Sunday, January 19, 2025

“The King’s Service” [Matt's Messages]

“The King’s Service”
The King of Kingdoms - The Book of Daniel
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
January 19, 2025 :: Daniel 1:1-21  

Daniel is a daunting book to preach. 

I’ve put it off now for almost 27 years. I’ve preached the Gospel of John twice and Philippians three times from this pulpit, but I haven’t yet tackled the Book of Daniel.

It’s not because it’s bad book. It’s an awesome book!

And it’s a favorite of many. I mean kids love it, right? It has a fiery furnace that men get tossed into!
It has a disembodied hand that writes on a wall! It has man getting thrown into a den full of hungry hungry lions! The drawings and conversations at Snack and Yack are going to be so fun!

It has a vision of a Man who rides on the clouds! It has a dream of a giant statue being smashed by a flying rock and a visit of an angel with a metallic body, face like lightening, and a voice like thousands of people talking at once (Dan 10:6). It has visions of strange, mysterious, fantastic beasts. Daniel is where to find them!

Daniel is a unique book. There’s nothing quite like it. It’s classified among the Prophets in our English Bibles, but it’s in the “Writings” like the Wisdom literature in Hebrew Bibles. It’s got history and prophecy in it. It spans the genres. There’s nothing quite like it. 


In the Book of Daniel, there are twelve chapters written in not one but two different ancient languages!

Six chapters with six stories of dramatic conflict and contest in the highest courts! And then six chapters with four major apocalyptic visions that explain the big plan of God for the world from the time of Daniel to the end of history!
It’s an awesome book. That’s what makes it daunting. Who can do justice to this?! Who can wrap your mind around it and show everything that’s there?!

It’s daunting because it is so beloved. Because it is full of apocalyptic prophecy and obscure symbolism, it can be very difficult to interpret. It’s tricky. And complex and surprising. It’s like the Book of Revelation for the Old Testament. (At least one of them.)

We just have to get ready right now to say from time to time, “I don’t know, and that’s okay.”

And Daniel can also be controversial. Not just with the people out there who have trouble believing in prophecy, that Daniel could be so accurate so far far in advance, but also controversial among Christians who believe in Daniel’s predictive power but disagree over what some particular symbols mean.

In the course of this series, I may say some things that are new or different than what you’ve heard before (if you’ve studied it), and you may disagree at times with my interpretation, and that’s okay, too. (At least on my end.) There is some tricky stuff in here.

I promise to stick close to the main thing as we go along and to show you what I see. We’ll talk about the side stuff, but we’ll camp on the central stuff. I promise to keep the main thing the main thing as we study the Book of Daniel.

And we are going to study it! Starting today. I’m not putting it off any longer.

And here’s why we’re going to dive in. Several reasons. 

First, because it’s next.
Some of you are young or new to Lanse Free Church, and you might not know that since 2003, we’ve been on a long journey of studying the Big Story of the Bible. We break it up by toggling to the Gospels and other parts of the New Testament, but we’ve also been trekking our way through the Big Story of the Old Testament.

We’ve done Genesis, Exodus, Numbers, Joshua, Judges, Ruth, 1 Samuel, 2 Samuel, 1-2 Kings, and a couple of years ago we studied the Prophecy of Jeremiah together. Remember that? Jeremiah covers the same ground from a prophet’s perspective as 2 Kings does. And they both tell the story of the end of the Kingdom of Judah and the exile of the people of Judah into Babylon.

Guess where Daniel picks up? Right there. He overlaps those stories, too.

So, it’s next. And we want to study the whole sweep of God’s Word together as a church. Not just the easy bits but the hard and tricky bits, too.

But not just because it’s next but because we need it. We need the Book of Daniel today.

For one, we need the example of Daniel. We’re going to see that clearly today as we look at chapter 1. Daniel consistently shows us how to live as faithful believer during difficult times. And our times are difficult.

There’s a fun song that I’m sure the Kids Bible Class will be singing the next few months, “Dare to be a Daniel,” and that’s exactly right.

But more and deeper than that, we need the God of the Book of Daniel! We need the God Whom Daniel serves and Daniel reveals.

The title of our series is “The King of Kingdoms.”

And thank you, Jeff, for creating the graphic design for this series. It’s based on the Ishtar Gate in Ancient Babylon, parts of which still exist today in museums. It was built by King Nebuchadnezzar during the lifetime of Daniel. So Daniel would have seen and probably passed through the Gate of Ishtar! Maybe every workday?

Jeff has modified the design for our purposes. There’s a lot of detail worked in there about things we’re going study as we go through this series. 

“The King of Kingdoms.” That has layers of meaning which we’ll get into as the series progresses. The big idea is that Daniel reveals to us the King of Kings. The king over all kingdoms, and that is God. And His kingdom will never end.

Our first memory verse in this series is from the very middle of the book. Chapter 7, verse 14. The last chapter written in Aramaic and the first chapter of the second half which is devoted to visions.

In the vision of chapter 7, Daniel sees a mysterious figure, he says, “[O]ne like a son of man, coming with the clouds of heaven. He approached the Ancient of Days and was led into his presence” (Daniel 7:13).

So this mysterious Person comes into the presence of the Ancient of Days the King of Kingdoms. And He is given a kingdom! The Kingdom! Let’s say verse 14 together:

“He was given authority, glory and sovereign power; all peoples, nations and men of every language worshiped him. His dominion is an everlasting dominion that will not pass away, and his kingdom is one that will never be destroyed” (Daniel 7:14).

We’re going to drill that verse and that truth into our hearts in the next few months. Because we need it. We need Him. We need the King of Kingdoms.

Because it often seems like there is no King of Kingdoms. It often seems like the world is out of control. Does it seem to you like the world has gone crazy? There is so much chaos. There is so much strife. So much change. So much out of our control and so many things going wrong. Sometimes it seems like we’ve reached the end of the world.

That’s how it must have felt to Daniel when he was a young man. Let’s look and see what happened to him. Something pretty terrible. Let’s get down into Daniel chapter 1. Verse 1.

“In the third year of the reign of Jehoiakim king of Judah, Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon came to Jerusalem and besieged it. And the Lord delivered Jehoiakim king of Judah into his hand, along with some of the articles from the temple of God. These he carried off to the temple of his god in Babylonia and put in the treasure house of his god” (Daniel 1:1-2).

To Daniel, living in Judah at the time, this must have felt like the end of the world. Everything was crashing down.

For over a hundred years, the main world power had been the Kingdom of Assyria. Assyria had actually defeated and exiled the people of the northern kingdom of Israel in 721 BC. But the southern kingdom of Judah has held on. They have successfully repelled Assyria whenever they came knocking.

But now in the year 605 BC, there is a new world power on the ascendency. It’s the kingdom of Babylon, and their king is named “Nabopolassar.” And Nabopolassar has a son who is the general in charge of Babylon’s armies named “Nebuchadnezzar.” A fascinating character!

And in 605 BC at the battle of Carchemish [which you have may learned about in your history class], Nebuchadnezzar wins! He beats the armies of Egypt allied with the remnants of the armies of Assyria, and Babylon effectively becomes the most powerful kingdom on the planet at that time.

And right about then Nabopolassar dies, and Nebuchadnezzar becomes the most powerful king on the planet at that time.

And he comes after Jerusalem. And he beats them. He beats them into submission. Judah is still a nation with a king, but they become basically a vassal state of Babylon.

Nebuchadnezzar is the undisputed champion, and you know how we know? Because Nebuchadnezzar takes the Stanley Cup home. 

It’s actually much worse than that. He takes some “articles from the temple of God.” Remember all of the golden stuff inside the temple that Solomon built? Gold plates. Gold utensils. Gold tools for tending the sacrifices.


Nebuchadnezzar takes those things from the temple of the LORD and puts them into the temple of his god! That was Marduk or his other name was Bel. B-E-L. The son of the god Marduk was hamed Nabu. And Nebuchadnezzar was named after him.

Which god had won this contest?

Careful how you answer that.

It looks like Marduk has won. He’s got the gold! But that’s not what verse 2 says, is it? What did verse 2 say? Look at it again.

“And the Lord delivered Jehoiakim king of Judah into his hand, along with some of the articles from the temple of God.”

The word for “delivered” in Hebrew is “nawthan.” We get our name Nathan from it. Gift of God.

The God of Judah gave the king of Judah to the king of Babylon. And the God of Judah gave the the golden stuff to Nebuchadnezzar, too. For safe keeping at Marduk’s house.

I’ve got three points for us to apply this chapter of Daniel to our lives today, and here’s the first one:

#1. REMEMBER WHO IS THE KING OF KINGDOMS.

Get this straight. The God of Judah (who we know as Yahweh, the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, the God we worship here today) did. not. lose. this. battle.

It seemed like it to Nebuchadnezzar. “Take that Jehoikim!”
It seemed like it to Babylon. “We’ve got your god’s stuff!”
It probably seemed like it to the whole wide world.

It was reported in all of the media that Marduk had beaten Adonai, and that Nebuchadnezzar was the king of kings.

But that’s not how it was.

This was God’s doing. This was God’s plan. This was God’s punishment on His people.

Daniel doesn’t dwell on it here, but this was because of everything we read about back in Jeremiah, isn’t it?

Jeremiah was a broken record about a what? A broken covenant.  For forty years Jeremiah called Judah to repent, and they just stuck their fingers in their ears. Jeremiah prophesied during the reign of five different kings in Judah. The first was godly Josiah, and then the next one was named...Jehoiakim.

Thumbs up or thumbs down? Two thumbs down. Bad king. Bad shepherd. Jehoiakim was the one that burned the Bible. Remember that story from Jeremiah 36? He had someone read to him from the scroll of Jeremiah’s prophecies, and then he would cut it off and put it into his fire to warm himself.

And eventually the LORD said, “That’s enough.” And he gave Jehoiakim to Nebuchadnezzar.

It’s interesting to think that Daniel was living through all of that. He had maybe heard Jeremiah preach. He was very young, and Jeremiah was getting old, but they lived at the same time and followed the same God. And that God is the King of Kingdoms. No matter how it seems.

And that’s good news! Because it really seems like there are all of these kings out there and all of this chaos, and it’s good to know that there is a king over all the kings that is working out His wise and holy plan.

The chief purpose of apocalyptic prophecy is not to give us all of the details. It’s to give us the big picture so to give us a right perspective. And that gives us hope and comfort and courage.

But that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Just because we know and remember that the LORD is behind this defeat, doesn’t make it all better. Doesn’t mean it isn’t scary. And doesn’t mean that things won’t get worse. 

They sure got worse for Daniel. Because it wasn’t just the gold stuff of the Temple that got carted off to Babylon in 605BC. It was also the cream of the crop of the nobility of Judah. Look at verse 3.

“Then the king [that’s Nebuchadnezzar] ordered Ashpenaz, chief of his court officials, to bring in some of the Israelites from the royal family and the nobility–young men without any physical defect, handsome, showing aptitude for every kind of learning, well informed, quick to understand, and qualified to serve in the king's palace. He was to teach them the language and literature of the Babylonians. The king assigned them a daily amount of food and wine from the king's table. They were to be trained for three years, and after that they were to enter the king's service.”

That’s where I asked Keagan to read to, and where we get the title of this message, “The King’s Service.”

These young men from Judah were selected to serve the king. Literally, to stand before him. Meaning to be a part of his court. His diplomatic corp. His royal administration.

It made a lot of sense. If you grab the cream of the crop from the nation that is under you and train them in your ways, then you have a big supply of help that can speak both languages and know both cultures and help you keep the under nation in check. Smart!

And verse 6 tells us that among those selected for this service were some pretty important names for us to know. Look at verse 6.

“Among these were some from Judah: Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah.”

These four guys were selected to be trained to be in the king’s service.

Now, on one level, this doesn’t seem so bad, does it? I mean who doesn’t like to be selected? And these guys are obviously the elite. They are good looking and smart! They are the obvious choices for the team captains. And they get to be educated! They get degrees. And they get to eat food from the king’s own table!

There are worse things. Some of their friends died in the battles with Babylon. Some are going to die in the next set of battles with Babylon. And some the next. 

In 597 BC, there will be more deportations. A guy named “Ezekiel” is going to be exiled. And in 586 BC, Nebuchadnezzar is going to attack Jerusalem and just about burn it all to the ground. And he destroyed the temple. This time, he didn’t just raid it. He tore it down. And why we have the book of Lamentations. It was about the worst thing that ever happened in the Old Testament. That’s how they felt.

So Daniel’s fate wasn’t so bad.

But think about it from his perspective. Daniel was taken far away from his homeland. Do you remember what our sermon series on Jeremiah was called? “Uprooted.” Daniel was uprooted. He was taken away from everything he knew. He was probably 13 or 14 or 15? Somewhere in there.

If you are a young man of those ages, would you stand? Thank you. They were taken from their home, and Daniel never returned. He lived to be a very old man, but he will die in Babylon. He is marched 600 or more miles away and told that he has to go to school  to serve the king who just beat down his kingdom. 

And he has to study things he doesn’t want to study. He has to study the language and literature of the Babylonians. Literally, the Chaldeans which was ancient name for the main ruling ethnic group of Babylon and their wise-men.

He doesn’t get to study Hebrew. If he studies his Bible, it’s on his own time, and there may not be much of that. He has to study Akkadian. He has to speak Aramaic because that’s their main language for court affairs, but Akkadian was their scholarly language. It has like 100 different stick figures you have to memorize and be able to write. Cuneiform.

And he has to study astrology. Not astronomy though that would be helpful but astrology–how the stars rule our lives. Hint: They don’t! But he’s got to study it anyway.

And he’s probably got to study divination. My daughter is learning how to keep cats and dogs alive as a Vet Tech. Daniel and his friends probably had to kill animals like sheep and then predict the future by what their entrails looked like.  

And he had study history (not Israel’s history but Babylon’s history) and law (not Israel’s law but Babylon’s law) and read Babylon’s books. Not Genesis but the “Enuma Elish” and “Atra-Hasis.” 

He’s got to learn all of that to be effective in the king’s service.

He’s a hostage forced to attend to Babylon University. He doesn’t want to be there. He doesn’t want to learn these things. And he doesn’t want to serve this king!

And on top of all of that, they slap a new name on him. And his friends. They had wonderful Hebrew names that reminded them of the LORD. Daniel means something like, “God is my judge.” And Hananiah means “The LORD shows grace.” And Mishael means “Who is what God is?” and Azariah means “The LORD helps.”

But look at verse 7.

“The chief official gave them new names: to Daniel, the name Belteshazzar; to Hananiah, Shadrach; to Mishael, Meshach; and to Azariah, Abednego.”

And those names are tied to other gods!

Belteshazzar? That’s like, “The God Lady Preserves the King.” Or “Bel’s Prince.”

Shadrach is “Command” or “Illumined by Aku.”

Meshach is “Who or what Aku is.”

Abednego is “Servant of Nego (or Nebo).”

How would you like to be given a new name based on your enemy’s god? A new identity and not the one you would have chosen. 

And it should also be said that these boys may have been castrated. The word translated “court officials” is often translated “eunuch,” and many though not all top officials in governments in that time period would have had that done to them [see Isaiah 39:6-7].

It might have seemed like Daniel’s world had ended. But somehow, in all of that, he remembered that the LORD was the King of Kingdoms. He never lost sight of Who God really is! He never lost sight of Who really is the King. He’s got to serve this king, but all the time, he never stops serving the King of Kings!

It’s truly amazing. I wonder who taught him this. Maybe some Jeremiah? Probably a godly Mom and Dad. And who knows who else. It wasn’t Johoiakim. 

The key is that Daniel never forgets that the LORD is the King of Kings.

And he sets his heart on following that king no matter what. That’s point number two:

#3. RESOLVE TO SERVE THE KING OF KINGDOMS.

Look at what Daniel does in verse 8.

“But Daniel resolved not to defile himself with the royal food and wine, and he asked the chief official for permission not to defile himself this way.”

Daniel set his heart. That’s what it means to resolve. It means that he decided in advance in his heart what he was going to do. Daniel set his heart to not defile himself because he served a higher king.

Now, it’s not obvious why the royal food and wine would have defiled Daniel. Scholars have a lot of opinions, and there’s some good theories out there. One is that a lot of this food would have gone against the Law of Leviticus and wasn’t kosher. It was “unclean.” But that probably wouldn’t have been true of the wine unless Daniel had taken a Nazirite vow.

Maybe it’s because this food was dedicated to idols like Marduk before being served out to the king’s table. That’s probably true. It probably was. But it was probably true of the vegetables, too.

Some have said it’s because it’s royal food for the king, and if Daniel ate that, then he was making a covenant of unswerving loyalty to the king. Like a covenant meal. True fellowship. I think there’s something to that.

Some have pointed out that if Daniel eats this then he’s becoming completely dependent on the king and just giving up everything to rely on him. And I think there’s something to that as well. Though all this food came from that same king.

It’s not really clear to us, but it was really clear to Daniel! Daniel knew in his conscience that this would defile him. I think that’s really important to see.

I’m amazed that Daniel could discern what he could and couldn’t do so clearly. He was willing to be called by a terrible name. He was willing to learn all the stuff that they wanted to jam down his throat.
He was even willing to serve before the king. And does with distinction for decades!

But this was too far for him at this point in time.

And we all have to figure out what’s too far for us.

You know what really jumped out at me was that Daniel decided that what he wasn’t going to do was eat all the good stuff. He wasn’t going to take the best of Babylon into himself. 

He was willing to do the hard part, but he wasn’t going to do the easy part.

That takes discernment, and it takes courage. Because there was all kinds of pressure to conform. This whole program of re-education was to get Daniel and his friends to conform.

And that’s true for us today, isn’t it? Do you feel in this time of chaos all of the cultural pressures to conform to the world? We talked about this last summer during Family Bible Week in Romans 12:2, right?

“Do not be conformed to this age, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may discern what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God” (Rom. 12:2, CSB). And therefore “walk in the truth.

There are all kind of pressures to conform. But the most dangerous ones are the ones we want to conform to. The easy ones! The ones that all of our friends are doing. Not the ones that the culture is jamming down our throats, but the ones that look so tantalizingly good.

Like gossip? The ladies’ fellowship group has just begun a study of this book called Resisting Gossip. I’ve heard of it. (It’s okay.)

What does Solomon say gossip is like? “A choice morsel.” That’s the thing you want to eat. From the king’s table.

Or abortion advocacy. That’s popular! It’s super-popular to be pro-choice. Who would be against “choice” and “reproductive rights” and the unfettered access to elective abortion?

Maybe that one doesn’t tempt you.

How about nationalism? The idolatrous version of patriotism that says “My nation over other nations even if my nation is in the wrong. America first. America only. America, right or wrong. USA! USA! USA!” That’s very popular and very tempting to some.

Or dressing immodestly? For both men and women. “That looks so cute on you,” the world says. And we just want to believe it and do what we feel like whether or not it’s modest.

Or what we watch on our screens? “That show looks good! What is it rated? Oh well. Everybody else is watching it. It’s so well done. Amazing production values. The best stars!”

For me personally, it’s often gluttony itself. I want to eat like a king!

And maybe the line is at different places for different people. It probably is for some of these, and we shouldn’t stand in judgment over our brothers and sisters.

But we should be careful to not defile ourselves. We should know where our lines are and decide before we are tempted to not cross them. And we should know which of those things are tempting to us.

Some of the things I’ve just mentioned are not tempting to you in the slightest!

What is? What is Nebuchadnezzar’s royal food and wine for you? Resolve right now to resist it. Resolve right now to not give into the voices of the many kings out there that are offering you “the best of Babylon.”  And resolve to serve the King of Kingdoms first and above all.

Dare to be a Daniel.

Now, notice that Daniel resolves in his heart to not be defiled, but he doesn’t get all huffy about it on social media. He doesn’t whine and complain or despair! In fact, he’s very respectful and courteous about it. He asks Ashpenaz for permission to refrain. And here’s the first miracle. Look at verse 9.

“Now God had caused the official to show favor and sympathy to Daniel...”

You know what the Hebrew word for “caused” there? It’s “nawthan” (like in v.2). Gift of God. Here’s something else God gave. He gave favor (hesed) and sympathy (compassion) to the official to show to Daniel.

You see God doesn’t just live in Israel. And He’s not confined to the temple of Marduk. He’s actually working in the lives of his people and even in the hearts of His enemies!

You and I can pray like this today. We can pray for favor with our neighbors and co-workers and bosses and even enemies. And sometimes the King grants it.

Of course, the answer is “no.” At least officially. Verse 10.

“...but the official told Daniel, ‘I am afraid of my lord the king, who has assigned your food and drink. Why should he see you looking worse than the other young men your age? The king would then have my head because of you.’”

There’s the stakes. “I like you, but the answer has to be no. If you don’t eat like a king, then you’ll get all skinny and scrawny. And I’ll get in trouble. Be a Babylonian and eat like a king!”

But I see some wiggle-room there. And so did Daniel. He didn’t actually say, “No.” Just that there can’t be a problem here. So Daniel asks the next guy down. He’s the “guard” or Hebrew is “Melzer,” which older versions take to be a name. And that’s possible. He could be a guard named “Guard.” Verse 11.

“Daniel then said to the guard whom the chief official had appointed over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah, ‘Please test your servants for ten days: Give us nothing but vegetables to eat and water to drink. Then compare our appearance with that of the young men who eat the royal food, and treat your servants in accordance with what you see. So he agreed to this and tested them for ten days’” (Daniel 1:11-14).

By the way, this is the original VeggieTale.

Daniel proposes a test. He’s taking a lot of tests these days in school. Here’s another one. 

“Let us just eat vegetables [which might include other things that are based on seeds like grains] and water to drink. For ten days. And then let’s see what we see."

Now, this is not some secret “biblical diet” that we’re supposed to follow. Just like we aren’t supposed to make sure we get our recommended daily dose of locusts like John the Baptist taught us.

No, this is asking for a miracle. The healthy wise man in Babylon was rotund. I read one scholar who said that the wisemen of Babylon were “bald, big-eyed, and chubby” (Tremper Longman). That was the ideal that Ashpenaz was going for. You don’t get that way on vegetables and water!

But the guard says, “Ok. We can do ten days. After that you have to eat the good stuff if you’re wasting away.”

And here’s the point where we have point out that this experiment might not have worked. Daniel and his friends needed to be prepared for the worst. That’s part of daring to be a Daniel. Not knowing how it’s going to work out in the short run. They might have lost their lives if they continued to play chicken with the king’s chicken cacciatore!

But that’s not what happened. No, instead, there was a quiet miracle! Verse 15.

“At the end of the ten days they looked healthier and better nourished than any of the young men who ate the royal food. So the guard took away their choice food and the wine they were to drink and gave them vegetables instead.”

Here’s our last point for today.

#3. BE REWARDED FOR FAITHFUL SERVICE TO THE KING OF KINGDOMS.

Expect to be rewarded for faithful service to the King of Kingdoms.

God was at work here. God is in control here. God is working in unexpected ways. And He is rewarding Daniel and his friends for serving Him faithfully above all others. And He continued to reward them. Look at verse 17.

“To these four young men God gave [nawthan again!] knowledge and understanding of all kinds of literature and learning. And Daniel could understand visions and dreams of all kinds. [That’s going to come in handy!]  At the end of the time set by the king to bring them in, the chief official presented them to Nebuchadnezzar. The king [himself!] talked with them, and he found none equal to Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah; so they entered the king's service. In every matter of wisdom and understanding about which the king questioned them, he found them ten times better than all the magicians and enchanters in his whole kingdom. And Daniel remained there until the first year of King Cyrus” (17-21).

Now, we need to be careful to draw the right lessons from this. Not only are we not supposed to just eat vegetables, but we also are not supposed to expect to always be the class valedictorians. Top of the class. The reward for faithful service does not always come in the same way or in the same timing. Jesus was perfectly faithful, and He had to die before He got His full reward. Don’t turn this into a prosperity gospel of health and wealth if you just do all the right things and keep your nose clean.

But at the same time, we know that the true King loves to reward He faithful servants. We live for the day when He says, “Well done, you.”

Notice that faithful service to the King of Kingdoms often looks like faithful service to many earthly kings. God gave Daniel these gifts, and Daniel was accountable for what he did with them. He didn’t give the other three all the same gifts. Just Daniel. And Daniel used them in the service of King Nebuchadnezzar which says something, I think, about how we should view our earthly callings, our daily jobs.

Daniel entered into the service of Nebuchadnezzar and then several other kings for almost 70 years–even a king that wasn’t a Babylonian!

But Daniel never lost sight of Whom he was really serving.

And may we dare to do the same.

Sunday, January 12, 2025

“To My Dear Friend Gaius” [Matt's Messages]

“To My Dear Friend Gaius”
Love in the Truth - 2&3 John
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
January 12, 2025 :: 3 John 1:1-14 

The “Old Man” wrote another letter.

Last week, we said that the author of 2 John and 3 John–who I believe is also the author of 1 John and the Gospel of John and the Book of Revelation– refers himself as “The Elder.”

And that could be because he is now old. I think he probably is old, but he’s also an elder, meaning a mature church leader (Greek: “presbuteros”). Perhaps a leader of leaders. He’s “the elder” meaning in his role as an apostle, he’s helping to oversee several churches in that part of the world. He’s the Grand Old Man who has been keeping on his eye on the churches.

Last week, we read a letter the Old Man sent “to the Chosen Lady and her children” which was probably a fancy way of addressing a particular local church and its members.

But now the Old Man has written another letter (perhaps bound up in a packet with 1 John and 2 John, we don’t know ), and this letter (which we call 3 John) is addressed to just one person. Look at verse 1. 

“The elder, To my dear friend Gaius, whom I love in the truth.”


There’s that phrase again, “whom I love in the truth.” John loved the whole church in the truth in 2 John. Here he loves Gaius in the truth.

And, boy, does he love him! He calls Gaius, “my dear friend” or in Greek it’s one word “agapayto” which means simply “beloved.” Somebody I love. Not romantically but genuinely from the heart.

He cares deeply about Gaius. He calls him this four times in this short letter! Verse 1, verse 2, verse 5, and verse 11.

“Dear friend.”
“Dear friend.”
“Dear friend.”
“Dear friend.”

Agapayto! “I love this guy!”

We don’t know much about Gaius in general. That was a very popular name in the Roman empire. Like “John” is to us! There are at least four guys with this name in the New Testament (Acts, Romans, 1 Corinthians), and we’re not sure that any of them are this Gaius. 

What we do know is that John loved him! And he loved him in the truth. 

Remember, truth and love go together like peanut butter and what? Chocolate! 

You can’t have real love without the truth. And you can’t have real truth without real love. Sometimes we like one of those things more than the other. But both are crucial. John says that he loves Gaius in the truth. Meaning he truly loves him, that’s going to be obvious. But also that he loves Gaius with the truth, or because of the truth, because they have the truth in common. They are both IN the truth. They live in the truth. They live on the truth. The love that John has for his friend Gaius is completely based upon the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

We’re going to see that John uses that word “truth” again and again in this short letter. Shortest book in the Bible and the word “truth” appears six times! The Old Man has written a letter to his dear friend Gaius whom he loves in the truth.

He really loves him. It’s obvious from the beginning of the letter and the end (and everything in between). Let’s look at the end first because we said last week that it was very similar to the end of 2 John, but we ran out of time to look at it closely there. John says pretty much the same thing to the Chosen Lady and to Gaius. Verse 13.

“I have much to write you, but I do not want to do so with pen and ink. I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. Peace to you. The friends here send their greetings. Greet the friends there by name.”

John sure wishes that he could be with Gaius. He’s got lots to say, but he doesn’t just want to use social media! He doesn’t just want to text Gaius or comment on Gaius’ Facebook or Zoom with Gaius. He doesn’t just want to write Gaius a letter and put in the mail. Those things are good! But they are not as good as face to face. 

By the way, that’s one of the reasons why I’m not a big fan of trying to put church online. It’s okay to do that. Technology can help with all kinds of things. John was using the technology of his day (v.13)–pen and ink. It’s okay if you have to use that for a time. I love our radio station out to the parking lot. The bulletin says we’ve been doing it for 4 years now! If you are sick or if you are very concerned about catching something or if you need for a short time to just listen and not be overwhelmed by people, then it’s there for you. I’ve used it several times myself.

But it’s no substitute for “face to face.” John knew that in the first century, and we need to remember it in 21st.

John wanted to be with Gaius. And wanted peace for him. Like last week for the whole church, “grace, mercy, and peace.”

And John sends his greetings and the greetings of the whole church. Verse 14. “The friends here send their greetings. Greet the friends there by name.”

Personal greetings! Those are so important. The older I get the more I understand how important and powerful personal greetings really are. By name. John might not use his own name, but he names four guys in this short letter. 

There is so much genuine Christian affection here. Do you greet other Christians both here at church and at other times? Do you learn the names of the Christians around you and greet each other with them when we meet? And the rest of the week when you see each other around town? That’s all part of loving one another in the truth. You see how it’s a command here? It’s not optional!

Some Sunday, I might just stand up here and greet each of you by name and that be the message for that Sunday!

You see what John prays for Gaius? Look at verse 2. John loves Gaius in the truth, and this is what he prays for him. Verse 2.

“Dear friend [Agapayte, Beloved], I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.”

John prays for Gaius' health–both his physical health and his spiritual health. His physical well-being and as well as his spiritual well-being. Do you see that? That’s what it means to pray in love in truth.

I think a lot of us like to pray for one or the other of those. We like to pray for everybody’s health. There are a lot of health related prayer requests, aren’t there? Cancer, infections, broken bones, dementia–all of that. And sometimes we can so fixated on praying for someone’s health and miss their heart! We can forget that our all of our bodies are going to break down at some point and die. Every one of us. But our souls will continue forever. So we should be praying about our souls! We should be praying for each other’s hearts.

At the same time, our bodies matter, too! John prays for Gaius’ physical health in verse 2. Sometimes, we act like our bodies don’t matter, and we look down our noses at prayer requests for physical health and healing. But John just does them both together. The soul is more important, but they are both important to pray for. That’s what Christians do when we love in the truth.

John is so glad that Gaius is doing so well. Especially spiritually. John has recently heard some stories about Gaius, and they were very very very encouraging to the Old Man. Look at verse 3.

“It gave me great joy to have some brothers come and tell about your faithfulness to the truth and how you continue to walk in the truth. I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.”

I have three points today to summarize what I think John wants for and from his “dear friend Gaius,” and this is the first one:

#1. WALK IN THE TRUTH.

Which was the first point last week, too, in 2 John. The Old Man wanted this for the Chosen Lady and her children, and he was so happy to find out that Gaius was doing it, too!

“It gave me great joy...how you continue to walk in the truth.”

“Keep it up, Gaius! You are ‘doing the thing.’ Your life matches the truth. Your ethics correspond to the truth. You have integrated the truth into your life. You’ve found out what the truth is and you are living as if it’s true (which it is!). Well done, you!”

Apparently, John has been visiting with some brothers in Christ who had recently been with Gaius, and they were telling John all about Gaius and how he lived.

By the way, that’s not gossip. These were loving reports to someone who was a kind of spiritual parent about their spiritual children. It wasn’t bearing bad news behind someone’s back out of a bad heart.

And, in fact, it was good news! Gaius has been living the Christian life, and it’s been obvious.

Wouldn’t you love it if someone was giving a good report about your life to your spiritual parent? I sure would! And it just filled the Old Man’s heart with joy! V.4

“I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.”

Now, I don’t think that Gaius was John’s biological son, though I suppose it’s possible. If so, I think he would have actually called him, “son.” I think that Gaius was John’s spiritual son. Perhaps John had introduced Gaius to Jesus in the first place. Perhaps he had been discipling him. Either way, he thought of Gaius and people like him as his children in the faith.

Do you have people like that in your life? People that you have been responsible for spiritually? It could be your own biological children, your adopted children, a Sunday School class you taught, someone you met with one-on-one to for prayer and encouragement.

I hope that soon everyone here would have someone that you have influenced enough that you would be full of joy to hear that they are walking in the truth!

And to be sadly disappointed to hear that they are not. Let me say this. As your pastor, I have no greater joy than when I see or hear of you walking in the truth. It’s fun to have a big full building on a Sunday morning. Praise God for how we have grown in attendance. But that doesn’t matter if we aren’t living it out Monday through Saturday.

If we are sinfully gossiping about each other.
If we are stealing from our employers.
If we are having sex outside of marriage.
If we are cheating on our taxes.
If we are fighting with other Christians.
If we are accessing porn.
If we are worshiping idols like money and popularity and power.

I have no greater sadness than to hear that my children are not walking in the truth but are walking in lies. 

It makes a pastor sad when one of his sheep die, yes, but it is so much more heartbreaking when one of his sheep run away from the path of righteousness. If you are not walking in the truth, now is the time to repent and start. If you are walking in the truth, praise God from Whom all blessings flow! I have no greater joy as a pastor than to hear and see that.

Now, what exactly was Gaius doing that got reported back to the Elder? It sounds like Gaius was showing Christian hospitality to other disciples of Jesus who were traveling through the area carrying the gospel to the world. In other words, he was supporting missions.

If you remember, last week we said that the church when it was young sent brothers and sisters in Christ all over the place sharing the good news about Jesus Christ. It wasn’t just Paul and his team, though he was probably the greatest of them in that era. And there were no “Embassy Suites” or “Courtyard by Marriott” back in that day. When you visited a town, you often stayed in homes.

And if you stayed in a home, we said last week, that meant that your hosts were endorsing you, supporting you, giving credence to your message. John warned the Chosen Lady and her children to not receive or welcome or support false teachers who said that Jesus Christ had NOT come in the flesh.

But the opposite is also true! Here John says that we should receive, and welcome, and support those who believe and teach the truth! Look at verse 5.

“Dear friend [Agapayte, Beloved], you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers, even though they are strangers to you. [He didn’t know them until now. But they believed the truth. And so Gaius took them in. And they have come back to John with a good report. Verse 6.] They have told the church about your love.”

Remember that point number two last week was “Walk in Love?” Gaius was doing that! He was loving these Christian brothers in a tangible way, and John wanted to encourage that more and more. Verse 6.

You will do well to send them on their way in a manner worthy of God. [What a thing to say!] It was for the sake of the Name [Jesus Christ!] that they went out, receiving no help from the pagans. We ought therefore to show hospitality to such men so that we may work together for the truth” (vv.6-9).

That’s point number two this morning of what the Old Man wanted from his dear friend Gaius.

#2. WORK TOGETHER FOR THE TRUTH.

Walk in the truth and work together for the truth of the gospel.

Gaius knew that we have all been given a mission, and we all have our own part to play in that mission.

You know we have a mission, right? Jesus gave us the Great Commission. To make disciples of all nations, baptizing new disciples in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit and teaching the new disciples to “walk in the truth” (to obey what Jesus has commanded us) (see Matthew 28:19-20).

That’s our mission, and it’s all of our mission–not just the missionaries. Not just the pastors. Not just the elders.  Every single disciple!

And some of us are called to GO. About 17 of us are planning to go this summer to Kentucky, taking the gospel and rolling up our sleeves and getting to work on flood relief.


I’m praying that more of us would be called to GO in the days to come. But even when we are not called to go, we are called to SEND. Verse 6 again.

“You will do well to SEND them on their way in a manner worthy of God.”

For those Christians, it was Gaius having them in his home, and then giving them something to get to the next town on. Maybe for you and me it’s giving our regular offering to the church here to speed those people on the back wall to their next town. Darla could tell you the exact numbers, but it’s between 25 and 30 percent of all the money given here goes out into missions from this church. So if you gave a dollar today when you came in, at least a quarter of that won’t stay here even to fund my salary or Jordyn’s or to keep the lights and the heat up. It’s leaving here and going to support the work of the gospel “in a manner worthy of God” out there.

Or maybe on top of your giving through this church you have missionaries that you support personally. 

Missionaries go out for the sake of the Name (v.7). And they need us to support and SEND them. And when they are coming back through to show them hospitality.

That is so important!  Have you ever taken a missionary out to dinner? Have you ever had one in your home? If not, you are missing out. You are missing out on a blessing. You are missing out on being a blessing and working together for the truth. And you are missing out on receiving a blessing, too. What a blessing it was to have Fred and Cindy here back in October, wasn’t it? 

Hospitality so important in the New Testament. It often gets overlooked, but do a word search some time on “hospitality” on your Bible app, and you’ll see that Christians are supposed to use our homes and other resources for the sake of our gospel mission. And we are missing the mark and missing out if we don’t.

Sadly, that was true of a man named “Diotrephes.” He was not working together for the truth. Look what John says about him in verse 9.

“I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will have nothing to do with us.”

Yikes! How would you like to show up like that in a letter from the Old Man?!

John has sent a letter to this church (probably the same one as Gaius was in but it’s not clear, perhaps it’s the letter of 2 John to the Chosen Lady and her children, we’re not sure), but what we are sure about is that this guy Diotrephes has ignored the letter and the Elder who wrote it!

“Diotrephes...will have nothing to do with us.”

In fact, it’s worse than that. He’s been bad-mouthing the Old Man. V.10

“So if I come, I will call attention to what he [Diotrephes] is doing, gossiping maliciously about us [talking nonsense, spreading destructive lies about John]. Not satisfied with that, he [[Diotrephes] refuses to welcome the brothers. He also stops those who want to do so and puts them out of the church” (vv.9-10).

He’s not just “not working together for the truth,” he’s actively doing the opposite!

He refuses to support the gospel-sharing missionaries, and he gets in the way of fellow Christians who want to support them! He actually kicks them out of the church. That’s what we call “a church boss.”

These are some of the worst kinds of unhealthy Christians. Those who actively oppose the true work of the true gospel while still trying to act like a church leader. Ugh and Yuck!

What was his problem? In verse 9, John diagnosed his heart. He says that Diotrephes loved to be first. e loved prominence and preeminence and power. And nothing will tear apart a church faster than that.

And you know what I worry about when I read verses 9 and 10? I don’t worry about encountering a Diotrephes at Lanse Free Church. I worry about BECOMING a Diotrephes at Lanse Free Church. Because I know how tempting it can be for me to love to be first.

That’s why John says what he says in verse 11.

“Dear friend [Agapayte, Beloved], do not imitate what is evil but what is good.” 

Don’t be like Diotrephes.

The biggest reason why John brings this guy up is to warn Gaius to not become like him. John will deal with him. When he gets to be with them face-to-face, he will call him out. They will get this sorted. But John is most concerned about Gaius. He doesn’t want Gaius to (v.11) “imitate what is evil but what is good.”

Let’s make that point number three and last.

#3. WATCH FOR GOOD EXAMPLES OF LIVING OUT THE TRUTH.

And imitate them! V.11

“Anyone who does what is good is from God. Anyone who does what is evil has not seen God.”

That’s how important it is to walk in the truth. Because it shows whether or not we are actually the children of God. John says this kind of thing over and over again both in his Gospel (quoting Jesus) and in his letters, especially 1 John. The point is that if we genuinely are the children of God, it will show in how we live our lives. And so we should keep our eyes open for good examples of godly living and follow their example!

Like Demetrius, for example. Verse 12.

“Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone–and even by the truth itself. We also speak well of him, and you know that our testimony is true.”

Now, we don’t know much about this Demetrius guy either. My guess is that he’s the one carrying this letter to Gaius. He’s the courier. And John is saying, Gaius (my beloved buddy), don’t be like Diotrephes, but do be like Demetrius. He’s one of the good guys. He’s a “good egg.” We all agree. He walks in the truth! So much so that you could say that the truth itself speaks well of Demetrius!

“And I, John, the Elder speak well of Demetrius, and you know I tell the truth!”

Do you see how important reputation is here? What everybody says about everybody else and whether or not it’s good? That’s really important. You can’t control your reputation. But you can you live in such a way as to gain a good one. 

And keep your eyes out for those who have a good one. And learn from them.

Let me ask you this question as we close today:

Beloved, who are you imitating these days?

Who are you keying off of as a disciple of Jesus Christ? Whose life are you watching? Whose reputation are you paying attention to? So many are following some “celebrity influencer” out there. Some talking head on cable news, on social media.  Is their example worth following? Pick your heroes carefully.

Are they a Diotrephes or a Demetrius?

I ask you this because I love you. I love you in the truth.


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Messages in this Series:

01. To the Chosen Lady and Her Children
02. To My Dear Friend Gaius

Sunday, January 05, 2025

“To the Chosen Lady and Her Children”

“To the Chosen Lady and Her Children”
Love in the Truth - 2&3 John
Lanse Evangelical Free Church
January 5, 2025 :: 2 John 1:1-13 

When I was growing up, and leafing through my Bible during a boring sermon (something you can probably all relate to!), I would find these books towards the back, 1, 2, and 3 John, and I thought they were all written by different authors.

I thought it was this guy named "John" and this other guy named "John" and a third guy named "John," and they all wrote these short letters. 1, 2, 3 John.

But, I came to understand later that it’s much more likely that they were all written by the same John. In fact, they were probably written by the same John that wrote the Gospel of John which we studied all last year. John the Gospelwriter.

The style is the same, the substance is the same, and he uses the same words over and over again. Words like: Love, Truth, Command, Teach, Children, Walk, and Trust. Simple words but profound words. Like a little child can understand them, and yet an old person never gets to the bottom of them.

I think it’s the same John as who wrote the book we looked at last week, John the Revelator. The guy who ran with Peter to the tomb and who one day was exiled to a prison island. That guy named John.

Here he calls himself, “The Elder.”

This is a letter, and in those days, the author of a letter would put his or her name first. Like our emails do. Whom it’s from. John, who for a variety of reasons is fairly shy to use his name, put down, “The Elder.” 

Which could mean “The Old Man.” That’s the basic meaning of the word “presbuteros” from which we get the word “presbyterian” like my Presbyterian pastor friend Dan here. 

The older men in a village were those who would be called upon to lead. The older men in a church family were those who were called upon to lead the congregation. Not just any old men but those who were mature in their faith. We just had several of our church elders stand up here, and some of them are younger men, but they are mature Christian men who are called to lead the church in maturity.

John is speaking as one of them. As an elder. Probably an older elder.

Before he was exiled, John the Gospelwriter, John the Revelator, John the Elder wrote some letters to some of the people and the churches that he oversaw and loved.

A few years ago, we studied 1 John together, but we have never studied 2 and or 3 John during my time as your pastor. [Message update: I later found that I had preached a sermon on 3 John back in 2009!] So I thought it was high time we did that at the beginning of this year. This week, we’ll study 2 John, and next week, Lord-willing, we’ll look at 3 John. A very short series about the shortest two books in the whole Bible. 3 John is the shortest at 219 words in the original Greek. 2 John has 245. Not a big long treatise. Just a short little letter.

A letter to, and here’s our title for today from verse 1:

“To the chosen lady and her children, whom I love in the truth and not I only, but also all who know the truth–because of the truth, which lives in us and will be with us forever.” 

What a great start!

Who is this that John is writing to?

I’m not 100% sure, but I have a good idea. It’s kind of weird. John doesn’t use his own given name, and he doesn’t use the given names for his recipients either. Not sure why. Perhaps he thought the authorities might be reading his mail, and he didn’t want to get someone into trouble. In 3 John, we’ll see next week, he does use the name of the recipient.

Some people have thought that this was a lady’s name. The Greek word for “Chosen” is “Electay,” so some people have thought that John was writing to “Lady Electa and her children.” And that’s possible, but I think unlikely as you read the rest of the letter. It doesn’t seem like it was written to just one woman.

I think John is writing to a local church. The “Chosen Lady” is John’s fancy way of talking about a church family that John loves. And “her children” are the church members, the disciples from that church.

Maybe I should start calling you all, “The Chosen Lady of Lanse.”

Chosen. 

Followers of Jesus Christ know that they are loved by God in particular, by name. We are wanted. We are known. We are loved. We are chosen. [See 1 Peter 1:1-2.] Not because of anything great about us but because of God’s great love. 

God has placed His love on His people. And while we don’t understand how all of that works, especially with our own responsibility to choose Him, we know and draw great comfort from knowing that we are chosen in Christ.

Lady.

The church is often personified as a bride. On Thursday, Heather and I got to attend the wedding of Dan and Jen’s daughter Rachel in Meadville. It was glorious, and the bride was resplendent. Every bride is a picture of what the Church is supposed to be–the joyful, radiant, beloved of Christ. I think that John is using this kind of language to write to a particular local church that he loved to remind them that they are loved. Very loved. Loved, not just by John the Elder but by God Himself.

“To the chosen lady and her children.”

I think that’s a great place to start as we step into 2025. With the love of God.

Church, we are loved by God. 

We sang about it this morning:

“For God so loved
The world that He gave us
His One and Only
Son to save us
Whoever believes in Him 
Will live forever.”
- We The Kingdom (2020)

And those who believe in Him find that they were chosen to believe in Him before the foundation of the world (see Ephesians 1:1-14).

They are loved. Very loved. Beloved. You are loved. Very loved by God Himself. 

If you are a believer, you are a child of the chosen lady, and this letter is for you.

John says that he loves this church. Look again at verse 1.

“The elder, To the chosen lady and her children, whom I love in the truth...” 

That’s the name of our very short series because he says the exact same thing in 3 John.

“Whom I love in the truth.”

That could mean, “Whom I truly love.” But I think it means more.

I think he means that he loves them inside of and through the truth. His love is in the truth, and the truth leads him to love them.

It’s both/and not either/or.

Some of us like the word “love” better than we like the word “truth.” And some of us like the word “truth” better than we like the word “love.” But John likes them both the same at the same time.

They go together like peanut butter and...chocolate!

Love in the truth.

If you love someone in falsity, then you don’t really love them. If you love people with lies, you aren’t really loving them no matter what you say. And if you only care about the truth and not other people, then your truth is a lie. But John says that he loves the chosen lady and her children IN THE TRUTH.

And he’s not the only one. Verse 1 again. “...and not only I, but also all who know the truth.”

If you know the truth, then you love the church. John says (v.2) “...because of the truth, which lives in us and will be with us forever.”

Now, you know that this is John writing because of how he circles and weaves around. John is not like Paul who says something and then presents all of his arguments for it and then moves on to the next thing. John circles and weaves and returns again and again to the same ideas and shows how they are all interconnected. Like a giant web.

Here, the focus is on the truth:

“All who know the truth...
Because of the truth...
The truth lives in us...
The truth will be with us forever.”

And because of that truth, we love in truth. Do you see how it’s all interconnected?

What is the truth?


Well, John taught us in his Gospel that Jesus said that He is the Truth. Jesus said, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life.”  The truth is the way things really are. The truth of the good news of Jesus Christ is how the world actually is. And John says that, for believers, the truth lives in us and will be with us forever.

And we get more than that! Look at verse 3.

“Grace, mercy and peace from God the Father and from Jesus Christ, the Father's Son, will be with us in truth and love.”

Grace, mercy, and peace.

That’s my prayer for us in 2025. That we would experience grace (unmerited favor, getting what we don’t deserve and not getting what we do deserve), mercy (getting the help which we desperately need but couldn’t provide for ourselves), and peace (inner peace, peace with others, and peace with God) from God the Father and from Jesus Christ (and we know that where they are the Spirit is, too).

That we would have grace, mercy, and peace in truth and love. Doesn’t that just sound wonderful? John promises that it will be ours if we belong to Jesus. All of the grace, all of the mercy, and all of the peace that we need in Christ.

That’s how John starts his letter. That’s the “hello.”

Now, John says that he loves this chosen lady and her children. He loves them “in the truth.” And that means that he might have to say some hard things to them. If you love someone in the truth, then you tell them what they need to hear not just what they want to hear.

Especially if you are “the Elder,” and it’s your job to try to help keep the church on track.

John has some concerns. John is encouraged by some things about this church, and he’s got some worries for them, as well. He wants to make sure they stay on track. He has some things he wants them to do. nd I think that they are all very applicable and appropriate for us as we start a new year as a church, as well.

I’d like to summarize them in three points. Here’s number one.

#1. WALK IN THE TRUTH.

Look at verse 4.

“It has given me great joy to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as the Father commanded us.”

You want to know how to make the Old Man happy? Have him run into disciples who are truly living out what Jesus taught us. Walk in the truth.

Apparently, John has encountered some of the children of the chosen lady (some of the disciples from that church). And they were "doing the thing!" They were “walking in the truth,” that is, that they were believing the truth and living in light of the truth. These disciples were obviously living the way that Jesus had taught them. They had received the gospel and were living as though it were true (which it is!).  I call that “doing the thing.”

They weren’t just talking the talk, they were walking the walk. They were “doing the thing.”


Hooray! These “kids” are following the gospel! These “kids” are living it out. Their lifestyle, their ethical conduct, their life choices reflected the truth that have been taught. Nothing makes a Christian pastor happier than to see disciples living like disciples. Christ-followers living like Christ-followers. Men and women conforming their life to the truth.

This wedding we were at on Thursday is a good example. Both Danny and Rachel were student athletes at Grove City College. Rachel was a swimmer ,and Danny was on the lacrosse team (whatever that is). And they had like all of their teammates at this wedding. Four years worth of two big teams at this one wedding. There were so many young people. There was like 250 people at this wedding and at last 100 of them were young adults! And they were so happy for Danny and Rachel.

And many of them [most of them?] were followers of Jesus Christ.

So when Pastor Dan (Pastor Dad) gave the wedding message, they were all nodding away in agreement. Dan was talking about this new couple building their marriage on the cornerstone of Jesus Christ. Danny’s last name is Stone, so they were “setting the stones” for their marriage. Get it? And this whole group of young people were enthusiastically on board with this teaching.

I’m sure that was encouraging to you, Dan and Jen. It gave you great joy.

But these “children” in verse 4 are not just young people, not just young disciples. This is any and all of the disciples from a given church of any age walking in the truth. 

I think about when Pastor Kerry reports about any of our Free Churches and how they are living out the truth in their communities, and how much joy that brings to him and to all of us who hear about it.

We shouldn’t just obey because it makes the elders happy, but it is so encouraging when we see someone living (v.4), “just as the Father commanded us.”

So here’s our application:

Find out what is true, and walk in it.

As you step into 2025, find out what is true and walk in it. Learn what Jesus has said and do that!

And here’s one of the key things that Jesus has said. It’s point number two.

#2. WALK IN LOVE.

Specifically love for other followers of Jesus. Look at verse 5.

“And now, dear lady, I am not writing you a new command but one we have had from the beginning. I ask that we love one another.”

You see why I don’t think the “lady” is a lady? I don’t think that John would say to some woman, “I ask that we love one another.” No, I think he’s talking to a whole church. A lot of these “you’s” in this epistle are “plural you.” Like we said last week, “y’inz.”

John is reminding this church, this chosen lady, that we Christians are supposed to love one another.

Does that sound familiar? I think we just recited our memory verse from last year. John 13:34&35 which is blazoned across the bulletin board in the foyer. On the night He was betrayed, Jesus told His disciples:

“A new command I give [y’inz]: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

In verse 5, John says that that command is no longer new. They’ve had it since that fateful night. They’ve had it since Jesus showed them how. But even though it’s not new, it’s still very much in effect.

“I ask that we love one another.”

John got the message. The question is, have we? Do we love one another? Do we walk in love? 

It’s not easy. It’s not easy to love in general, but sometimes some of the hardest people to love are other Christians. We are different from each other. We are not all the same. And we tend to think that another Christian ought to know better and act better, so it’s harder to extend grace and mercy towards them.

Often we wouldn’t pick each other. You know other groups get to pick who they love. You love your family. You love your political tribe. You love your sports team. You love your fandom. But we Christians don’t get to pick. We just get to love.

And not just when we are lovable. Jesus didn’t just love us when we were lovable. He loved us when we were His enemies!

How are you doing at loving other Christians? If you remember, Jesus went on and on about it in the Gospel of John. It’s not always easy to do, but He showed us the way, and He expects it of us. That’s the point of verse 6.

“I ask that we love each other. And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands. As you have heard from the beginning, his command is that you walk in love.”
 
This kind of love is not optional. There are kinds of love that are optional. You don’t have to feel affection for someone else. That comes and goes. But this kind of love, sacrificial, committed, seeking the best for someone else, that is not optional for followers of Christ. We are commanded to walk in love.

I know it was our theme for ‘24, but I hope we don’t set aside in ‘25! Let’s make every effort to walk in love this year.

John has one more major things to ask in this short letter. And it’s probably the thing he’s most worried about for this particular church at this particular time. He’s concerned about some false teachers that are in circulation.

#3. WATCH OUT FOR FALSE TEACHING.

Walk in the truth.
Walk in love.
And watch out for false teaching and false teachers. Look at verse 7.

“Many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist. Watch out that you do not lose what you have worked for, but that you may be rewarded fully” (vv.7-8).

Jesus warned His disciples that this would happen. False teachers with a false message would spill out into the world. You know how we have missionaries who take the gospel out into the world? Well, there are missionaries who take the anti-gospel out into the world, as well.

They spread lies about all kinds of things but especially about Jesus. Do you see what lie these particular false teachers were spreading? Verse 7 says that they do not acknowledge or confess that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh.

They don’t believe in Advent!
They don’t believe in Christmas.
They don’t believe in the Incarnation.

They don’t believe that Jesus Christ is God in the flesh.

They don’t believe in John chapter 1, verse 14. “The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth” (Jn. 1:14).

These guys say, “No, that’s not true. Jesus is not the Son of God or God the Son. And He’s not shown us God’s glory. And He’s not come from the Father. And He’s definitely not come in the flesh. He’s not become one of us.”

Now there are all kinds of variations on this false teaching. And the church has had to encounter and counter all the variations throughout church history. And this is not the only dangerous false teaching that is out there.

But this false teaching is heinous because if you believe this, then you are denying the salvation that Jesus was bringing by becoming one of us and dying as one of us. If Jesus Christ has not come in the flesh, then He did not die in the flesh nor pay for our sins in His death nor rise again in the flesh nor come again in the flesh to give us eternal life.

You see what John says about someone who spreads this kind of teaching in verse 7?

“Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist.”

Everybody wants to know who the antichrist is?!

John has told us about the antichrist in 1 John chapter 2 and 2 John verse 7. That’s the only places in the Bible that uses that word “antichrist” which means “instead of Christ” and “against Christ.”

And John tells us who is the antichrist. It is the person who goes around teaching that Jesus Christ has not come in the flesh.

Now, there’s more to the theology of antichrist, but it’s not less than this.

Someday, there will be an antichrist of antichrists who does this to the deception and false teaching to a degree that nobody else ever has and who tries to take the very place of Jesus. But John says, “You want to know who is the antichrist? It’s a missionary who says, ‘Jesus Christ has not come and is not coming in the flesh.’ Stay far away from them!”

“Watch out that you do not lose what you have worked for, but that you may be rewarded fully.”

Many translations have the word “we” in verse 8 (including the updated NIV). 

“Watch out that you do not lose what we have worked for...” John and the other apostles have been diligently sharing the truth with them for decades. They are willing to be imprisoned for the truth. They are willing to die for the truth of Jesus Christ.

Don’t run away from this truth! But stick with it and be rewarded. Look at verse 9.

“Anyone who runs ahead and does not continue in the teaching of Christ does not have God; whoever continues in the teaching has both the Father and the Son.”

That’s how important this is! John says, “Don’t run off with some false teaching that proclaims to be new and improved and better and advanced.” That’s what he means by “run ahead.” As if this other gospel was a better gospel.

It isn’t. There is no better gospel. Stick with the gospel of Jesus Christ or you do not have God (v.9).

Those are scary words. But you don’t have to be scared. Verse 9 says continue in the teaching (walk in the truth) and you will have both the Father and the Son (and we know the Holy Spirit, as well).

Beware of false teaching and false teachers.

Now, in verse 10 and 11, John warns the chosen lady and her children to not take these false teachers into their homes.

He’s not saying that we shouldn’t love people who are caught up in false teaching. We definitely should! And we can feed them and house them if they are in trouble.

But we should not support them and their work. That’s what he’s saying in verse 10.

“If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching [the true gospel of Christ coming in the flesh], do not take him into your house or welcome him.  Anyone who welcomes him shares in his wicked work” (vv.10-11).

You see, in that day, there was no Holiday Inn Express. And if a traveling teacher came to town, they looked for a home to stay in. And if you took someone in and made your home a base camp for their mission work, then you were endorsing them, certifying them, investing in them, and supporting them.

In many ways, like how you support me. You just gave me a generous Christmas gift. Thank you for that! Heather and I really appreciate it. And you support us all throughout the year. But if I start preaching a false gospel, then you should toss me out on my ear. Cut off my housing allowance. Cut of my salary. Do not “welcome me” in that way.

And you shouldn’t send money to false teachers you hear on the radio or see on tv or who send you letters in the mail. John is warning us to not be aiding and abetting the enemy.

Watch out for false teaching and don’t support them.

That doesn’t mean don’t love them. We are supposed to be the most loving people on the planet.

But we love in the truth. We love the truth. It’s inside of us. It will be with us forever. And so we support the truth. We don’t support the lies. If you support the false teachers, you share in their wicked work (v.11).

In 2025, we must be careful what messages we receive and what messages we amplify. Because we love the truth, and we love in truth.

John loved this church so much. He couldn’t wait to visit them in person. Verse 12.

“I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete. The children of your chosen sister send their greetings.”

I think that’s the church John’s at right now. The disciples at this church send their love to the disciples at that church. “The children of your chosen sister send their greetings.”

There’s much to be learned from verses 12 and 13, but he says something very similar in 3 John, so we’ll save that for next week and move over to Table.

But feel the love there, at least. John loves them. He longs to be with them. The one church loves the other church. And under it all is the love of God. The chosen sister sends love to the chosen lady. 
Because they are loved. Very loved. 

We are loved. Very loved. Beloved in Jesus Christ.

Beloved, in 2025, let us walk in the truth, watching out for false teachers and false teaching, and walk in love just as were taught from the beginning and show how by our own Lord Jesus Christ.


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Wednesday, January 01, 2025

More Highlights of Reading from 2024

While I’m reporting on my book lists from last year, here are few more highlights from a really solid year of reading:

Intellect of the Year - Dorothy L. Sayers

The brilliant mind with which I interacted the most this year (aside from John the Gospelwriter whose book I taught to Lanse Free Church) was again Dorothy L. Sayers. Last year, as we motored throughout the United Kingdom, I began reading the collections of Sayers’ letters edited by her friend, Barbara Reynolds

Last month, I finished the last two volumes of her letters (right up to her death in 1957), and I must say that I will miss her. Sayers was a genius whose mind was alive with scholarship, passion, precision, humor, and Christian truth. Her wide-ranging writing (children’s literature, detective fiction, humourous plays, dogmatical pageants, poetic translations) was incredibly prodigious and insightful. I’m so glad to have come to know her.

Thanks to the National Portrait Society for permission to use this image.

Audiobooks: Harrowing, Hilarious, and Historical

I’m more of a “podcast guy” than a “full audiobook guy,” but I really enjoyed imbibing several books this way in 2024, especially How to Stay Married by Harrison Scott Key. If “enjoyed” is the right word to describe the almost visceral experience of listening to Key tell the harrowing story of his marriage? It’s 100% funny, 100% scary, 100% bonkers, and 100% profound. [Read Brett McCracken's take at The Gospel Coalition.]

I also relished a deep dive into the history of Marvel Comics in Marvel Comics: The Untold Story by Sean Howe, learned a lot about Christian rock and roll (for good and ill) in Why Should the Devil Have All the Good Music? by Gregory Alan Thornbury, and stayed enthralled by the offbeat story-spinning of Charles Portis in The Dog of the South.

Inspector Joseph French

I always have at least one story going about a detective, a sailor, or a spy. 

In 2024, I continued my attempt to consume all of the “Inspector French” novels of Freeman Wills Crofts. By my count, I read 9 of them this year. 

Joseph French is a chief inspector with Scotland Yard, and he does yeoman’s work as a detective. He always goes to painstaking lengths to break an alibi, to get to the bottom of things, and to bring his man to justice. They are not always exciting adventures because good police work is often repetitive and routine. But the plots are often ingenious and the endings are always satisfying.

A New Book by My Favorite Living Novelist 

In April, Leif Enger released I Cheerfully Refuse to the world, and my pre-ordered copy arrived on the day it came out. Enger is my favorite living novelist, and I cheerfully acquiesced to dive into his most recent offering.

To be honest, while I was happy to be reading the newest Enger novel, I didn’t really know how to access it. I couldn’t quite figure out what the genre was or how the dystopian world worked in the story he was telling. A sui generis genre is exciting to encounter but unfamiliarity can breed confusion.

After I read it, I listened to a great interview Enger did with Jonathan Rogers at the Habit Podcast where he explained more of the backstory of and inspirational sources for I Cheerfully Refuse including its many allusions to the saga of Orpheus.

I’ll understand it better next time around.

Perhaps the best part of reading I Cheerfully Refuse was how it reminded me how much I love Enger’s writing and propelled me to re-read and delight in all three of his previous novels. 

Bonus: Do yourself a favor and listen to this talk by Leif Enger on reading for pleasure.

Welcome to 2025, another year of adventures with books!