weakness was turned to strength.

God is zealous for His own glory. He won’t share it with Dagon or with any other false God.

But when we turn to Him in faith, He turns our weakness into strength.

The point is not how much faith we have but whom we put our faith in.

When we trust in the Lord, He gets the glory.






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Messages in This Series:

Unfinished Business
Israel's Downward Spiral
Ehud
Run to the Battle: Shamgar, Deborah, Barak, and Jael
Gideon Part One: The 'Mighty Warrior'
Gideon Part Two: The Snare and the Thornbush King
Downward Judges: Tola, Jair, Jephthah, Ibzan, Elon, and Abdon
The Weakness of Samson: Part One

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Book Review - Loving Well (Even If You Haven't Been)


Here's my conclusion:
Loving Well (Even If You Haven’t Been) will go on my “pastoral toolbox” bookshelf right next to Jonathan Edwards’ Charity and Its Fruits and Paul Miller’s Love Walked Among Us as a “go-to book” for people who desperately want to grow in their ability to show Christ’s love to other people (and shouldn’t that be all of us?). It’s a splendid book.

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By the way, I was given a free copy of this book by the publisher with no requirement to write a positive review (or even to publish one). Thanks, New Growth Press!